Table of Contents
What Do I Say
What to Text a Girl
The Date
Taking a Girl Home
Stay Humble
Copyright
Copyright 2018 by Max Smith
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First Printing, 2018
My Story
I would highly recommend you read this chapter because I have made many mistakes throughout my journey that I regret. If you avoid these mistakes, you will have more fun and close relationships with the girls you meet.
Ever since I was a kid my family would constantly move out to different areas or even different countries throughout the years. It was usually because my dad found a better paying job. This constant and frequent change of houses and school led me to become the loneliest Ive ever been.
Every 2-3 years my parents would decide to move out causing me to always lose all my friends. Every time I had to change schools I had to go through the awkwardness of making new friends, having no idea where all my classes where and always being the new kid.
Even though being the new kid led to popularity, it never lasted very long. Once I started to build my social circle and started to get settled it was time to move to a new place again. And the cycle goes on and on.
By the time I was 15 I moved for the last time to a British school. All the moving around led me to easily make friends because of my personality. I have done it so many times it became second nature for me.
I wasnt however popular by any means. In fact, I had very minimal friends, I was a nerd, I loved video games, I wasnt attractive at all (super skinny, bad posture, terrible acne, bucked teeth), I was super shy (I wouldnt even raise my hand in class because I was so shy) and I never ever talked to girls. My mind would go blank every time a girl would start a conversation with me.
This all however changed when I met a girl from my school. I cant remember how exactly I met her but I just know we used to text each other a lot.
We slowly started to talk to each other and she started touching me. I was extremely shy so I never knew how to hold a conversation and always blushed and froze every time she would touch me.
I would always give her compliments and she would show interest back, I would buy her a massive box of her favourite chocolate when she was upset, I basically did everything the Hollywood movies told me to do to get the girl.
I would even leave my best friends to be with her to show her how much I liked her. I even went as far as writing an apology letter and hand delivering it to her door at 5 oclock in the morning one day when I upset her. Her house was a 45-minute walk, but that didnt bother me.
I would ask her if she wanted to be my girlfriend multiple times but every time I asked she would change conversation or say Give it another month even though I have been talking to her for over 7 months.
There were times where I had enough and I told her that We should stop talking to each other for a while or that We should move on even though I really liked her. All the times I sent her a text like that she would ask me to meet her and when I did she would hug me and tell me to not stop talking to her and trying to manipulate me into staying in this weird manipulative relationship (we were never an official couple by the way).
Long story short the day came where she said the words no guy wants to hear We should just be friends. I admit I cried over this text but in hindsight I appreciate her because she has made me the man I am today.
I just got heart broken by the first girl I truly liked and I was furious.
I became a different person after this brake up. I started not giving a **** and it felt awesome. I would talk to multiple girls and I wouldnt care what I said or if she liked what I said. I would tease girls and make sexual jokes (even though I was a virgin), I wouldnt start becoming shy when girls would touch me and girls would respond to me even though I was not attractive. I would rarely give them a compliment and would never buy them anything but somehow they would text me and confess their feelings for me.
I wouldnt just talk to girls. I would make more guy friends as well because I was so confident and start joking around with teachers. Next thing you know I was one of the most popular people in school which made more girls attracted to me (We will talk about why later).
It wasnt all positive experiences with girls though. I had my fair shares of stalkers, really needy girls, creepy girls, girls that would show up at my house, girls fighting over me, twin sisters liking me. When I tell you that girls will be chasing you, at first it sounds awesome but you will slowly come to realise that it is not all that great.
Within 2 months my phone would blow up with messages from girls. I remember there was a time I had to talk to all the girls on Facebook from my laptop because my phone would slow down. It couldnt handle all the messages. Remember the girl that broke my heart? Well I used to talk to her 2 best-friends. They both admitted to having feelings towards me.
It didnt take long for me to get my first real girlfriend and she was the hottest girl in school. She was a Romanian goddess with a gorgeous face and a perfect sexy body. Anyone I came across would tell me that she is out of my league and that I was really lucky to have her. What they didnt know though was that I slowly started to not feel that attracted to her. She became very needy. She would text me multiple times a day, she would want send me cringe photos about true love and she wouldnt leave me alone.
I was with my friends, she was there. I was eating, she was there. I wanted to go to the toilet, she would wait outside. I hated it. I realised something very powerful. I saw the same characteristics she had on me, before I became good with girls.
What I didnt realise at the time was a started to develop these characteristic traits that made women respond to me. I later on realised that they were called Alpha Male Traits and I saw a pattern. Every guy that women would chase had these characteristics about them. (We will talk about these Alpha Male Traits later on)
I wanted to get even better with girls so I would search on the internet for How to get better with girls and How to become more attractive. I came across a very popular book called The Game by Neil Strauss. This is when I got introduced to the world of pick up. The book would talk about a man that goes by the name of Mystery who was extremely good with girls. I wanted to be like Mystery so I picked up his book called The Mystery Method and watched every single episode of his TV show The Pick-Up Artist.
I started to try out Day Game as the pickup artists call it. This is when you try to attract women throughout the day. Most of the times it will be a girl or group of girls walking down the street or they might be shopping / having coffee etc.
I had to walk to college and the only way of getting there is to walk through a busy town centre full of shops. As you can guess, it is always packed with women. I remember I couldnt approach a single girl for three days straight. Sometimes I would manage to get a sound to come out of my mouth while I extend my hand to get their attention but I would freeze.
I havent managed to talk to a girl yet because my anxiety got the best of me, but that didnt stop me from continuing to study attraction.
At this point I had a rough understanding of what pick up was all about. I didnt however believe in some of the techniques that where taught in the books I read but I decided to give it another go.
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