T he Ultimate Guide to Picking Up a Woman:
How to Get a Girlfriend or Friend With Benefits in 30 Days or Less
Table of Contents
Introduction.....
Chapter 1: Finding a girl....
Chapter 2: Be sure that the feeling is mutual..
Chapter 3: Show her that you care and be honest about it..
Chapter 4: Be confident..
Chapter 5: Be ready to seal the deal
Conclusion
Introduction
I want to thank and congratulate you for downloading the book , The Ultimate Guide to Picking Up a Woman: How to Get a Girlfriend or Friend With Benefits in 30 Days or Less .
This book contains proven steps and strategies that will help you achieve this goal.
Getting a girlfriend is an extremely important aspect of a man's life. Unless you are wealthy or good looking, you have probably noticed that it's not easy to make an attractive lady your girlfriend. You might believe that fate will allow the girl of your dreams to walk magically into your life. While such things are possible, you could end up waiting for a very long time. Like most everything in life, good things usually come to the people who actually go out and seek them.
It is also well known that the man is usually more aggressive, and the woman is more passive. What this means is that, as a man, you need to be the one that is going out and trying to make the connection. This is the natural way that it works for the majority of most people. While there are exceptions to this rule, they are not as common as many men would like them to be.
Keeping this basic thing in mind, it becomes obvious that as a male, you need to be in control of your life both emotionally and physically, so you can go out there and meet the woman of your dreams. This book will provide you with some very important guidelines that will allow you to do this.
Thanks again for downloading this book, I hope you enjoy it!
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Chapter 1: Finding a Girl
If you want to get a girlfriend, you have to go out into the world and actually meet girls. What you have to do is look for different ways to get them involved with different aspects of your life. If you get out and meet lots of new people, then you will be much more likely to meet a wide variety of potential girlfriends. You should also consider joining different clubs and organizations.
If you have a lot of friends (especially people who know a lot of single girls), then you will gain access to a much wider social circle. What this does is that it allows you to come into contact with more and more girls. You will also be able to speak and behave in ways that are more likely to attract a potential mate.
Now, if you have found a girl who makes you feel really special, then she could very easily turn out to be an awesome girlfriend. However, asking a girl to be your girlfriend could lead to things like marriage, family, and children. This is why it is very important for you to realize what your exact motives might be before you go any further.
If she is the right girl, then she will have lots of good qualities that will make every aspect of your relationship richer and fuller over time.
Signs Of A Good Girlfriend
Here are a few signs that a girl will be either a good girlfriend or an awesome friend with benefits:
- You really like to spend time with her. Whenever you are not together, you are waiting until you will see each other again.
- She makes you want to be a better person. Her intelligence and wit make you want to read a lot more books and work harder at all of the things that you do.
- She is completely committed to you and only you. If she has shown her loyalty by showing up to watch you and your band perform, or if she brings you chicken soup when you are feeling sick, then there is a good chance that she will be able to transition smoothly into the being a really great girlfriend.
- You have many different common interests from your favorite sports teams to your love for knitting quilts. Although you do not have to share all of your interests together, you do need to have to have plenty of things in common, so you can have plenty of cool things to do when you spend time together.
Signs of a Bad Girlfriend
If she is not the right sort of girl for you, or if you are not in the relationship for the right kind of reasons, then you are probably going to be much better off without her.
Here are some signs that you should not take your relationship to the next level:
- If she is constantly expressing interest in other men. If you know that she is seeing other men and not making any plans to stop this sort of activity, then there is a very good chance that she is not going to stop pursuing these kinds of extra-curricular activities once she does become your girlfriend.
- You only want to be with her because you are alone, or you are in need of some action between the sheets. Usually, one night stands and casual hook-ups work best for these kinds of needs. Having a genuine girlfriend is a very real commitment. You should not ask any girl to make it official unless you really do care about her, and not because she can fulfill your physical desires.
Chapter 2: Be Sure That the Feeling Is Mutual
Make sure that she really likes you. If she is sending you mixed signals, then you should try and spend more time with her until you are feeling a lot more confident about how she genuinely feels.
Do not be too early
Avoid asking too early! If you're only just beginning to get to know her, and you immediately ask her to be your girlfriend, she might say no because she doesn't know you well enough, and the resulting awkwardness might decrease your chances of being together. Furthermore, she will probably think you're a bit strange (in a not so great way).
Listen to her words, and note her body language. Do you get the impression that she wants to be around you? You can pick up on this pretty easily if you concentrate on her actions.
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