Bruce Bryans - Attract The Right Girl: How To Find Your Perfect Girl And Make Her Chase You For A Relationship

Attract The Right Girl

The Official Guide For Finding Your Dream Girl And Being The Man She Cant Resist

By Bruce Bryans

www.BruceBryans.com

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Introduction

Sometimes I think back on how I used to be when I was trying to attract and build relationships with women. Its enjoyable to me because Im able to see how far Ive come and how much Ive grown as a man. It gives me a sense of perspective on whats actually important in life and whats not so important; especially when it comes to getting that one dream girl.

I think back on the kinds of women that I used to date and I realize that no matter how gorgeous some of them might have appeared to be on the surface, they all had some sort of emotional baggage or character flaw that would just end up driving me crazy.

I mean, no matter how pretty, cute, fine, or gorgeous she was I just couldnt seem to find a woman who was free from all the drama so to speak. In fact, one time it got so bad that I ended up in a relationship with this one girl who was obsessively jealous, manipulative, and a total emotional shipwreck.

It was hell-on-earth.

I remember it so vividly because thats when I began to seriously consider where my life was headed. I started to wonder what kind of man I was if all I seemed to attract were these extremely damaged women. In reality it wasnt a fun time for me, I can remember that much.

Of course, it was kind of fun in the sense that I was playing the field and having a good time, but it was costing me my peace of mind, life success, and long-term happiness. I must actually thank her some day because that experience did help (force) me to want to change the kind of man I was so that I could find a phenomenal, drama-free woman to build a meaningful relationship with.

And you know what?

I soon realized that no matter how beautiful, gorgeous, smart, funny, or sexy a woman was if she didnt have a beautiful CHARACTER, she was a complete waste of my time. I refused to lower my standards and focused on dating highly attractive women who also had hearts of gold.

It became that serious for me.

I eventually determined NOT to date women based solely on physical attractiveness or mutual chemistry alone. I figured out that without a strong character, it was impossible for me to have the kind of relationship that few people ever experience in this world.

I realized that only a woman that embodied things like honesty, sincerity, kindness, loyalty, respect for men, and gracefulness could keep me interested for a very long time. Without these kinds of qualities, no woman could or would be able to build a deeply intimate and powerful relationship with me.

I wanted a woman that embodied that which was good in the world and beautiful IN a woman. I wanted to have the kind of girlfriend that I could carry before kings and queens and shed be able to fit right in if need be.

In other words, I wanted a woman of noble character.

A womans character or lack thereof can make or break you.

No matter how strong or in control you think you are as a man, dont be fooled. When you decide to develop a relationship with a woman, she WILL have an influence on you no matter what. This is why it is essential to seek out a woman that has the kind of qualities that will add VALUE to your life. And if shes not adding value to you shes definitely taking it away from you.

You dont want that now do you? Of course not!

If you really want a relationship with a Total 10 woman whos drop-dead gorgeous, a blast to be around, and committed to treating you like royalty, you need to learn how to judge a womans worth by her character instead of just her looks. Im not saying that outward beauty isnt important, because it is. In fact, for men, its essential. But dont let her outward appearance determine your level of interest in her.

So if youre currently looking for Ms. Right heres a tip:

Resolve only to date a woman if she possesses the kind of virtuous qualities that you know will add value to your life. By doing this youll find that youll become a beacon for high-quality women, simply because youve made a conscious decision to raise your standards.

In fact, make it a declaration and tell yourself often that you only date high-quality, beautiful women who have hearts of gold. Your boldness in setting a standard WILL set you apart from most guys and youll find yourself assessing a woman based on her actions and behaviors as opposed to her beauty alone.

This will put you in a position of power since youre no longer the kind of guy thats always trying to get a womans approval. Now, youre seeing if a woman has the kind of character that YOU approve of. This makes you out to be a leader in her eyes.

In the pages that follow, Im going to describe a Total Package woman and why having her as a girlfriend will add far more success and happiness to your life.

This kind of woman thinks very differently from the average woman when it comes to dating men and shes quite picky when selecting a potential mate. A woman like this is not only looking for Mr. Right, but a Mr. Right that fits her subconscious image of the ideal man. She has a lot of options and very high standards when it comes to men, because she knows shes worth it.

By learning how to recognize a high-quality woman, youll be in a much better position to attract her into your life. Also, by becoming just as selective as she is when it comes to a potential mate, youll become far more attractive to her.

The first step to getting what you want is to know what you want, and the second step to getting what you want is to DESERVE what you want. This is the secret to attracting the woman of your dreams, because if you dont become highly selective when it comes to dating women, youll continue to fall prey to low-quality women and lackluster relationships.

Tables Of Contents

CHAPTER 1 :

Know What You Want And Deserve What You Want

Increasing Your Standards Gets You Better Results

Dating an average woman that isnt a good match for you or who isnt highly attracted to you or interested in adding value to your life is actually WORSE than being single. Ending up with a woman who isnt compatible is a sentence to a life filled with misery, boredom, and continuous conflict and frustration.

Believe me on this one, you dont want to start a romantic relationship with anyone that doesnt meet your high standards. In the past Ive tried to date women on the basis of hotness alone, and the results have been nothing short of frustrating.

Chemistry and compatibility are extremely important when choosing an ideal girlfriend. But it doesnt stop there.

In order for you to attract and choose the BEST woman for you, one who has the Total Package, you actually have to increase your standards, and clarify exactly what qualities in a woman are most important to you.