Bruce Bryans - What Women Want When They Test Men: How to Decode Female Behavior, Pass a Woman’s Tests, and Attract Women Through Authenticity

What Women Want When They Test Men

How To Decode Female Behavior, Pass A Womans Tests, And Attract Women Through Authenticity

By Bruce Bryans

www.BruceBryans.com

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The Introduction

Lets imagine three men if you will: Richard, Mark, and David.

Richard has no problem attracting women but he cant seem to manage a successful relationship to save his life. He would ultimately walk away from a relationship if a girlfriend became moody or unreasonable. Richard figures that the women he meets are all the same: too demanding, nagging, emotional, and disrespectful.

He becomes completely intolerant of the irrational nature of female behavior and decides to keep his relationships with women light and non-committal. Hed rather be single than deal with the mysterious wiles of a woman in a more intimate relationship. Richard is convinced that hes meant to be a perpetual bachelor.

Mark is a nice guy, a REALLY nice guy. He is always there for his buddies and would do anything to make his woman happy. Anything. He even lets his wife make most, if not all of the decisions. Mark is on his second marriage and it appears that his wife has lost all sexual attraction for him. She loves him, but shes not entirely sure she loves him enough to turn down a more attractive man.

She pushes Mark around with her demands and feels compelled to hassle him for no apparent reason. Mark really wants to be a good husband. So he tries not to upset her further by being unquestionably considerate with her. He is desperate to change things so he pursues her with spectacular gusto; meeting all of her needs, wants, wishes, and wanton desires with double the effort. His wife has grown even more contemptuous of him. She starts considering divorce.

Davids been married to the same woman for several years and shes absolutely mad about him. David isnt the most romantic man on the planet but he does what he can to make his wife feel beautiful, special, desired, and loved.

Hes a straight shooter. He speaks his mind, has strong personal boundaries, and doesnt care what people outside of his honor group thinks about him. Hes especially honest with his wife and isnt afraid to upset her if he knows the truth will make her a better person or will improve their intimacy.

When she gets overly emotional, demanding, or unreasonable, David confidently weathers her storms, stands his ground, and loves her passionately with a stout heart. His wife trusts him one-hundred percent and she feels secure under his leadership. And most importantly, his wife is extremely responsive to him when it comes to sex. In other words, she just cant help herself around him.

Here are three different men, all of the same age and demographic, but with very different experiences with the opposite sex. Whats going on here?

The main difference lies in how these men think and respond to a strange and sometimes misunderstood aspect of a womans behavior: the subconscious need to test a man to determine his capability to lead and capacity to love her .

Millionsno, billions of men around the world have no idea that the women they know and love are testing them. These men go about their lives interacting with the opposite sex in absolute darkness, ignorant to the fact that theyre being judged, appraised, approved, and rejected based on their subconscious reactions to female testing.

To make matters worse, most women have no idea that they test men either. Sure, you have some women who are so experienced in dealing with men that they know exactly how to test a man to get the results theyre looking for. But for the majority of men and women, they have no idea that this sort of gender-based interaction is taking place whether theyre conscious of it or not.

If you had no idea what women want when they test men, youre about to take a journey onto a road less traveled the murkier side of feminine and masculine gender-dynamics. But be warned: you cannot unlearn what you read in this book, no matter how hard you try.

What Women Really Want When They Test Men

Whether its a revealing conversation or an online dating profile, if you closely observe the language women use youll find that they want to be with a man who can confidently take the lead and make decisions, has strong personal boundaries, and knows how to love her likea man.

While different women want very different things there seems to be at least one particular need that pops up consistently. Women usually communicate this need in vague language that some men find confusing. This happens because when women do confess this need it appears counterintuitive to how most men were brought up to interact with women.

For example, heres a small sampling of confessions women have made that men have come across at one point or another:

A lot of men these days have difficulty accepting the truth that many women prefer to be with a man who isnt afraid to stand up to them, who challenges them, and who refuses to be pushed around when a woman (or anything else for that matter) tests him. This is especially true of women who seek a more traditional male-female gender dynamic in their romantic relationships.

While some women understand this and can confidently admit that they need a man who can handle them when they lose themselves in their emotions, others arent as aware of this desire. Unfortunately even when they are aware, theres a chance that they might be too embarrassed to even admit it.

Due to the various social constraints placed on female sexuality women tend to conceal what they are really attracted to in men. The reality of having an overwhelming sexual attraction to a highly assertive, strong-willed, and perhaps even dominant man might make a woman feel ashamed, especially in todays highly feminized and politically-correct society.

Its very RARE for a woman to admit that shes sexually attracted to a man who doesnt always give her what she wants, who speaks his mind, and who challenges her to be more authentic.

Who Should Read This Book?

This book is for the man who wants to wear the pants and keep them on as he relates to that beautiful yet perplexing specimen we call woman. If youre a man and you adhere to the idea of taking the leadership role as you date and relate with women, you will love this book. If youre a man and youd rather the woman youre with take the leadership role , then this book is not for you.