Dominic Mann - Attract Women: How to Become the Dominant, Masculine Alpha Male Women Want to Submit To (How to Be an Alpha Male and Attract Women)

By Dominic Mann

Women have evolved to be intensely and instinctively attracted to strong, dominant alpha malesnot weak, wussy nice guys.

Unfortunately, very few men are born natural alpha males. The majority of alpha males are self-made, learning to develop within themselves the foundational traits that make alpha males the powerful, awe-inspiring, slightly intimidating men that they are.

The purpose of this book is to equip you with the tools you need and the traits you must develop in order to become an alpha male. So dive right in, get started, and discover the nine traits you need to become an alpha male.

Us men love to feel masculine.

Whether it be conquering the competition, dominating a girl in the bedroom, or having a girlfriend ask us to squash a scary big spider or open a pickle jar, we love to show off our manliness. We want to conquer and protect. We want to feel needed and like a man.

This is why us men are intensely attracted to feminine women. Its also why the surest way for a woman to make her man run for the hills is to constantly emasculate him.

And, just as us men love to feel manly, so too do women love to feel womanly.

Heres an example to demonstrate my point:

Have you ever said to a woman, What do you want to do? Im happy to do whatever you want. You might say it when she asks you what movie you want to watch, or when you guys are deciding what restaurant to go to, or whatever. Instead of taking charge of the situation and taking on the masculine role of leading the interaction, you shrug the decision off onto her.

Well, guess what? Women hate this. They not only hate it, but its a huge turn-off. Its unattractive.

You may think shell love you for it because youre being such a nice guy and she gets to do what she wants. But thats not how it works. It just makes you seem like a weak man whos unsure of himself. And remember, nice guys finish last.

You see, women want to feel feminine. They wantand are hardwired to be instinctively attracted toa man who takes charge and leads.

They dont want to be making all the decisions, choosing where to go and what to do. They just want to tag along with a confident, dominant man as he goes about living his exciting, adventurous life.

When women feel feminine, they feel sexy. When women are forced to take on the masculine role because a guy constantly asks, What do you want to do? they feel frustrated and turned off.

You be masculine. Let her be feminine.

Lesson : Let her be feminine by being masculine. Take charge, lead, and let her follow. The masculine leads, the feminine follows. So go about living an exciting, adventurous life and let women tag along. Dont delegate your masculine responsibilities onto them by asking them the distinctly unsexy, What do you want to do?

Being an alpha male requires more than just never asking, What do you want to do?

You need to take charge not just when it comes to where you go and what you do with women. You need to take charge of everything .

See an attractive woman? Go say hi. Talk for a little bit and get her number. She aint going to approach you. Youre the manthats your job.

Want to set up a date with a woman youve met and/or got a number from? Text her and set it up. She aint going to do it for you. Youre the manthats your job. (Totally unrelated piece of advice: Dont call it a date. Thatll scare a lot of women away. Just go meet up for coffee or grab a drink or something of the sort.)

Want to start getting more physical with a woman? Hold her hand. (And, for heavens sake, dont ask her! Just do it. Worst case scenario, shell pull her hand away and youll have to try again later. But I digress.) Put your arm around her. Brush a loose strand of hair into place. Rarely will women initiate physical contact. Youre the manthats your job.

Want to go for the kiss? Hold eye contact, look down at her lips, back up to her eyes, and then lean in and go for it. Youre the man, its your job to initiate the kiss.

Want to take her to bed? Ive got this awesome pool table, lets go play a round. Come have a drink at my place, youve havent had a real martini until youve tried my homemade [X]. I live just round the corner. You can come over, but only if you promise not to try anything. ;) Then, once youre at your/her place, simple physically escalate your way to sex. Youre the man, its your job to take her to bed.

And so on.

Guys who dont take charge, or who wait for just the right moment to escalate the interaction, rarely get the girl.

Lesson : As the man, its your job to take charge of the interaction and lead her. Every step of the way, from hey to lay.

Women want to feel feminine . Do this by being masculine and leading the interaction. You lead, she follows.

Be decisive . Dont constantly ask women what they want to do. Do whatever you want to do and let her tag along. Never drop the attraction-killing, What do you want to do?

Lead every step of the way . Dont just lead by being decisive. Lead the interaction, take initiative, and escalate. Get physical.

Do you want to know the single most unattractive trait in the eyes of women?

Its not a lack of six-pack abs. Its not a single-digit bank balance. No. The single most unattractive trait to women is neediness .

You can have six-pack abs and a seven-figure salary, but if youre a needy dude, shes going to find you sexually repulsive. Thats why you hear of single millionaires and broke guys sleeping with a different girl every weekend. Because while a mans wealth and physical appearance matter to a certain extent, their attractiveness pales in comparison to one thing and one thing only

Confidence.

Lesson : Dont be needy. Dont get all insecure and defensive. These are highly unattractive qualities.

The single most attractive trait to women is confidence . Confidence, confidence, confidence. Its why nice guys finish last and bad boys have girls lining up outside their door. Its why jerks get the girl while poor old Billy Beta gets friend zoned.

Fortunately, however, you dont need to be a jerk to succeed with women. Being an alpha male does not mean being an asshole.

Its not the assholeishness of jerks and bad boys that attracts women. Its the raw, unshakeable confidence.

Confidence demonstrates that youre a masculine man who can catch big buffalo and protect her (and any offspring) from sabertooth tigers.

Insecurity and neediness demonstrate just the opposite. Youre a weak, submissive guy who wont give her the best chance of surviving the harsh evolutionary conditions our ancestors lived in, and thus wont give her the best chance of passing on her genes.

Confidence is king. Which reminds me of a quote a friend of mine showed me a while ago:

Confidence is the fucking key to everything. Its also the key to fucking everything.

Lesson : Want to have the raw sex appeal of an irresistible bad boy? Develop rock-solid confidence. Its the single most attractive trait to women. It is to women what big boobs, a tight butt, and long luscious legs are to us men.