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Before you begin, you should congratulate yourself because you finally realized the need to be an alpha. Eventually, every person will grow tired of being a beta. But not everyone has the willingness to take the first step. This is the first characteristic required to be an alpha male and youve got it.

But thats not all the mindset changes it takes to be successful in this endeavor. Self-confidence is extremely important if you want to be successful in the following weeks. It is also one of the most important traits of alpha males. Unfortunately, this is what most betas lack. And there is a good chance that you havent fully developed your self-confidence yet given that you dont consider yourself an alpha.

Building your Self-Image Above All Else

They say self-confidence takes years to build and only a few insulting or hurtful words to be destroyed. Most people are naturally shy and conscious of how others will perceive them. This is why most people are motivated to strive in pleasing others or being someone that people can look up to.

There are some highly charismatic people that are innately confident. These individuals can easily be identified while theyre at school. They could betalented, good-looking, simply excellent speakers, or a combination of these characteristics. As a result, they will be more active in their social groups and continue to build their self-confidence over time.

Unfortunately, the opposite is true for people who are naturally shy and self-conscious. There are also those who are not yet in touch of their true talents and abilities during the early developmental stages of their social life, specifically in school. Ironically, this is usually the time when they needed to show off the most to gain appreciation of their own selves. In turn, their ability to develop their self-confidence is significantly inhibited ultimately making them the betas in their adult life. They also tend to shy away from public speaking engagements and therefore take fewer opportunities in general.

All in all, this is the problem of most betas if they rely too much on their social image for self-confidence. They inhibit themselves, take fewer opportunities, become less socially active, and lose hope altogether in being the superstar theyre meant to be.

This is why you need to adopt the mindset of self-motivation and disallow your perception of yourself from shrinking based on the opinion of others. In other words, you should liberate yourself from your social image and focus first on your self-image. Remember that once youre an alpha, you can enjoy a brand new social image for as long as you like.

Being Self-Reliants

The next chapter consists of strategies that use your strengths and weaknesses for self-motivation. For now, you need to focus on stopping yourself from being concerned of your social image. It may sound counterintuitive at first, especially since this book is all about becoming an alpha. But remember that you need the integrity to make positive changes solely out of self-respect not because you will receive tons of praise and ego-boosters from your peers. In other words, do not rely on others for a positive self-image.

For 30 days, prevent yourself from boasting about anything at all to your peers, particularly the progress you will be making throughout the rest of this book. Give them a nice surprise by the end of the month by showing them the new you. If youre particularly active in social media, you can try limiting your posts and updates only to the essentials. In the meantime, try to be modest and see for yourself how fulfilling it is to do the right thing without letting others know.