Strategies - Alpha Male Strategies: Dating Techniques In The Social Media Age

Teaching guys dating strategies in the social media age

As most men know, its harder than ever to date in todays world. With dating apps, Facebook, Instagram, etc., women have more options than ever. Women are more selective than ever with so many options at their fingertips. Theyre screening harder and harder for confident, high-value men. In todays social media age, a non-confident man is a sex-deprived man.

When I was in my late teens and early twenties, I dont remember women flaking on dates. Maybe they did with other guys, but they didnt flake on me. I dont know if it was my six-foot-four muscular frame or my pretty boy looks but women didnt flake on me. In todays world, even I get flaked on. Ive had women flake on me an hour before the date with little to no notice. Dealing with this kind of flakiness from women, any rational male is obviously going to come up with strategies to combat it.

First, lets talk about why women want a high-value man. A high-value man is a man in demand. He's a man whose free time is valuable because he doesn't have much free time. He's a man whos primarily concerned with pursuing his purpose. A high-value man is a man whos too busy to be needy. Women naturally gravitate to him because he's a challenge. Guys who are not focused on their purpose are men whose free time is abundant and therefore they are not a challenge. This availability naturally turns women off. This signals to women that other women obviously aren't occupying his time. Women gain attraction when they know other women want you. How many times have you been single and no woman would give you the time of day but the second you got a girlfriend, every woman was looking your way? Thats because the woman you're with has raised your sexual market value. I don't know if it's biology or what, but let's face it; women hate men who are too available. If you're a man reading this and you want to attract hotter women, the first thing you might consider is to start getting focused on your purpose.

There might not be a bigger culprit in the dating world than feminism. Feminism has changed women and not for the better, either. Feminism has taught women to let men do all the pursuing. Women are taught that since they have the vagina a man should do 100% of the pursuing. Now, I know a lot of blue pilled men are going to say Hey, isn't a man supposed to do all the pursuing in the beginning? Unfortunately, men are being taught this feminized western society way of thinking. Men, you have value also, just because you don't have a vagina doesn't mean you shouldn't be pursued also. Both men and women want to feel wanted. Women show this disinterest to gain the "power" in the relationship. The power in the relationship is basically who has the upper hand. Whoever has the upper hand controls the relationship. Feminists believe women should control men. The best way to get men in the submissive position is to have men do all the pursuing. Pursuing is being submissive in a lot of ways. Women are taught that men should do all the pursuing and if he doesnt want to pursue, oh well, he must didn't have high enough interest. So as men we have to play the "game" in the beginning. That means we have no other choice but to do all the pursuing in the beginning, but here's the rub. Once women develop feelings you can slowly back away until they're doing all the pursuing. Its easy for women to apply the feminist agenda when they care nothing about you but once you've gotten her to a place where she's catching feelings, all that feminism crap goes right out the window. There's a secret to getting women to chase or pursue you. When you call women consistently for dates they have the assurance that you'll call for a date so theres no need to pursue you. You have to take that comfort away. you need to become a little more erratic in your behavior. So instead of being predictable and calling to set up a date every week which leads to a flake eventually anyway because the more unpredictable guy calls out the blue and takes your date away. You call her so you don't come across as a heartless prick but skip weeks asking her out until she says those 6 magic words: Am I seeing you this weekend? Congratulations, she's officially pursuing you. Now don't go get comfortable yet. The game never ends. The biggest reason guys lose their girlfriends is because they get too comfortable and by comfortable I mean they let their girls have the comfort of knowing exactly where they stand. You got to always let a woman feel as if she's more interested in you than you are in her. Once a woman feels you're more into her than she is into you her attraction could drop drastically.

Most men fall into this category. These men have absolutely no understanding of female nature. The blue and red pill reference comes from the movie The Matrix. Basically, men who digested the red pill see the world for the way it truly is. Which means they have a true understanding of female nature. This simply means they understand that women are incapable of truly loving a man. Now of course there are unicorns but don't live your life hoping to find a unicorn just like you wouldn't live your life hoping to hit the lottery. Blue pill men are unaware of this and are usually blindsided when they fall on extended hard times and the woman bails. This is important to know because as long as I've been living at some point no matter who you are, hard times will hit. No one is above lifes trials and tribulations. This doesn't mean you'll be homeless but what it does mean is that maybe those expensive getaways you and your significant other would take twice a year maybe you can't afford to do them a couple years. Blue pill men tend not to be jealous because they're completely unaware of female nature. There's a theory that women prefer to sleep with alpha males when they're ovulating. In other words, women want to reproduce with an alpha male. I can tell you from friends of mine finding out the child or children weren't theirs after getting a paternity test. It usually takes a man to go through something personally or a close friend or relative before they fully digest the red pill. Until they have a real life revelation they'll probably classify you as bitter so it really does no good to try to convince them otherwise.

Men who are purple pill have a full understanding of female nature and have decided to just accept it. These men have a tendency to be jealous because they have a full understanding that women will step out and pursue the alpha male if given the chance. Most alpha males will more than likely enter or re-enter this stage at some point later in life when they're tired of sleeping around and seek companionship. Don't get me wrong, they are still more than likely going to step out from time to time but at this stage in their life they're looking for more and so they just accept female nature for what it is and sleep with one eye open.

Red pill men not only have a full understanding of female nature but also choose to not enter into anything monogamous because of it. Being red pill doesn't mean you're an alpha male or ladies man. In fact, most men who are red pill are beta males who discovered female nature the hard way. Red pill men have a tendency to come off bitter but they're typically not bitter at women but they're bitter at the fact that they understand they have two choices to choose from. They can either go through life continuing to just date and never start a family or have anything meaningful or they can just accept female nature for what it is and move on. That reality can cause most men to come off as bitter. It's not that they're bitter, its just that they deep down know eventually they'll probably want to have something meaningful and the simple fact that women are truly incapable of loving them back is quite depressing.