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Alpha Male Strategies Advanced Game

Alpha Male Strategies Advanced Game: How to Maintain the Attachment in the Social Media Age

By Alpha Male Strategies

2019 by Alpha Male Strategies

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Contents

Introduction

Welcome to my second installment about obtaining the woman and lifestyle you want to obtain and my third book overall. This book picks up where my first book, the best-selling Alpha Male Strategies: Dating in the Social Media Age , left off. We all know how hard it is to get a womans attention in the social media age thanks to social media, but once youve gotten her attention and built an attachment, it takes just as much skill to maintain that attachment. This is why Im writing this book. Before I go any further in this book, I want to warn you: I will not be going over the basics of game in this book. The basics, as I like to call them, are how to become a high-value male, to develop an abundance mind-set, and to develop and maintain a masculine frame. I go into detail on these three things in my first book, Alpha Male Strategies: Dating in the Social Media Age . If you havent developed those three basic skills I teach, then this book wont work for you because its written with the understanding that you have fully grasped those areas of your life. Without those three things being in place, you wont maintain any womans interest very long. If you havent read Alpha Male Strategies: Dating in the Social Media Age , then I suggest you read it first before going any further. This book will be more geared toward developing and maintaining an attachment, whereas my first book was more geared toward developing yourself and the right mind-set to lose your weakness for women.

Chapter 1

Women Control the Pace Initially

A lot of men get frustrated with the way dating dynamics are set up in the beginning. A man has to make the approach, the man has to ask the woman out, and the man has to hope that the woman will give him a second dateall while the woman sits back and decides if she wants to give you her number, if she wants to go on a date with you, if she wants to go on a second date with you, and whether sex takes place. Its safe to say women do the choosing, but why is it that way? Women do the choosing because men are usually sold on a womans beauty, while women are sold on a mans personality, confidence, and strength. You can say confidence and strength are in the same boat because a man doesnt have strength without confidence. If a man doesnt believe 100 percent in his abilities to replace a woman, he wont be able to show strength. Even if you wait for choosing signals, its highly unlikely the woman pursues you, because feminine energy is not aggressive energy. Men have to pursue in the beginning because aggressiveness is a sign of masculine energy, which is attractive. Have you ever wondered why a woman who is overpursuing you from the start usually turns you off despite you having a high physical attraction? Its because if youre a masculine man, a woman displaying that same energy is a turnoff. Its OK for a woman to pursue you, which could be her initiating a text once a week to tell you good morning, but a woman texting you every morning to tell you good morning the first week you met her is always a turnoff. Unlike why this behavior turns a woman off, which is because it shows low sexual market value, masculine energy just isnt attracted to more masculine energy. Be that as it may, as with pretty much anything dealing with the mating dynamics between a man and a woman, eventually the men have the last laugh. While women may control the pace initially, men eventually control the pace. A man controls the pace at which he and the woman get into a relationship or marriage if youre the marriage type. This only applies to high-value men, however. Low-value men propose to women in the hope of making a woman love them forever. Low-value men propose to women, even though the woman has even sent passive-aggressive messages against the idea. When a woman is ready for a relationship, shell usually say something to the effect of What are we? If you arent hearing those words, then theres a good chance shes not ready for a relationship. If a woman is ready for marriage, youll usually hear something to the effect of Is this going anywhere? Proposing to a woman you havent heard that from implies youre hoping the pressure of saying no is enough to make her say yes. Purple-pill, high-value men want to prolong the courtship as long as possible, although theyre not opposed to a relationship. Purple-pill, high-value men just recognize a woman with all the qualities they desire, and rather than lose her once she starts throwing hints, they recognize its time to shit or get off the pot. This is not a scarcity mind-set, by the way. Its only a scarcity mind-set if you get into a relationship with a woman you dont want because youre afraid of not being able to meet other women. As a purple-pill man, if you do everything right, you should expect a woman to want a commitment eventually. As a red-pill man, I expect it as well; the only difference is, Im not really open to a relationship right now unless Im completely blown away by a woman. Quite frankly, it would require a lot for a woman to blow me away mentallyso much so that I dont even think that a woman like this has been born. I just find the fact humorous of how things switch around so dramatically in the dating game.

Chapter 2

Getting Comfortable

Getting comfortable is a part of human nature. When you start a job, you usually get to work early initially and are very professional at the beginning. Lets fast-forward two years, and youre getting to work right before its time to clock in, and that big, wide smile you once greeted everyone with in the morning is now a subdued head nod, if anything at all. You havent gotten lazy or antisocial; youve gotten comfortable. This is an all-too-common occurrence in relationships. When you first met your girl, you had this sexy, charming, but serious demeanor that just lit your woman up on the inside. You were spontaneous and fun to be around. You had the perfect mix of masculinity and just enough of a soft side to have fun. Every evening with you was an experience, and she couldnt wait to see you again. Ill discuss the experience in more detail later. Lets fast-forward a year, and that strong, sexy, masculine man she fell in love with is now nothing more than a playful, immature little brother. You cant even remember when the last time was the two of you had a fun evening out. A fun evening out isnt about predictably going to an expensive restaurant every Saturday night. Spending a ton of money doesnt mean youre having fun. You havent stopped liking your woman, but you have gotten comfortable. You can never stop dating your woman. You were a man who had his purpose in life, but now youve thrown those plans by the wayside to spend more time with your woman. I know what youre thinking; isnt this what my woman wants? No. Correction: hell no! Women get bored easily, and this is a surefire way to ruin attraction. This doesnt mean you have to disappear for two months, but it also means you cant spend time with your woman every day. The perfect balance Ive found that works to keep her off balance is to see her twice a week. Now I know some of you reading this book might be married or living with your girl, but the rules are the same. Although you live with your woman, I dont recommend spending more than two evenings together, with three being the absolute most. Winding down in bed before going to sleep doesnt count. Im referring to getting off work and spending the rest of the evening with your woman. In other words, lets assume you get off work at five oclock, and youre home by six oclock. Lets then assume you start winding down for the night at ten oclock and sleep by eleven. That would give you four hours to spend with your woman. If youre doing this, its just a matter of time before she starts to pull back because she has gotten too accustomed to you. Its just a matter of time before she gets bored and starts lashing out from boredom. I cant speak for women, but I know for a fact that most men lose all of their identity in a relationship. When a man finds a woman he really likes, he drifts away from his friends, interests, hobbies, and purpose to spend more time with his woman. No woman wants to be the centerpiece of a mans life. Women think they want to be the centerpiece, but when you make them the centerpiece, they slowly lose interest in you. You want a woman to complain that the two of you dont spend enough time together. Now, if shes complaining because you go weeks without seeing her, then obviously this is too extreme. In dating, people tend to go to extremes with dating advice. The correct order should be purpose first, hobbies second, and the woman third. I put the woman ahead of friends because Im not too keen on hanging with males that often. I think once a week with friends is enough. Never get too comfortable in a relationship and lose your identity. When Im referencing a relationship, Im speaking for rotation girls also. Although you might not be in a monogamous relationship, you are, however, in a nonmonogamous relationship. A nonmonogamous relationship is one that guarantees both parties, the man and the woman, will see each other regularly without a commitment.