Nour Saidana - Alpha Or Nothing: How To Be The Best Version Of Yourself As A Modern Alpha Male

First, I would like to congratulate you on getting this book. This will be the best decision you have made this month, if not this year, if not ever. This might seem bold coming from me but thats how confident I am in my book. Its actually the project of my life. Though, I have to admit that I enjoyed doing it as much as I hated doing itI hate writing.

I would like to think that this is the best book in the world...but thats just me. YOU will be the one to decide how good this book actually is. Recommend it to someone else if you like it, criticize it as much as you want if you hate it. After all, you are the client and anyone who builds a business knows that the client is king. I cant change your opinion. All I can say is take whats useful to you and throw away the rest. You dont have to agree with me on everythingwhich probably wont happen because I cover way more things that you will ever imagine. This book will be an emotional roller coaster for you. If you arent ready to hear things you dont agree with I HIGHLY recommend you stop here. You have been warned.

This is only the first version of the book so some parts might still need improvements which is why your review will be so important to the future readers. Whether its a positive or a negative one I dont care. Feel free to share what you think. Just be part of the community. If there is anything that you want me to cover but you cant find it in this book, feel free to leave a comment on my YouTube channel . You can use ANYTHING you want from this book(as long as you give credits). You will even have a quotes list at the end of it. You can think of the quotes as a way to recap what was said previously. Dont worry, you will quickly get used to them.

In case you dont know me, I am all about taking action. I have zero interest in theory, science or whatever thing that people use to demonstrate how right their ideas areeven though I do use theory for some explanations. I mainly believe in actions and results which means that everything you will read here is coming from experienceat least most of it. As they say, practice what you preach. I only talk about the things that Ive done or the things that I am currently doing. Therefore, I will be talking a LOT about my own experiences. I wont bore you to death with old studies to prove what I am saying.

I dont want anyone to call me a motivational speaker, that would offend me more than anything else. After all, motivation is no more than mental masturbation. It feels good for a while but thats about it. A book that doesnt show you an action plan is a bad book. I am sure you read a great book where you wondered about what you should be doing in the end? Thats motivation for you. Fear not, you will have so many things to do here that you wont even have time to masturbate. I hope you will use this book as a blueprint for being an alpha maleor rather, a high-value man.

I will tell you how I improved my mindset, how I fixed my mothers debt, how I got more done in 1 year than in 25 years, how I reached an intermediate level in Japanese, how I improved my communication skills, how I did my first public speaking(technically), how I became a happy person, how I sacrificed a popular YouTube channel, how I became the best intern in the company I worked at and a lot of other interesting stories. I will also share with you my business plan. No crap like I have many businesses but God knows what they are(*cough cough* fake gurus). Dont worry, I will talk about fake gurus later since I almost became one of them. The only thing that you wont know about me is probably my three sizes...which I bet wont interest you anyway because I am a male.

I also want to be clear about something. This book isnt made for sales, its made for legacy. I wont spam you with sales pitches, you can even skip the part where I speak about my coaching if you want to(pillar 3, part 2). I wanted to leave something meaningful in this worldI will probably never write a book again. Now, I can rest in peace. This book is the embodiment of my soul. You will get to know me better than my own family. I can die tomorrow and this book will continue to do the work for me.

I will not give you a step by step on how to be a millionaire while I am not one. I dont teach people how to be rich, I am here to share with you my own philosophy on how to be a modern alpha male and achieve happiness with concrete actions, not some fluff. I promise you that I will provide you with a very unique experience, one that only high-value people deserveor future high-value people I should say. By the way, you can call me Nour. My real name Noureddine isnt easy to pronounce but I dont want that to be a problem for you. In case you are wondering, Nour is pronounced as Noor(same as n oo n).

Before we start digging in, you need to pass a test. You didnt expect this one, right? You see, this book has the power to change your whole life. I genuinely believe so. But if you cant pass this test all the things you will learn wont matter. I can bring the best influencers to you and they wont be able to help you at all. Why? Because you need to remember the first step to success.

Dont expect to get results if you arent willing to change

A lot of people want money. A lot of people want a fancy car. A lot of people want a mansion. A lot of people want to be the next influencer. But, are they willing to change? The answer is no. Willing to change means to be ready to change your lifestyle, your beliefs and even your main hobby if necessary to accomplish what you desire the most, which is something that most people arent able to do. Thats why so many people fail to achieve any of their goals whether its weight loss, making a profitable businessor anything else. It doesnt matter how much you want something. If you arent willing to change yourself for it you are wasting your time.

Thats why if you cant pass the test, I am afraid that nothing will help you. Neither my book nor any other book will do the trick. You will keep reading books forever without getting any resultunless you are fine with some motivation. Just to be CLEAR, I am not here to please people. I wont be telling you what you WANT to hear, I will be telling you what you NEED to hear. I rarely curse but if you get triggered by a word like fuck please leave already. I think there are bigger problems in this world. Dont forget, I am not here to be your friend, I am here to save you. You better brace yourself! I will just say this once but I really want you to remember it.

I would rather be right than be nice

So here we go. This test will be really hard for you. Actually, its so easy yet so hard. I will help you dont worry. You have to make it until the end no matter what. If you stop reading this book because you wont like what I am going to say then I dont think youll ever do anything meaningful in your life. Ready? Okay...you suck. I am sorry but I had to say it. That being said, me saying it wont do anything. I want you to be the one saying it. I bet you think I am crazy but its for your own good.

You can notice how much I emphasize on you thinking in a certain way because starting with the right mindset will make you improve dramatically. Willing to change is the first step to success but its not enough on its own. You need to identify the root of the problemyou are not good enough. When you become comfortable with that fact you can move on and start finding a solution. Thats why you need to admit that you suck. I bet you cant do it yet and thats fine. You arent very strong mentally for the moment so it makes sense, again, I will help you to do it.

It wouldnt be fun if I make you do it but I dont do it myself, right? In fact, Ive already done this a long time ago. Here is what I said in an old Instagram video : I am garbage but I am willing to change. Do you know how hard it is to say that in public? Saying garbage about myself shows how much I have accepted my current state. Before fixing a problem you need to be aware of it. If you are always blaming something/someone else you will never fix the problem itself because you will never know the actual problem. I realized how weak and ignorant I was, finally. That garbage guy is now helping you to become a better person, how funny is that? People always hate the word bad so they will never say that about themselves. You need to understand that being bad isnt actually a bad thing. Its fine if you are cleaning toilets to make money, its not fine if you do that for the rest of your life. Its not a flaw if it doesnt exist anymore.