Desiree Dean - The Sex MANual for HER: Uncensored

In order to truly please a man, we have to start with YOU. You may think that focusing on you has nothing to do with sex, oral sex, fondling, dirty talk, or passionate kissing but it absolutely does. In fact, it is paramount. Your sexual confidence has a lot to do with how you do all of these things to and with your partner. Without sexual confidence, you wont be able to truly please your man and you will never feel pleasure yourself. You have to work on you before you can work on him.

Sexual confidence in ones self is the number one problem that women have when it comes to sexual activities with their partner. When you are worrying about your body, your hair, that blemish on your face and various other issues going on in your life, your focus is not where it should be and that focus should be on him. He can tell when you are thinking about something else. He can detect when you are distracted. He knows when something is on your mind and he can especially tell when you two are making love and your focus is not on him. This kills the moment instantly. Nothing is more of a turn off than this. He can sense your energy, even if you dont think that is possible. Men are very receptive of sexual energy and therefore, your man deserves to have ALL of your attention when you are intimate. That is when the two of you are really going to enjoy yourselves in the bedroom. That is when you have the best sex possible. In order to give him all of your attention, you have to be confident and forget about the little things.

As women, we live in a society that sucks the self-esteem right out of us. Everyday, we are faced with images of women who are perfect by the medias standards. This image makes us second-guess ourselves all of the time and makes it hard for us to love our bodies and all of the imperfections that we have compared to this perfect woman. When you are intimate with your man, you worry constantly if he would prefer the ideal woman. You worry that your body is imperfect and that you just cant capture his attention. This makes intimacy impossible because you can never truly let go and get lost in the moment. Your man is able to do this every single time you are intimate. He doesnt worry about the men in Hollywood and what you think of them; he is worrying about you and your pleasure. His only concern is ensuring that you are sexually satisfied and pleased. This is an important idea that us, as women, can learn from men. We ALL need to forget about societys notions of what is perfect and start to love ourselves. This is how you get lost in the moment with your man and allow two to become one. This is how you become a sex goddess and the ultimate seductress.

The more you can start to accept your imperfections, the more you will see the real you in a better light. The most beautiful women in the world are not perfect and they struggle with the same issues that you do. You cannot let these struggles overcome you. Instead, you need to embrace everything about you and what you are capable of. As women, we hold all of the power in the world. It is up to us to decide so many things. You need to hone in on this and to make it work for you. The faster you can do this, the happier you will be and the better your sex life will become.

Take simple steps to start to love you since it wont happen in a day. Look in the mirror and be thankful for what you have. When you wake up each morning, be thankful that you are alive, healthy, in a loving relationship, successful and that you are you. You are one of a kind and a very unique individual. This is something that you should praise. You are able to wake up every morning and appreciate life. You have a great man in your life that loves you and truly cares about you. Forget what society wants you to believe and learn to love the way that you look. When you can accept your flaws and focus on the good, then you can start to become not only a better lover, but also a better person. When you can forget about the little things around you and completely get lost in the moment with your partner, thats when the fireworks go off. When you stop worrying about your appearance, you can get that passion and fire with your man that we are only used to seeing in the movies.

Of course, you arent going to want to dive head first into all sorts of kinky things in the bedroom right off the bat. That is not the purpose of this book. You are going to have to take baby steps to want to be that adventurous sex vixen in the bedroom and that is okay. Your man does not have high expectations or anything of the like from you, nor should you be putting these unrealistic goals on yourself. Start off slow, and use this book as a guide. The more comfortable you become with one sexual move, the more you will want to try something else so you can make it bigger and better.

As your sexual confidence starts to skyrocket, it is guaranteed that you are going to want to become a bit more daring in the bedroom. You are going to become bored of what you are capable of and you are going to want to do more. This is natural and because of this, you can look out for the Extra Hot sex tips as you read on. These are the tips for the most daring women and for the ones who have sexual confidence seeping from their pores and who are brave enough to take on the challenge. Becoming an amazing lover is going to be a never-ending process, but it is one that you can look forward to for years to come.

Its time for you to not only transform who you are as a lover, but who you are as a woman. If you are ready to being the transformation and to shed the good girl skin, then lets begin.

Your journey to total seductress status starts now