HOW TO LAST LONGER IN BED
Crucial Advice for Men
Desiree Dean & Hugh Benson
COPYRIGHT
First Kindle Original Edition, March 2013
Copyright 2013 by Desiree Dean & Hugh Benson
This book is intended for informational purposes only. It is not designed to treat, cure, or diagnose any disease, health problem or any other medical condition. In the instance of a disease, health problem or medical condition, then it is up to the reader to consult a healthcare professional.
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TABLE OF CONTENTS
INTRODUCTION
Are you often nervous before you have sex because you worry that premature ejaculation is going to strike again? Does it hurt your confidence? Your performance? Your ability to let go and truly enjoy sex for what it is supposed to be?
Do you feel alone in the world and that there is no one that you can confide in? Can you not talk to your girlfriend because she is already dealing with so much by putting up with your lack of performance? Would your friends harass you and just make you feel even more embarrassed?
If you answered yes to any of these questions, then welcome; this book was designed for you. This is a safe place for you to learn exactly what you need to know so you can start to feel like a whole man once again. Women are lucky because they do have those outlets to turn to when something isnt going right in their lives. They can talk to their friends, they can pick up any magazine on the side of the street, they can go online and find various sources or they can even talk to you about it. This just isnt the same. Men dont have these outlets to turn to and when times are tough, they are tested and are supposed to act a certain way. Emotions arent supposed to take over. You arent allowed to let your emotions get the better of you, but when you need to talk to someone, who are you supposed to turn to?
The best news is that you are not alone. Millions of men around the world are going through the exact same thing that you are and chances are , you know some of those men as well. The only thing is that you would never know because premature is something that no man wants to talk about. No man wants to admit that he has troubles lasting long enough in the bedroom. Every man wants to be a stallion in the bedroom and brag to his friends about how he can last for hours. More importantly, he wants his woman to be able to do that to her friends. He wants his woman to brag to all of her friends about how good he is and how long he lasts. Men know how much women talk to their friends about sex, so can you imagine what she is saying about you in this current state that you are in?
Chances are, you have found yourself in desperate times and we all know what desperate times lead to. You may have been tempted to order up the most expensive remedy on the web to try to get some relief and chances are , it backfired in your face. Dont waste another dime on a foolproof method that is actually just going to end up making you look like the fool. Its time that you cured your premature ejaculation naturally and effectively.
Even though I am a woman and I have never experienced premature ejaculation firsthand, Im here to tell you that it is okay and that there is nothing wrong with it. As a woman, Ive experienced partners who have had troubles lasting in the bedroom and all Ive wanted was to help them become the best they could be, which is exactly what I am going to do for you.
This book will act as the best friend that you never had. I will tell you how to solve your problem, I will tell you that it is okay and I will tell you know to make it better immediately. Im also here to tell you that if you are in a relationship and going through premature ejaculation, that your girl does love you and you dont have to worry about her leaving you. You are the one filling your head with all of these ominous and negative things because that is how you feel about yourself. She doesnt feel that way. She only wants to see you feel better because when you are at your best; you are at your best for her.
Along the way, my friend and expert author, Hugh Benson, will chime in and help you by giving you the males perspective something I cannot offer but that you deserve. Now you will get the help that you need from both ends of the spectrum.
Its time that you got that control back in your life and the time that you made the decisions. Dont bother filling your body up with products that arent going to work. Hugh and I are here and we are about to whip that butt of yours in shape to go from a minuteman to an hour upon hour upon hour man.
If youre ready to change your life and to change the way you have sex, then get ready, because here we go
CHAPTER ONE
UNDERSTANDING PREMATURE EJACULATION
Even though you want to get right down the core of how to cure your premature ejaculation and how to change the way you have sex, you need to understand what is happening to your body. If you dont, you can find yourself being plagued by this all over again in the next few weeks to months and then you will be right back at square one. In order to avoid that, you need to get down the bottom of why your stamina is such a problem in the bedroom and why you just cant seem to control your body. You need to get a better understanding of your body and an understanding of premature ejaculation.
Premature ejaculation is just what it says it is a condition in which a man ejaculates earlier than he expects to or wants to. It has other names too such as rapid climax, early ejaculation or rapid ejaculation. According to sources, premature ejaculation is actually defined by when a man ejaculates in under two minutes from the moment he engages in coitus. Although most men will experience premature ejaculation at some point in their lives, that is expected, as there are two stages primary and secondary.
Remember when you were younger and first started having sex? Remember how it could barely last because you were so amped up about it and had no control over your body? That is known as primary premature ejaculation and for most men that is a condition that subsides after some time as they start to mature and develop more control over their bodies. However, some men are never able to learn how to control their orgasm and that is known as secondary premature ejaculation. It refers to matured men who still have complications delaying their ejaculation.
Premature ejaculation can also happen with only one sexual partner and that is known as local premature ejaculation or situational premature ejaculation. This might happen if you are nervous to engage in coitus with that person or if your attraction to them is intensely high. That means that you are more aroused than usual, which makes it harder for you to stop yourself. Global premature ejaculation refers to when it happens all of the time or most of the time with all partners. If you have had stamina problems when you were younger and messing around with many sexual partners, and now that you are older and in a monogamous relationship, you might be suffering from global and secondary premature ejaculation.
Regardless of what kind of premature ejaculation you are experiencing or suffering from, any situation where premature ejaculation strikes is one that you would like to forget and they should be treated all the same.
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