Aaron G. - Last Longer in Bed: A Guide For Men

Last Longer In Bed: A Guide For Men

Table of Contents

Introduction 3

My Beginnings . 4

Next Step 5

Pay No Mind ... 7

Medication .. 9

Throw Away Your Feelings .. 9

Tried and True . 11

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Introduction

Thank you for taking a look at this e-book. Premature ejaculation is an issue for a lot of men. Estimates range anywhere from 20 to as high as 40% of men being affected by P.E. I myself had struggled with P.E. for 10+ years! In that period I would say I could withhold from having an orgasm during sex for about three minutes if I was lucky.

This period of my life was incredibly frustrating not only for myself but also for the girls I was with. It wasnt fair to them and I tried hard not to cum but I just couldnt hold out. I tried countless methods to withhold from cumming so fast but it really took about ten years before I found a method that worked for me on a consistent basis.

This period of my life wasnt full of completely awful sex, there were times here and there and even stretches where I was able to fight off ejaculation for ten maybe fifteen minutes but I just couldnt do it on a consistent basis and more often thn not I would cum quickly. I read every thing I could find on the subject, I took supplements, hell I even tried a self hypnosis book but nothing worked. Finally I found a few different methods and was able to kind of come up with a hybrid version that I was able to rely on to help me gain complete control of my orgasm. I have been using this method for the past 8 yrs and in this period Ive been able to prefect it to where I no longer have to worry at all about not pleasing my partner in the bedroom. I have complete control over my body and choose not to cum till I know my partner is satisfied.

If you have taken the time to even look at this book I imagine being able to satisfy your partner must be an important issue for you. It should be! Sex is an incredibly important part of a relationship not only in the bedroom but outside of it as well. The confidence you will gain from pleasing your partner will extend to other areas of your life beyond the bedroom. I know first hand the embarrassment and insecurity you feel when you know you arent able to satisfy your partner. To have a girlfriend ask before sex that you try not to cum too fast this time, or to see her just kind of sigh when she sees that you just finished is a huge blow to a mans self esteem! Its hard not to feel like less of a man.

This book will help you learn how to control your orgasm. Through years of trying pretty much anything I could possibly think of to try to last more than just a few minutes in bed, and with lots of patience I finally figured out what worked for me and I know it can work for you if youre willing to put forth the effort. I will start off the book sharing a little bit about my experience with P.E. afterwards I will share with you all the methods Ive used to try to overcome my P.E and what the results were and how I felt about the method. If there was something out there I thought would work I tried it and it will be talked about in this book. Its my hope that this book to help men like myself learn to last longer in bed. Its not just about the sex its about the confidence that goes with it. Knowing that you can be one of a girls best lovers is an empowering feeling. Being anxious about whether you will be able to last more than just a few minutes in bed with a girl is a terrible feeling I dont want anyone to have to worry about that. And being able to make a girl have an orgasm, is an amazing feeling. Read this book, commit to overcoming this issue and be the best man you can in the bedroom, you and your partners deserve that!

Thanks,

Aaron G.

My Beginnings

Early sexual experiences are probably equally clumsy and awkward for most people and I was certainly no exception. Most of what I had learned about sex was from watching porn or from talking to my friends in school, so I guess you could say my sources werent all that credible.

The first girl I ever slept with was a friend, we had been friends for maybe close to 2 yrs. She had already had sex a couple times and had just kind of decided that she was going to be my first. We had sex maybe about three separate times before I professed my love for her lol. How could I not love her, I got to see her naked she had big boobs and she let me have sex with her. I was hooked!

Our frequent sexual adventures consisted of me climbing on top of her and pumping away as hard as I could for what was somewhere around three-five minutes. At the time I didnt see any problems with that, she didnt say I was doing anything wrong. I really had no idea that you were supposed to try not to cum so I just maintained my routine of hopping on top of her and pounding away for a few minutes and as soon as I felt like I was gonna cum I pumped even harder till I finished.

As time went on she began to show signs of frustration and I very slowly started to become a little self conscious of what was going on. The most embarrassing instance even still to this day happened with her.

We had gone to her house after school and were hooking up for a little while. I began to undress her pretty much just ripping off her clothes, and then I threw mine off. My dick was already throbbing even before I took my clothes off. As soon as I began to climb on top of her my dick rubbed against the inside of her thigh and I blew all over her thigh! I never even got inside of her. She didnt know what the hell happened, I didnt know how that happened or that I could even cum without actually having sex. It was awful. That wasnt a normal occurrence just a one time thing, I think the embarrassment shocked my body from allowing that to happen again all though there were some close calls. Usually even at my worst I was usually good for at least a couple of minutes.

By the end of my first serious relationship around two years I was never really to gain any control at all of my orgasms and I continued to lack control of my orgasms for quite a while afterwards.

My Next Steps

As time went on I was beginning to understand that I was having an issue in the bedroom. I was getting older and more experienced and the girls I was sleeping with were as well. Girls at this point werent just satisfied knowing they made a guy happy or just having sex for the sake of having sex they now wanted to experience the pleasure sex had to offer. Sometimes in relationships I was with girls who would sometimes ask before hand that I try not to cum so fast, or during sex when I said I was gonna cum theyd give me a not yet or just a sigh of frustration. Sometimes theyd realize my embarrassment and console me that it was o.k which made things even worse. These experiences were terrible and began to make me very anxious and self conscious about sex. Now instead of just being excited about getting laid in the back of my mind there was a real fear that I was gonna embarrass myself and cum too fast. Embarrassment, fear, those feelings should not cloud the excitement and pleasure of having which should be nothing but pleasure.

Being unable to really know what the hell was gonna happen when I stuck my dick in a girl, if I was gonna cum in 2 minutes or holdoff till about 5 but expecting likely disappointment either way I began to try and find new ways to compensate for my shortcomings. The easiest way to make up for my lacking was through oral sex.

Most women Ive been with are open to receiving oral. It can be intimidating going down on a girl if you arent experienced in doing so but keep in mind that different girls get pleasure from different sensations so experience really doesnt help a ton except to give you the confidence to dive in and a few ideas on where to start.