Daniel Marques - How to be a Woman: Understanding Men and Succeeding in a Relationship

How to be a woman: Understanding Men and Succeeding in a Relationship

By Daniel Marques

Copyright Daniel Marques, 2013 (1st Edition)

Copyright Daniel Marques, 2015 (2nd Edition)

Cover Photo Via Gatag Creative Commons

Published by 22 Lions

Draft 2 Digital Edition

Introduction

M odern society evolves and so do women. Nevertheless, like with any other natural selection, we can clearly notice that while some are succeeding, a vast majority is feeling like they are heading for extinction. Lets call this the difference between the Alpha and Beta females, and start from this point to analyze the whole issue and where the problems have begun in the first place. The media is constantly bombarding women with ideas about what to do in life and which man to choose, or even with concepts and ideas about romance and marriage. Nevertheless, modern women couldnt feel more lost with the whole topic of their true role and place in society. Reading extensively about love, dating and relationships, has surely done little for them. And it was taking into consideration all the misunderstandings and overwhelming problems they face nowadays that this book was created. The content here provided shows a resume of real-life stories that were successful after following these principles but, above all, takes into consideration conversations with women that didnt know nothing of what here is shown. The issues here analyzed focus on the difference between Alpha and Beta Females, the real purpose of a relationship, mens true intentions and the values within loving commitments and marriage. Its expected that upon finishing this reading a woman can find exact answers on how to be herself and still find happiness in life.

What is the difference between Alpha and Beta females?

I ts because some women among many do something different from the female logic that they rescue their relationship in the last minute, while others lose them, one after the other. Even though these special women may not have the personality of the Alpha Female, theyre a good example of the correspondent behavior.

Ironically, this behavior is subconscious, because it comes from the practice of their own jobs, usually related to management, leadership and entrepreneurship, in which they develop skills regarding conflict-management, communication, negotiation, motivation and success. And isnt the way you work important for your relationships? Whats the really the difference?

Conflict-Management Allows finding common interests and differences in thinking between both parts;

Communication Allows getting feedback on our behavior in order to develop as a person;

Negotiation Allows obtaining a win-win outcome with the consent of the other person;

Motivation Allows matching our love for life with the person sharing it with us;

Success Allows living a positive life no matter what happens.

If you observe what kind of job single and married women have, youll notice the main difference between them, which makes this rule an exception that matches all exceptions. If you cant see it, then look at their background, observe how theyve been educated and raised, but mostly look at the difference in the way they think! And, most of all, compare the way they think with the man they have and with how happy theyre in life! A relationship doesnt start in the first encounter and much less ends in a wedding; thats the fairy-tales logic and they lived happily ever after, another brainwashing theory to add to the romantic movies, which explain at least 90% of the Female Logic operating beneath womens common paradigms.

What is the purpose of a relationship?

A relationship if part of growing up as a person and the only way to do this is by understanding life and maturing with life experiences. You cant just say Hes Just Not That Into Me and spend the rest of your life turning your back, not on men, but on your self-conscience and development as a person. Its time to grow up, so be a woman! Be more than a woman, be an alpha female! And, get the man you really want, not one that cheats on you, but one that most women dream about and never find!

You can achieve all this by taking actions, right now, and never ever giving up, until you find who you really want.

The problem with modern society is that we tend to complicate our lives by denying the true meaning of all aspects of it. The most painful truth that we will ever observe is that we live in a highly insane world. This said, solutions were never important and nobody cares about them; as matter of fact, the world will destroy your reputation, avoid you and maybe even kill you, if you try to challenge and change that insanity; however, before that happens, you will end up alone, because everyone wants to be part of this insanity believing that all of it is just about being normal". Its not, never was and never will be. Nevertheless, the main reason why most women cant possibly get out of their painful cycle of insane behaviors that leads them to loneliness and depression is that they will risk being excluded and ridiculed by their peers and relatives if they do. Ive seen many realizing this after finding the truth in their lives. They say: Im happy to finally realize how to be happy and find the man I always dreamed about, but now my friends dont talk to me anymore and keep finding excuses to avoid me. When I do meet them, they make fun of me and criticize my new behavior. They always say that I will regret it later and then it will be too late to find another man.

Women know how jealous they are of each others happiness, how much they hate each other when one finds the perfect man or the fairy tale-dream in her real life, but they tend to develop a kind of amnesia when such things apply to them, maybe because theyve spent too many years of their life building the idea that such reality is impossible to occur. Not believing this possibility is what makes them lose it from their hands every time they do obtain it. In fact, it requires specific efforts to lose it, as its natural to obtain it when a woman behaves in a normal way. Men are not womens enemies, so, how can you possibly find a lover if youre looking for a war partner to sleep with?