Jessie Gavin - Am I a Lesbian? 15 Signs You Might Be Attracted to a Woman

Am I a Lesbian?

15 Signs You Might Be Attracted To A Woman

By: Jessie Gavin

2012 by Jessie Gavin

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First Printing, 2012

Printed in the United States of America

Table of Contents

Introduction

Before We Begin

You Cant Get Her Out of Your Head

You Get Wet

The J Word

Purposely Bump into Your Crush

You Want to Spend Time With Her

You Want To Buy Her Stuff

You Feel and Act Different When You See Her

You Want to Impress Her

You Go Out of Your Way To See Her

You Find Yourself Flirting With Her

You Want To Get a Bit Tipsy

You Purposely Try to Touch Her

How to Get Her to Notice You

Conclusion

About The Author

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B ut I am straight! Is that what you find yourself saying to yourself after youve spent the last ten minutes thinking about a girl that you, well, just cant stop thinking about? You probably started out by imagining being with another woman and then shunning that thought immediately as you began to think about the details. I know the feeling I was there once. However, as time moves on and your feeling for the other person grows, those thoughts that you have tried to push down to the pits of your mind begin to surface and it doesnt feel so wrong after all.

This happens more often than you think. The question is though, how far will you take it? Will it just be a fantasy in your head or will you actually go through with having your first experience with a woman? We are going to talk about some experiences you might be having that will determine your same sex crush. If most or all of these experiences are happening to you, it might be very hard for you to suppress these feelings without taking action. Does it mean you are gay? Who knows! It just depends on what kind of lifestyle you want to live.

I have a friend who swore up and down that she was gay and that she wanted to be with me (and a few other women). She is now engaged to a man. Some people just dont want to live the gay lifestyle and that is understandable. However, if you meet the right person that you cant and shouldnt live without, it is hard to deny that lifestyle because you may never find yourself in that situation again with someone else.

B efore we begin talking about some clear signs about your potential crush on a woman, there is one tiny thing I would like to point out. There are times women will develop crushes on other women no matter what the other womans sexual orientation is. For the most part, many straight women open up to the possibility of a crush or a fantasy when the woman they are interested in is gay. This is because they know the opportunity is there and ready for them if they decided to play for the other team. Most of these crushes are from straight women being attracted to a Lesbian.

If the love interest is straight, well there are some truths to this scenario.

1) The person who has the crush on the straight woman is probably undoubtedly gay. While possible, most of the time another straight woman wont put themselves in a situation being tremendously attracted to another straight woman because the chance of anything going anywhere is rather slim

2) There is a potentially bigger problem here. While this is going outside the scope of this book a bit, a Lesbian having an attraction for a woman who is not gay or who is just experimenting (like you might be) is dangerous waters for a Lesbian. There is massive potential for her to get very hurt in this process. This is like the number one rule of some single lesbians: Never Fall For A Straight Woman.....and if you do, well, its your own fault!

For the most part, we are probably talking about straight women who have a crush on another gay woman because in this situation, the straight woman is fantasizing a situation that could be very realistic if it actually plays out.

If you are straight, dont be too concerned with item #2 above because well, we all have to start somewhere. If it turns out that you are straight and will never follow through with your crush (or even if you do) then so be it.

Now, lets get started with the tell tale signs that you are attracted to a woman!!

T his is one of the tell tale signs that you are really attracted to another woman. When you are experiencing a crush on another woman or lesbian, she is going to consume your brain. You wont be able to go too long without thinking about her or even fantasizing about her. The fantasies dont have to be sexual by any means. You could just simply be thinking about how you interacted with her when you last saw her or even how you would act with her if you went out to coffee or had a meal together.

Dont be surprised that if you have a crush on another woman, that every time you close your eyes, you see her face.

Y up. You read this right. If you are experiencing a crush on another woman, it might get to the point where you are always thinking about her and you catch yourself getting turned on and actually getting soaking wet when you think about her, at any time of the day. You might be at work and have a thought about your love interest and feel your underwear start to soak.

When I first found myself having feelings for another woman, I noticed that my natural body reactions when I got turned on were much more when I was thinking about a woman than any other man in my life.

This is a clear sign that you quite possibly want to have a sexual encounter with your crush and it might not just be fantasy. Whether you act out on it is a completely different story but getting turned on when you think about your crush is a very telling sign. Does this mean you are gay? The answer is a big fat maybe. There are many straight women who fantasize about being with other women and even sometimes with their guy included.

Getting wet and experiencing your bodys reaction to your crush is probably not the defining signal that you might be a lesbian. There are other factors included, so lets see if you experience any other signs.

I f you have a crush on a woman you might experience some jealousy. First of all, your feelings are perfectly normal and perfectly understandable. While you might not be in love, it can certainly be difficult to tell the difference in some cases. When you do find yourself in the midst of a crush, feelings of jealousy about this person will naturally emerge, and that is completely normal.

When you are experiencing feelings of jealousy, you might find yourself considering the following:

Where is she?

Who is she with?

Does she currently like anyone else?

Why am I not there?

Who is she thinking about? Is it me?

When you truly like someone and have a crush on them, there may be nothing worse than feeling as if you are losing your chance. If you have not worked up the nerve to speak to her, then perhaps someone else has, and it could be someone who is ten times more confident than you. If that is the case, then you have a very limited window of opportunity.