To all my Booty Parlor babes.
You helped shape this makeover
by sharing
your secrets, your desires,
and your experiences with me...
and youre walking proof
that confidence is sexy!
You, Me, and the Mojo Makeover
H ello, gorgeous... welcome to your Mojo Makeover!
Im thrilled youve decided to take part in this fun, fabulous, and deliciously foxy four-week journey to a sexier, more confident, and more satisfied you. Im going to be your guide for the entire process, and seeing as well be spending the next thirty days or so together, allow me to introduce myself...
As the cofounder of the sexy beauty and lifestyle brand Booty Parlor, Ive spent the last six years talking to women about sex. I chat about it at work, the grocery store, yoga classes, cocktail parties, and coffee shops; with girlfriends, A-list celebrities, and strangers alike. Ive led hundreds of private Sexy Shopping Parties, where Ive shared Booty Parlors products and philosophy and inspired women to create sexier, more satisfying experiences in their lives.
For as long as I can remember, Id been the sexual sounding board for friends and strangers, but there was a moment when the lightbulb really went offa moment when I realized that all of this talking about sex was actually the basis for a program that could transform women and their sex lives. My husband, Charlie, and I had just launched Booty Parlor and I was showcasing our products at a womens-only shopping event when I struck up a conversation with a woman there. I learned that she was single, and I cut right to the chase, asking her whether she was having orgasms by herself and whether she knew how to satisfy herself sexually. She looked at me like Bambi in the headlightsas in, Mack Truck headlights . As we continued to chat, I came to understand that she was in the dark about her own pleasure. No one had ever had that conversation with her, and no oneincluding herselfhad ever given her permission to experience the incredible rush of happiness and release of a good old-fashioned orgasm. Shed made it well into her twenties without having had what I call a sexy solo session. And since she didnt know how to reach orgasm herself, shed never been able to climax with any of her boyfriends. She simply didnt have the tools or knowledgebut she had the enthusiasm to learn, and she was more than ready to start seeking out her own sexual satisfaction.
I explained how she could tune in to herself and turn herself on (which Ill soon share with you, too). Then I talked her through the basics of using the designer sex toy wed selected for her. Go slowly and let your body get used to the sensations, I said, Even try it over your clothes at first. Close your eyes, remember to breathe, and just feel the risethe new sensations that start to happen. Giving her further guidance, I said, Start to move against the toy, find a rhythm, and try different levels of pressure and directions of motion. Mostlyexplore! This is your orgasm. Take your own sweet time with it! I answered some of her more detailed questions on reaching the Big O, and sent her off with a hug and a Youre going to love loving yourself!
Yes, this is a pretty frank conversation to have upon first meeting someone, but this is my way. I believe every woman deserves the permission, knowledge, and tools to fully own her sexual satisfaction, so I just get straight to the point.
The next night, the same woman approached me again. This time she was literally running toward me from across the roomarms waving, smile beaming, aura simply glowing ! Oh... My... God, she said, I cant believe what I was missing all this time!
She exuded sexy self-confidence. She radiated energy. She was blissed out! It was as if shed discovered a whole new, sparkling side of herself. She was turned onto herself, to life. And all it took was a little girlfriend-to-girlfriend chat, a few simple instructions, and a new accessory to give her the inspiration she needed to create a mind-blowing, sexy experience. It became crystal clear:
A part of her had been made over through our interaction and her take-home experience. She had found a deeper, sexier, more confident relationship with herself. When a woman discovers this kind of inner sexiness and capacity for sexual satisfaction, she is a new woman. This is the power of a Mojo Makeover.
I decided that I wanted to help more women feel the way she did, and I started actively developing the concept of the Mojo Makeover. Since then, Ive helped thousands of women create sexier lives that suit their unique personalities, preferences, and relationship statuses.
So, ask yourself, why are you here? You may be experiencing a setback in sexual desire or a dip in sexy self-confidence that are keeping you from feeling your foxiest. Maybe you want to lead a sexually confident, adventurous, and satisfying life, but you arent sure where to start or how to make time for it. Or you may already have a strong sexy foundation and want to push your lusty exploration to the next level. No matter what you need, the Mojo Makeover can help you get thereand it works by building on your thoughts and feelings, your strengths and desires, and everything that makes you you .
ME, FROM MAKEUP TO MOJO
Back in high school, when I wasnt chasing rocker boys or caught up in after-school activities, I helped my mom at the beauty salon, where she was a successful makeup artist. My mom was always a total knockout: Foxy. Charismatic. Irresistibly cute. She somehow got out of every ticket a policeman ever tried to give her. She was a ballerina and an artist, and from her I learned a lot about embracing, exploring, and using my unique femininity and sex appeal.
But besides being gorgeous, my mom was an incredible makeup artist with the ability to transform women through her makeovers. Shed make sunshine pour out of womens eyes as they looked in the mirror, happily transfixed by their own revealed beauty. Sometimes shed illuminate their inner sirens, and theyd look at themselves with an evening of seduction in mind. Other times, it was a simple makeup solution that showed the woman she was just as beautiful on the outside as she felt on the inside.
I noticed how quick women were to diminish themselves when theyd sit in her chair, immediately announcing how awful their noses were, how they wished they had higher cheekbones, and remarking on countless other perceived flaws. But no matter how self-critical they were initially, they would all relax when Mom started asking them questions. She wanted to know about their lifestyleswere they stay-at-home moms? Traveling businesswomen? Did they like to host funky dinner parties or throw backyard barbecues? What were they looking for? Once she knew about their lives, shed help them create workable and effective beauty regimens. If a harried working mother needed to apply her face in under five minutes, my mom created a quick and easy routine and taught her how to replicate it at home. She always played to her clients strengths: their best natural features. She never tried making them over into someone they werent, and her clients always left feeling happier.
Through watching my mother work over the years, I learned to believe in the beauty and power that exists in every woman. I came to understand that with a little girlfriend-to-girlfriend chat, some practical instruction, and yes, a little lip gloss, you could help any woman discover her unique beauty, feel more alive, and boost her inner confidence. So, starting Booty Parlor and becoming a Sexy Lifestyle Expert was a very natural evolution for me. Through my mothers business, I understood how makeup and beauty rituals help a woman look and feel beautiful, confident, and sexy. Through my own sexual experiences, I learned about the positive, confidence-boosting effects of personal pleasure and became my friends go-to girl for sex advice. And in my professional career as the founder and Sexy Lifestyle Expert for Booty Parlor, Ive educated thousands of women on sex and sexy products (both one-on-one and in groups). All of this has prepared me with the necessary knowledge and experience to create and lead you through this Mojo Makeover program.