Lola Rawlins - Position Sex: 50 Wild Sex Positions You Probably Havent Tried

50 Wild Sex Positions You Probably Havent Tried

Lola Rawlins

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First published in the USA in 2007 by
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M AYBE YOUR BEDROOM fare means a limited menu of Missionary (your bread and butter) and doggy style (for when youre ravenous!). You know theres more out there to savor, but experimenting with new recipes is a daunting thought, especially when your staples satisfy. Or maybe your sexual repertoire contains variations on old favoritesyouve added new ingredients to make them your own, but they still lack a certain spice. Either way, Position Sex cooks up creative ways for you to turn up the heat in your bedroom!

Of course, theres no one precise recipe for great sex; too many variables come into play, but one thing is for sure: experimentation can awaken your libido and bring more excitement to your lovemaking. All it takes is some concerted energy on the part of both lovers, a healthy amount of trust, and open communication.

Sounds easier than it looks? Well, before embarking on a diet of new and exciting positions presented here, first consider the following areas that can help pave the way to erotic enlightenment. Self-awareness, understanding, and knowledge about sexuality are elemental ingredients of exquisite sex. Most sex therapists agree that fantastic sex does not come naturally, but requires some work.

T RUSTING YOUR PARTNER will lead to open lines of communication, and that is where your journey begins. Think about it: If you dont feel comfortable talking about sex with your man, how will you get him to explore new options with you in the bedroom? Whether youre starting with baby steps or have always been able to talk with your partner, this is the building block from which new experiences can emerge.

Bring up your desire to try things a little differently while youre lying together, basking in the afterglow of sex. The intent is not to dismiss the sex youve been having, but to introduce the idea of doing it a little differently. Youll get hot when you begin to discuss the things that youve been thinking about exploring, and you shouldnt be surprised to find that your partner is also extremely receptive to your suggestions. He was most likely just waiting for you to open the door for fear of scaring you off with the suggestion.

Many couples also find that sharing intimate fantasies with their partner can jump start a stalled love life. Muster the courage to engage unabashedly in so-called sex talk, and a whole world of pleasure and a deeper connection will present itself.

F ORGET EVERY NEGATIVE thing you were ever told about masturbation. Touching yourself is completely naturala nutritious part of your sexual diet, and absolutely essential when it comes to knowing your body and what feels good! Because after all, isnt the point of great sex to deliver and receive pleasurable feelings?

So if youve been reluctant to touch yourself, for whatever reason, abandon that mindset today. Youll find that when you begin to explore your own body and discover what gets you hot, its much easier to articulate your desires to your partner. For instance, through self-love sessions, youve found that firm circular motions around your clitoris will send you soaring in a nanosecond. The next time your man is roaming your vagina with his hand, lightly school him in your new trick, while explaining to him simply that this feels AMAZING!

Over time, these types of admissions will make you both more informed lovers, prepared to enter a sexual session armed with the juicy secrets of how to effectively arouse one other. In addition, this kind of exploration could inspire you to get even more creative about your lovemaking, and youll find even more combinations that ratchet the heat. Once he knows the clitoris trick, he could add to that some soft dirty talkand watch out! It also behooves you to dedicate time in the sack to lots of touching and kissing. Encourage his feedback so that you can surprise him with his favorites when he least expects it!

C OMBINE THIS WITH exploring one another and youve got a potent combination for deepening your relationship insideand outsideof the bedroom! In todays fast-paced society, so many of the truly delicious aspects of sex are neglected in favor of getting to the orgasm and getting on with life. But by making time to appreciate each other and relishing your unique qualities in an unhurried manner, youll find that youre building a strong foundation upon which youll experience better sex!