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ISBN: Print 978-1-64152-029-4 | eBook 978-1-64152-030-0
This workbook is dedicated to the tens of millions of people who experience anxiety. This book is for you, so you can live a mindful life, unhindered by anxiety.
CONTENTS
HOW TO USE THIS WORKBOOK ON AN EBOOK DEVICE
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Why We Struggle with Anxiety
WHAT IS ANXIETY?
Anxiety is an ogre that lives inside us and blocks us from fully living the life we want to live. Anxiety has many symptoms, both psychological and physical, that can be felt anywhere in the body. Anxiety can take hold at any time, and it can influence our thoughts, emotions, and actions.
I use ogre to describe anxiety because thats what it felt like to me. I lived with anxiety for most of my life. For me, it mostly showed up as an over-the-top tendency toward perfectionism, coupled with social anxiety. A therapist once described me as having an anxious personality. Then, a traumatic brain injury, followed by two other concussions, turned my anxious tendencies into full-blown anxiety disorders. At that point, anxiety really did seem like an ogremy own personal monster that followed me everywhere.
WHAT IS ANXIETY GOOD FOR?
To be fair, anxiety does serve a positive purpose in our lives. It can be motivating, helping us maintain peak performance. It also keeps us safe and keeps things running smoothly by ensuring we stay on the lookout for potential problems and obstacles. To a limited degree, anxiety is also a component of empathy and caring. When we love someone, we are concerned about his or her well-being, and that set of thoughts and feelings encourages us to take caring action. Anxiety becomes a problem for us when it becomes excessive. For example, when motivation becomes debilitating performance anxiety or empathy becomes overprotection and unhealthy attachment, anxiety becomes unhealthy, and we begin to struggle with it.
Fear vs. Anxiety
Fear | Anxiety |
Present-focused: The source of the fear is happening now. | Past- or future-focused: The worry centers on thoughts about what already happened or what might happen. |
Rational: Its a response to a threat in the outside world. Maybe your neighbors snarling, barking dog charged at you when you walked by. Your bodys fear, or fight-or-flight, reaction kicks in to help you keep yourself safe. | Irrational: Nothing directly tangible in the outside world is overtly threatening you now. You might be anxious that some snarling dog somewhere will charge at you if you go for a walk, but there isnt anything real to address. |
The object of fear is real and specific. | The object of anxiety feels real but is vague. |
Because the object of the fear is real, its something that can be confronted. Objective measures can be taken to address it. Continuing with the snarling dog example, you can choose to take a different route, you can talk to your neighbor, or you can observe it and learn that its bark is worse than its bite. | Anxiety doesnt feel fabricatedthe fear and worry you experience are real. But with anxiety, theres nothing concrete you can do to alleviate your distress, because anxiety deals in hypotheticals. Anxiety over the possibility of being attacked by some dog somewhere is difficult to address because the threat is theoretical. |
The object of fear is external. |
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