Praise for Stress-Free Productivity
Yes! You can be productive and creative without sacrificing your emotional health. In this groundbreaking book, Boyes has created an exciting new paradigm for productivity that is based on your unique self and your psychological well-being.
Guy Winch, TED speaker, author of Emotional First Aid, and cohost of the Dear Therapists podcast
A brilliant, practical handbook to manage the wide-ranging psychological barriers to producing exceptional work. It is an entire master class in creating productive habits, healthy decision-making, anxiety management, curiosity, self-compassion, and creativity.
Dr. Todd B. Kashdan, Professor of Psychology, Director of the Well-Being Laboratory at George Mason University, and author of The Art of Insubordination: How to Dissent and Defy Effectively
Using the latest research on topics like habits, creativity, resilience, and emotional health, Boyes has created a guide to productivity thats nurturing, approachable, and packed with practical strategies for how you can do your most innovative work and survive your workweek.
Scott Barry Kaufman, author of Transcend and host of The Psychology Podcast
Boyes challenges the unhealthyand simply falsenotion that theres a necessary trade-off between productivity and mental well-being. On the contrary, she shows us how to use evidence-based tools to get things done without overworking, pulling our hair out, and wearing ourselves down. Ive already used several of these tips in my own life and plan to return to them again and again.
Amy Gallo, workplace expert, cohost of HBRs Women at Work podcast, and author of the HBR Guide to Dealing with Conflict
Boyes will show you how to find creative ways to be productive. She goes into detail on how to cultivate a compassionate inner voice and is working with self-compassion in interesting new ways.
Christopher Germer, clinical psychologist, co-creator of the Mindful Self-Compassion program, and author of The Mindful Path to Self-Compassion
The productivity paradigm is shifting, and Alice Boyes is leading the way. In her signature style she integrates practical tools and inspirational wisdom to offer a truly refreshing perspective on what it means to be a productive human being.
Seth Gillihan, clinical psychologist and author of Retrain your Brain: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy in 7 Weeks
Boyes shows you how to use self-awareness to advance your career with a practical plan thats tailor-made to your unique situation. Anyone who is fed up with one-size-fits-all guides to productivity should read this book. Youll learn how to be productive in a self-compassionate, creative way that incorporates the best elements of you.
Emma Seppl, Science Director of Stanford Universitys Center for Compassion and Altruism Research and Education
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CONTENTS
CHAPTER 1
You Are the Solution, Not the Problem
By now you may have heard the story of how Lin-Manuel Miranda came up with the idea for Hamilton, his groundbreaking smash-hit musical. Struggling for inspiration, he took a much-needed break. While on the beach, he read a book about Alexander Hamilton, and voil, the idea for the musical was born.
Usually, this story is cited to show how important time off is for creativity. It is a great exemplar of that. Our brains are adept at solving problems and generating great insights and ideas when were not laser-focused.
But theres more to learn from this story than take your vacation. Psychologically, much is going on beneath the surface.
Productivity advice emphasizes being focused and undistracted. But focus isnt the full story of how great things get done. Outstanding work comes about through alternating between focusing and letting your mind wander. It happens through switching between being disciplined and going off on a tangent, like devouring a book about a founding father if what youre trying to do is write a blockbuster musical. To do our best work, we have to allow ourselves to go off-topic sometimes.
When experts explain how important the unfocused mind is in productivity, what they often gloss over is how much courage it takes to harness its potential. Modern productivity culture gives us the message that focus and rigid habits are safe goals. But to be your most productive, youll need to devote time to being unfocused. What makes this harder than it might seem? To do it, you have to trust yourself. You need to trust that some of the time, your mind will wander someplace interesting and insightful. Youll need psychological tools for tolerating uncertainty about when, how, and if good ideas will show up. And youll need to override guilt and the accompanying mental chatter that what youre doing is wasting time, and time-wasting = bad. These are some of the cognitive-emotional skills youll learn in this book.
When people arent accustomed to trying to be innovative or creative, they often fear that if they let their mind wander or go off on tangents, it wont go anywhere interesting. If youre anything like me, youre not reading an 800-page biography on your vacation like Lin-Manuel was. And you may be wondering if that romance novel or crime podcast is really going to spark innovation or creativity. Well, what would be wrong with that? Its not just lofty interests that spark the creativity that produces wonderful work. Allowing yourself to be influenced by pop culture can do it too. Someone like Shonda Rhimes is a phenomenal example of how powerful that can be. Take the story about how the Featherington family on her very popular Netflix series Bridgerton was influenced by the Kardashians (and not just the books that the show is based on). Inspiration can happen in both big and small ways.
In case youre wondering, you dont have to be a creative genius and envied for your productivity, like Lin-Manuel or Shonda, to benefit from all this. And you dont need to be in a traditionally creative field. The same basic mental processes apply universally to everyone, including you.