Cy Wakeman - The Reality-Based Rules of the Workplace: Know What Boosts Your Value, Kills Your Chances, and Will Make You Happier

Cy Wakeman's new book is for every member of the workforce who wants to elevate his or her performance to a higher level. The Reality-Based Rules of the Workplace provides invaluable tools for converting the energy spent on feelings of frustration, complacency, and hopelessness into fuel for finding happiness and achieving your fullest potential. Cy's philosophy and tools have been invaluable in helping our leaders learn to embrace accountability, and the positive response from employees has been overwhelming.

Alyson Guthrie, chief human resources officer, Crowell & Moring

One of my biggest disappointments as a CEO is the significant number of good employees we have lost because some incident changed their attitude almost overnight. It is great to finally have a book that helps employees understand how management views them and that they can totally control that perception. The greatest benefit to The Reality-Based Rules of the Workplace is that it teaches us all how to be more accountable in our own careers. Every college student should read this to prepare them for the real world and how to thrive in it.

Mike Rydin, president and CEO, HCSS

In The Reality-Based Rules of the Workplace, Cy Wakeman reveals that the key ingredient to both high performance and happiness is simple: personal accountability. With a no-holds-barred approach and practical tools, Wakeman helps employees discover a newfound sense of happiness and control in their work.

Kim Ferrarie, senior vice president, human resources, Air Liquide

Cy Wakeman's newest book is for every member of the workforce who wants to elevate his or her performance to a higher level of greatness. The Reality-Based Rules of the Workplace provides tools for converting any disengagement you are feeling toward your current company into powerful action to re-engage and achieve your fullest potential. We are using Cy's philosophy and tools in our leadership development programs, and the response has been overwhelming! I highly recommend this book if you are ready to challenge yourself to let go of any blockers that are preventing you from being your best.

Ken Myers, senior vice president and chief human resources officer, Hospira, Inc.

The Reality-Based Rules of the Workplace is an essential guide to facing the real challenges you deal with every day and seizing the opportunities they represent, instead of feeling victimized. Cy Wakeman shows how you can adopt a no-nonsense approach to owning your career and becoming the kind of employee no organization would want to lose.

Ed Bjurstrom, general manager, Gilead Sciences

The Reality-Based Rules of the Workplace is spot on! It provides a suite of tangible tools that empower employees to take control of their work life. We all want to determine our own destiny, how we contribute at work, and how we feel about it. This book is key to moving forward! The messages Cy provides are easy to understand and apply across environments.

Shannon Bell, executive coach and organizational development consultant

If you are an employee or you have employees, The Reality-Based Rules of the Workplace is a must-read for thriving in today's marketplace. Cy provides simple steps to developing a culture where employees are contributors and drivers of your basic operating principles, and she provides tips on how to enhance business results by creating relationships that are meaningful and success-filled for employees, coworkers, and your business.

Cindy Williams, organizational development specialist, Bayer CropScience

The Reality-Based Rules of the Workplace is a gem for anyone holding a job, and for those who evaluate the work of other people. Totally engaging, funny at times, and an easy read. This book is packed with questions to ask yourself and guidance toward the best, most productive answers to drive success for yourself, your coworkers, and your business. Cy has hit this one out of the park!

Gordon Whitten, serial entrepreneur and innovation expert

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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data

Wakeman, Cy.

The reality-based rules of the workplace : know what boosts your value, kills your chances, and will make you happier / Cy Wakeman. First edition.

pages cm

Includes bibliographical references and index.

ISBN 978-1-118-41368-5 (cloth); ISBN 978-1-118-58555-9 (ebk);

ISBN 978-1-118-58567-2 (ebk); ISBN 978-1-118-58570-2 (ebk)

1. Success in business. 2. Job satisfaction. 3. Organizational behavior. 4. Office ox{politics.} I. Title.

HF5386.W158 2013

650.1 dc23

2012046244

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