Ellyn Satter - Feeding with Love and Good Sense: The First Two Years

Feeding with Love and Good Sense: The First 2 Years

Copyright 2014 by Ellyn Satter

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Publishers Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Feeding with Love and Good Sense: The First Two Years
1. Parenting. Infants and toddlers. 2. Feeding.
3. The family and family meals. 4. Children. Child development.

Developmental editor, Nancy Pekar

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Feeding with Love and Good Sense: The First 2 Years

Ellyn Satter is the go-to authority about raising healthy children who are a joy to feed. In this booklet, the second in the Feeding with Love and Good Sense series, Satter advises you about how to feed your child in words and pictures, and demonstrates why to do it with feeding stories.

Ellyn Satter is a Registered Dietitian Nutritionist and Family Therapist. Says Satter, This booklet and the materials below are based on my decades-long adventures in feeding and eating with parents, children, families, adults, and the caring professionals who work with them.

Child of Mine: Feeding with Love and Good Sense: A warm, supportive, and entertaining book about wise, loving, and tuned-in feeding. Helps you understand your child and feed well from birth through preschool.

Secrets of Feeding a Healthy Family: How to Eat, How to Raise Good Eaters, How to Cook: When the joy goes out of eating, nutrition suffers. The secret of raising a healthy eater is to love good food, enjoy eating, and teach your child to do the same.

Your Childs Weight: Helping Without Harming: If you are determined to have a slim child, this is not the book for you. On the other hand, if you are willing to do an excellent job with feeding and to let your child grow up with the body that is right for him or her, read on.

Ellyn Satters Feeding with Love and Good Sense II Videos: Close-up, fascinating footage of real parents and real children in their homes in actual feeding situations. Shows what works and what doesnt with feeding.

Feeding with Love and Good Sense: The First Two Years: This brief, beautiful, engaging booklet gets todays busy parents off to a good and authoritative start with feeding.

www.ellynsatterinstitute.org: Loads of free stuff about how to feed, how to eat, parents success stories, and articles. Shopping for Ellyn Satters books, other booklets in this series

Table of Contents

Think of your child as a future toddler. By 8 to 18 months, your tiny baby will be a good eater and ready to join in when you have family-friendly meals.

To raise a good eater, do your jobs with feeding and parenting, then trust your child to do her jobs with eating, moving, and growing.

Being able to recognize stages in development and understand temperament lets you trust and enjoy your child and parent in the best way.

Your baby eats best and feels best about youand about eatingwhen you pay attention to her and do what she wants.

Start and progress solid foods based on what your baby can do, not how old he is. Rules about when and what to feed make you ignore your baby and doubt your judgment.

Your child might progress from starting solids to joining in with family meals in a couple of months, or it may take a year or more. Go as fast or as slowly as is right for her.

To correct feeding problems, be sure to do your jobs and just as sure to refrain from trying to do your childs jobs. Focus on the quality of feeding rather than the quantity your child eats.

Feeding is parenting in all ways. You have to do your jobs, but then you have to let go. Throughout the growing-up years, maintain a division of responsibility in feeding.

Your childs learning to be a good eater starts at birth. At each step along the way, this booklet addresses your part in his learningstarting with breast- or formula-feeding, going through the steps to learn to eat grown-up food, and joining in with family meals. Step by step, your child learns to eat the food you eat and feel about eating the way you do.

A good eater is a competent eater.

She feels good about eating: Every child wants to eat and can enjoy eating if she gets the right help. Older children who are good eaters enjoy family mealsand their parents do, too.

She eats as much or as little as she needs: Only she knows how much she needs. Trusting her lets her be healthy and energetic and grow up to have the body that nature intended for her.

She eats what you eat with only minor changes: She is okay with being offered food she has never seen before. She can sneak up on new food and learn to like it.

She behaves nicely at mealtime: She picks and chooses from what you provide for the meal. She says yes, please, and no, thank you. She does not make a fuss.

You can raise a good eater.