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NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER A meditation on sense-making when theres no sense to be made, on letting go when we cant hold on, and on being unafraid even when were terrified.Lucy Kalanithi
This unforgettable memoir is a powerful graduation gift for med school students and a must read for doctors and nurses looking to empathize with their patients.
Kate Bowler is a professor at Duke Divinity School with a modest Christian upbringing, but she specializes in the study of the prosperity gospel, a creed that sees fortune as a blessing from God and misfortune as a mark of Gods disapproval. At thirty-five, everything in her life seems to point toward blessing. She is thriving in her job, married to her high school sweetheart, and loves life with her newborn son.
Then she is diagnosed with stage IV colon cancer.
The prospect of her own mortality forces Kate to realize that she has been tacitly subscribing to the prosperity gospel, living with the conviction that she can control the shape of her life with a surge of determination. Even as this type of Christianity celebrates the American can-do spirit, it implies that if you cant do and succumb to illness or misfortune, you are a failure. Kate is very sick, and no amount of positive thinking will shrink her tumors. What does it mean to die, she wonders, in a society that insists everything happens for a reason? Kate is stripped of this certainty only to discover that without it, life is hard but beautiful in a way it never has been before.
Frank and funny, dark and wise, Kate Bowler pulls the reader deeply into her life in an account she populates affectionately with a colorful, often hilarious retinue of friends, mega-church preachers, relatives, and doctors. Everything Happens for a Reason tells her story, offering up her irreverent, hard-won observations on dying and the ways it has taught her to live.
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I fell hard and fast for Kate Bowler. Her writing is naked, elegant, and grippingshes like a Christian Joan Didion. I left Kates story feeling more present, more grateful, and a hell of a lot less alone. And what else is art for?Glennon Doyle, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Love Warrior and president of Together Rising
This is a beautifully written, intelligent, soulful book, necessary reading for all of us who long to walk faithfully and honestly through the darkest and most desolate of seasons.Shauna Niequist, New York Times bestselling author of Present Over Perfect

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Everything Happens for a Reason is a work of nonfiction. Some names and identifying details have been changed.

Copyright 2018 by Kate Bowler

All rights reserved.

Published in the United States by Random House, an imprint and division of Penguin Random House LLC, New York.

R ANDOM H OUSE and the H OUSE colophon are registered trademarks of Penguin Random House LLC.

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Names: Bowler, Kate, author.

Title: Everything happens for a reason : and other lies Ive loved / Kate Bowler.

Description: New York : Random House, [2018]

Identifiers: LCCN 2017011466 | ISBN 9780399592065 (hardback) | ISBN 9780399592072 (ebook)

Subjects: LCSH: Bowler, Kate,Health. | Colon (Anatomy)CancerPatientsUnited StatesBiography. | CancerPatientsFamily relationships. | Christian life. | BISAC: BIOGRAPHY & AUTOBIOGRAPHY / Personal Memoirs. | BIOGRAPHY & AUTOBIOGRAPHY / Medical. | RELIGION / Christian Life / Death, Grief, Bereavement. Classification: LCC RC280.C6 B68 2018 | DDC 362.19699/40092 [B]dc23 LC record available at https://lccn.loc.gov/2017011466

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PREFACE

T HERES A BRANCH OF C HRISTIANITY that promises a cure for tragedy. It is called by many names, but most often it is nicknamed the prosperity gospel for its bold central claim that God will give you your hearts desires: money in the bank, a healthy body, a thriving family, and boundless happiness.

I grew up on the prairies of Manitoba, Canada, surrounded by communities of Mennonites. I learned at my Anabaptist Bible camp about a poor carpenter from Galilee who taught that a good life was a simple one. Though most Mennonites abandoned bonnets and buggies long ago, they kept their concerns about the greediness of modern life. Everyone had a grandpa who once ruined a gleaming new car by painting the bumpers black to hide the chrome and knew that the most holy words found outside of the Scriptures were I got it on sale. But when I was eighteen or so, I started hearing stories about a different kind of faith with a formula for success, and by twenty-five I was traveling the country interviewing the prosperity gospels celebrities. Eventually, I wrote the first history of the movement from beginning to end.

I spent years talking to televangelists who claimed spiritual guarantees for how to receive divine money. I held hands with people in wheelchairs praying at the altar to be cured. I thought I was trying to understand how millions of North Americans had started asking God for more. How they seemed to want permission to experience the luxuries of life as a reward for good behavior. After all, the movement was best known in popular culture for Jim and Tammy Faye Bakker, the de facto King and Queen of 1980s televangelism. Their media empire toppled when Jim was convicted of financial fraud, and the scandal cemented in most peoples minds the idea that the prosperity gospel was fundamentally about gold faucets, thick mink coats, and matching his-and-her Mercedes Benzes.

And I did discover that the prosperity gospel encourages people (especially its leaders) to buy private jets and multimillion-dollar homes as evidence of Gods love. But I also saw the desire for escape. Believers wanted an escape from poverty, failing health, and the feeling that their lives were leaky buckets. Some people wanted Bentleys but more wanted relief from the wounds of their past and the pain of their present. People wanted salvation from bleak medical diagnoses; they wanted to see God rescue their broken teenagers or their misfiring marriages. They wanted talismans to ward off the things that go bump in the night. They wanted a modicum of power over the things that ripped their lives apart at the seams.

The prosperity gospel is a theodicy, an explanation for the problem of evil. It is an answer to the questions that take our lives apart: Why do some people get healed and some people dont? Why do some people leap and land on their feet while others tumble all the way down? Why do some babies die in their cribs and some bitter souls live to see their great-grandchildren? The prosperity gospel looks at the world as it is and promises a solution. It guarantees that faith will always make a way.

I would love to report that what I found in the prosperity gospel was something so foreign and terrible to me that I was warned away. But what I discovered was both familiar and painfully sweet: the promise that I could curate my life, minimize my losses, and stand on my successes. And no matter how many times I rolled my eyes at the creeds outrageous certainties, I craved them just the same. I had my own prosperity gospel, a flowering weed grown in with all the rest.

Married in my twenties, a baby in my thirties, I won a job at my alma mater straight out of graduate school. I felt breathless with the possibilities. Actually, its getting harder to remember what it felt like, but I dont think it was anything as simple as pride. It was certainty, plain and simple, that God had a worthy plan for my life in which every setback would also be a step forward. I wanted God to make me good and make me faithful, with just a few shining accolades along the way. Anything would do if hardships were only detours on my long lifes journey. I believed God would make a way.

I dont believe that anymore.

O NE MOMENT I WAS a regular person with regular problems. And the next, I was someone with cancer. Before my mind could apprehend it, it was thereswelling to take up every space my imagination could touch. A new and unwanted reality. There was a before, and now there was an after. Time slowed to a pulse. Am I breathing? I wondered. Do I want to?

Every day I prayed the same prayer: God, save me. Save me. Save me. Oh, God, remember my baby boy. Remember my son and my husband before you return me to ashes. Before they walk this earth alone.

I plead with a God of Maybe, who may or may not let me collect more years. It is a God I love, and a God that breaks my heart.

Anyone who has lived in the aftermath of something like this knows that it signifies the arrival of three questions so simple that they seem, in turn, too shallow and too deep.

Why?

God, are you here?

What does this suffering mean?

At first those questions had enormous weight and urgency. I could hear Him. I could almost make out an answer. But then it was drowned out by what Ive now heard a thousand times. Everything happens for a reason or God is writing a better story. Apparently God is also busy going around closing doors and opening windows. He cant get enough of that.

T HE WORLD OF CERTAINTY had ended and so many people seemed to know why. Most of their explanations were reassurances that even this is a secret plan to improve me. God has a better plan! This is a test and it will make you stronger! Sometimes these explanations were peppered with scriptures like We know that for those who love God all things work together for good (Romans 8:28). Except that the author, Paul, worshipped God with every breath until his body was dumped in an unmarked grave. But I knew what they were saying. It would be nice if catastrophes were divine conspiracies to undo what time and unfaithfulness had done to my wandering soul.

Other people wanted to assure me that what Id had was enough. At least you have your son. At least youve had an amazing marriage. I had been stripped down to the studs, and everything of worth I had accumulated was being appraised with a keen eye.

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