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In this seismically moving memoir (The New York Times Book Review, Editors Choice), one woman asks a seemingly impossible question in the aftermath of her mothers suicide: How do you mourn a loved one as you repair the injuries they inflicted?
Laura Trujillo resurfaces from the dark sub-basement of despair with assurances for us all: There is hope. There is healing. Always, there is love. This book will save lives.Connie Schultz, author of The Daughters of Erietown
Laura Trujillo had been close to her mother for most of her adult life, raising her four children within a few miles of their beloved grandmothers Phoenix home. But just three months after moving her young family to Cincinnati for a new job, Laura receives shocking news: Her mother had taken her own lifeby jumping off a ledge into the Grand Canyon, a place Laura knew her mother had always loved.
Laura and her mother had shared a profound and special bond, yet each had also kept from the other the deepest truths about their lives. As an adult, Laura finally broke her silence about the sexual abuse she had suffered as a teenager at the hands of her stepfathera secret Laura had buried to protect her mother. After her mothers death, Laura embarks on an emotional odyssey, searching for clues that could explain the depression, intergenerational trauma, and shared heartbreaks in her family. When she returns to the Grand Canyon, it becomes an oasis that nurtures Lauras search for redemption and peace. As Laura wrestles with her feelings, she forges a new path forward.
Moving and intimate, powerfully told, Stepping Back from the Ledge is a remarkable exploration of the bond between a mother and daughter, and of the hope that can come from facing the truth.

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Copyright 2022 by Laura Trujillo All rights reserved Published in the United - photo 1
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Copyright 2022 by Laura Trujillo

All rights reserved.

Published in the United States by Random House, an imprint and division of Penguin Random House LLC, New York.

Random House and the House colophon are registered trademarks of Penguin Random House LLC.

Names: Trujillo, Laura, author.

Title: Stepping back from the ledge : a daughters search for truth and renewal / Laura Trujillo.

Description: First edition. | New York : Random House, [2022] | Includes bibliographical references.

Identifiers: LCCN 2021006621 (print) | LCCN 2021006622 (ebook) | ISBN 9780593157619 (hardcover) | ISBN 9780593157626 (ebook)

Subjects: LCSH: Trujillo, Laura. | Children of suicide victimsUnited StatesBiography. | Sexually abused teenagersUnited StatesBiography. | Mothers and daughtersUnited StatesBiography.

Classification: LCC HV6545 .T78 2022 (print) | LCC HV6545 (ebook) | DDC 362.28/3092 [B]dc23

LC record available at https://lccn.loc.gov/2021006621

LC ebook record available at https://lccn.loc.gov/2021006622

Ebook ISBN9780593157626

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Book design by Diane Hobbing, adapted for ebook

Cover design: Anna Kochman

Cover art: Linnean Society, London, UK/Bridgeman Images (flowers), Malte Mueller/Getty Images (paper)

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Chapter 1
Searching for Answers

I stood and looked down into the canyon, at a spot where millions of years ago, a river cut through stone. Everything about the view is awe-inspiring and impossible, a landscape that seems to defy both physics and description. It is a view in a place that dwarfs you, that magnifies the questions in your mind about your place in the world and about the world itself, and that keeps the answers to itself.

It was April 26, 2016four years since my mom died. Four years to the day since she stood in this same spot and looked out at this same view. I caught my breath here, and felt dizzy and needed to remind myself to breathe in through my nose and out through my mouth, slower, and again. I could say it out loud now: This is where my mom killed herself. She jumped from the edge of the Grand Canyon. From the edge of the earth.

I had come back to the spot because, finally, I was readyI wanted to know everything. Like a lot of people who lose someone they love to suicide, I had been shocked. Numb. Now I wanted to understand how this could have happened and what I could have done differently, what we all might have done differently to help her. What could have caused this? Was there a tipping point?

My eyes followed a narrow trail down, cutting through layers of red and purple rock that felt as if it were another planet, until the trail disappeared into a patch of green.

Id been at this spot before, with my mother. My mom brought me here once when I was a child, and wed walked along the rocky South Rim. She brought me here again when I was in college, this time for a mother-daughter trip where we exhausted ourselves hiking the 7.1 miles down to the canyons floor and slept in a cabin: We spent more time together just the two of us than we ever would again. In between, my mom hiked more than a dozen trails at the canyon, finding a sense of adventure and strength, of peace and spirituality. She had watched the sunrise at Easter Mass here and had sat along the edge at night when the canyon disappears into a hole of black, with only the stars visible. For her, it was a place where she rediscovered herself after her divorce from my father, and later where she went to escape the world.

Now, I didnt just want to know everything. I needed to know it: the latitude and longitude where she fell, the last words she said to the shuttle bus driver who dropped her at the trail overlook, her mood when she met with her priest just four days prior. He had told me my mom went out of her way to say she was good, but he had sensed she was hiding something. I had tracked all of this down to try to piece it together, my mothers life.

I read over the last letter she had mailed to my children. I looked for clues inside that little card with a cartoon penguin drawn on the front: She wrote in block printing so my five-year-old daughter, Lucy, could read it easily. My mom wrote of riding the light rail to a Diamondbacks baseball game in Phoenix, of planting a cactus garden, of looking forward to summer in the already hot days of spring in the desert.

I also read and re-read her last words, written in cursive in the tiniest composition book, which she had left in her Jeep, as well as the last text she typed, in which she both celebrated life and apologized for it: Life. My life has been such a gift. Im so very sorry to disappoint all of you. In my heart I know this is not right but its all I can do. Please pray for my soul.

I zoomed in on the photo she took with her iPhone from the ledge, the photo looking out to the sunrise that lit the canyon on that morning. I wanted to see if the rocks or shadows would reveal anything new. I re-played our last conversation in my mind, and each one before that, and before that, all of them I could remember. None of them seemed to have given any hints of what was to come. I last heard her voice on Easter, which on that year was also my birthday, talking about my children and chocolate bunnies, the irises blooming in our neighbors yard, and when she might be able to visit. The conversation ended like thousands before it. I said, I love you, Mom, and she said, Love you, kiddo.

I wanted to know every fact, every detail, to see everything she saw, because I didnt have the one thing I wantedthe why. Now, I wondered why we didnt see it coming somehow, why we didnt do more, when it all seemed so clear. Looking back over the years, there were signs of depression and sadness, anxiety and regret, but sometimes we didnt really see, and we were silent about so many things.

I came back to the canyon for answers, or a deeper understanding of life and my mom, of her secrets and mine. But all I could see were the peaks miles away, the trees greener and prettier than I imagined, tiny dots of figures moving slowly up the switchbacks, and the stillness of the world.

Id been told that suicide is as common and unknowable as the wind that shaped this rock. Its unspeakable, bewildering, confounding, devastating, sad. Dont try to figure it out, I had told myself; stop asking questions, assigning blame, looking. Yet I went on trying. How could I not? Now here I stood, looking, searching, suppressing the urge I had to follow her.

The morning she died, she tried to reach me. I saw Mom pop up on my phone shortly after ten a.m. I was at my desk on the nineteenth floor of The Cincinnati Enquirer building, working at a new job as the managing editor of the newsroom. I hadnt quite settled in to my role yetthere was just one photo of my children on my desk. I sat in the middle of an open office, at a desk between the receptionist and one of the digital news producers, a space where privacy was difficult to find.

I declined the call, and quickly texted: I love you, Mom. Crazy busy workday. Hard to break away to talk. But know I love you. I had just walked out of one news meeting and sat down for a minute before the next one, trying to edit a sports story in the time between, while worrying about how my four children were adjusting to their new schools and making friends, and whether my husband had agreed to be home by five-thirty that night to start dinner, or I had. The rest of the day was a blur of talking through ideas with reporters and editors, eating a peanut butter sandwich at my desk, reading columns, and analyzing which stories were doing well online.

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