Davis - Body Language

BODY LANGUAGE

2 Books in 1

Your Complete Guide on Analyzing People and Mastering the Art of Persuasion for a Better Life via NLP Secrets; A Master Class in Speed Reading People, Manipulation, and Dark Psychology

KATE DAVIS

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TABLE OF CONTENTS

A Master Class in Speed Reading People, Mastering the Mental Game, and Using Emotional Intelligence, Body Language, and Behavioral Psychology to Overcome Anger

KATE DAVIS

A lways read the best books, because you may not have another chance to read them. This is one of the best books that is leading to a big difference in your lifestyle. This book explains how you can analyze people through behavioral psychology, body language, and understand what people are saying using emotional intelligence.

We can deal with feelings creatively and make good use of our intelligence. Emotional intelligence allows a person to become aware of their souls and learn to control them rather than become a slave to any emotion that happens at any given time. This book is full of "how-to" suggestions. This book teaches you how to use the emotions and intelligence productively to do an excellent job.

The book has changed peoples lives. It is full of useful things and the right guidance to control your emotions. It will give you the direction you may have been looking for while trying to gain confidence, control, respect, and becoming a more successful person in dealing with the ups and downs of everyday life, and dealing with others.

By knowing what emotional intelligence is and how we can use it in our lives, we can use all the knowledge, education, and experience that we have learned in our lives.

M any people live without paying attention to their feelings. Either you ignore them completely, or you let them control your life. Emotions are powerful tools that can work or destroy miracles in your life. It is the task of the mind to learn how to identify them and to position itself between the emotional and the physical response.

Some people are born with a gift of emotional intelligence, but others need to master it. Either way, knowing yourself and understanding other people's feelings can positively impact your relationships and allow you to excel in any area of life.

We all have personalities with different interests, different needs, and different ways of expressing our emotions. All of this require patience and intelligence - especially if we plan to succeed in life. Emotional intelligence makes sense here.

An emotionally intelligent person is both very aware of someone's emotional state, including negativity, frustration, sadness, or something more subtle. They can point it out and deal with it. These people are particularly attuned to the emotions that others feel.

Emotional intelligence (EI) versus emotional quotient (EQ)

Emotional intelligence (EI) is described as the ability to follow someone's feelings and those of others, distinguish between different emotions and emphasize them well. As we implement EI, we direct our thinking and behavior with an enlightened focus on developing a healthy mind.

Emotional quotient (EQ) is an indicator of our ability to mentally understand and apply our thoughts. Though it is a rigorous task, the EQ study is designed to show how well we have learned the negative and positive effects of emotional control to positive thinking, communicational skill and behaviour.

Experts now understand that emotional intelligence helps to avoid and overcome a lot of problems we are facing in our personal and professional lives.

The more we understand the emotional dimension of our mind, the more valuable we are as individuals - including emotional stability, protection, overall intelligence, and physical health. We can also treat other people and things in a better, more meaningful way. Each individual must build their strengths and emotional intelligence concurrently, regardless of their profession or stage of life, to make the most of their chances in life.

W hen you learn to analyze people, it is the responsibility to understand people, what they say, and what their identity is. If you understand verbal and nonverbal cues, look beyond the veils of the person.

But, those things will not reveal the whole story about them. You also need to count in other essential data so that you can figure out how to read significant nonverbal signs that individuals show.

To do this, you should also be willing to give up previously established skills or psychological burden, such as old feelings of hatred or personality conflicts that prevent you to see someone. The key is to remain objective and obtain impartial data without damaging it.

Regardless of whether you read your leader, colleague, or assistant, to understand individuals precisely, you must specify some options. You should also be happy to leave the old, limiting thoughts behind. People who read others well are willing to understand the hidden things. They've figured out how to use their 'super senses' to look beyond what you already see to access extraordinary intuitive experiences.

THREE METHODS IN THE ART OF HUMAN READING

The first technique: pay attention to the body language

Research has shown that words make up only 7 percent of how we communicate, when our non-verbal communication (55 percent) and voice (30 percent) speak with the rest. Here are the tips to focus on reading nonverbal communication. Don't try to get too logical or scientific.

Stay loose and free. Be kind, sit back and watch.

1. Focus on appearance

As you read, note: Do they wear a comfortable suit and polished shoes, dress for progress, express desire? Trousers and a T-shirt that show comfort and relaxation? A tight top with plunging neckline, for seductive purpose? For example, a pendant with a cross or Buddha with spiritual values.

2. Observe attitude

As you read individuals' attitudes, ask yourself: are they holding their heads up? Or are they walking hesitantly, an indication of low self-confidence? Do they walk with a bloated chest, a sign of a selfish personality?

3. Observe the physical movements

Slope and Distance - Observe where individuals lean. For the most part, we tend towards what we like and away from what we don't like.

Crossed Arms and Legs - This pose indicates preventive or protective manner. The moment individuals fold their legs, they will generally point their toes towards the person closest to them.

Hiding their hands - When people, despite their high confidence, put their hands in their pocket or hide their hands, it shows that they are hiding something.

Lip or Fingernail Bites - When people nibble or lick their lips or pluck their fingernail skin, they are trying to relax under tension or in an uncomfortable circumstance.