Small Changes
Copyright 2021 by Alicia Witt
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Contents
Guide
Go on, you got this one life to live
You gotta take up your hook and sail
BLINKERS
D eciding you want your life to be healthier, more balanced, and more connected is a big, big step.
Maybe youre motivated by your own unique health and fitness challenges, a work-life balance that isnt quite working for you, or a concern for the imprint youre leaving behind on the world. The question is: Once youve made the decision to change, where do you start? How will you know what to do without being consumed by rules, judgments, and restrictions? How can you live in a way thats respectful to others and to the world around you, while best serving your own well-being and still prioritizing a life thats authentic to how you want to live?
If youre anything like me, youve probably spent a lot of time thinking about these questionsespecially when the guidance that experts offer in books, on TV, or online can be overwhelming. The truth is, you dont have to pay hundreds of dollars for meditation classes in order to be comfortable in your own mind, and you definitely dont need to join the most exclusive gym or fad-of-the-moment fitness class to have a healthy, strong, and fit body. If you choose to include more plant-based foods in your meals, you shouldnt feel like you have to abide by draconian rules that require you to empty your entire kitchen before youre accepted into the cult. No one gets to tell you what rules you live byexcept for you!
If you want to improve your health, your consciousness, and the world, you dont need to overhaul your life in a drastic, overwhelming way. Sometimes all it takes are a few small changes to help you find your authenticity.
Thats what this book is about.
Small Changes is a guide to help you find balance, eat better, and feel healthier physically and emotionally, and it offers a look at how I pull it all together as a successful actor, singer-songwriter, producer, rescue animal guardian, amateur farmer, homemade margarita aficionadooh, and now author! Most importantlyand its been a long road to this pointIve finally learned how to do it while staying deeply centered, even amidst chaos and uncertainty.
An Accidental Guru: Why Me and How This Book Came to Be
Ive had such an odd career, but in a really cool way. Im not so well-known that people chase me down the street, but whenever I go out, I get recognized. Given the wide range of diverse roles Ive played over the span of my career, and the multitude of genres and projects Ive been a part of, Im almost always wrong if I try to guess the answer to that hilarious question working actors are asked constantly: What have I seen you in? (As youll probably be relieved to know, I dont lurk in your living room, keeping tabs on your viewing history, and I havent been spying on you over the years as you went to the movies.)
I live in Nashville now, and I find a sense of great peace when Im in my vegetable garden, doing household chores, running errands at Home Depot, or spending time with my close-knit family of friends at one of our houses. Living such a normal day-to-day life when Im not working also allows me to do better work on film or in a recording studio, or sitting alone writing a song or a screenplay, because everything else in my life is in balance.
Thats my core philosophy in a nutshell: balance and authenticity. Im not writing this book as an expert, because Im far from that. Im not a trained nutritionist. Im not even a trained actor! Ive never taken an acting class. I never attended public school. My only formal training thus far in my life has been as a classical pianist.
But, for whatever reason, Ive become a kind of accidental guru.
In 2003, I was in London to film the movie The Upside of Anger. The night after we all arrived for rehearsals, Keri Russell and I met up at The Ladbroke Arms in Notting Hill, a short walk from where we were staying. I was teaching Keri how to play backgammon at our table beneath the awning out on the patio, enjoying the perfect summer night, when a black cat suddenly was thrown out the window of the apartment above the pub. The cat bounced off the awning, and as it scrambled, claws outstretched, desperate to find its footing, it landed on my face and then raced away into the night.
What was that? I said to Keri. It was such a shock, like being slapped really hard in the face with something big and warm and heavy. I didnt register that something significant had happened until I saw the look on Keris face. Touching my face, I realized how heavily I was bleeding. My upper lip was completely split in two.