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Contents
Endorsements
Half Title Page
Title Page
Copyright Page
Detailed Contents
Illustrations
Preface
Part 1: Theological and Social Perspectives on Family Life
1. A Theological Foundation for Family Relationships: Developing a Theology of the Family
2. The Family as a Developing Biosocial System
Part 2: Marriage: The Foundation of Family Life
3. Mate Selection and Cohabitation: Romance and Reality
4. Establishing Marriage: Moving toward Differentiated Unity
5. A Model for Biblical Marriage
Part 3: The Expansion of Family Life: Parenting and Beyond
6. Parenting: The Process of Relationship Empowerment
7. Developing a Mature, Reciprocating Self
8. Family Spirituality: Nurturing Christian Beliefs, Morals, and Values
9. Adolescence and Midlife: Challenging Changes
10. The Joys and Challenges of Family in Later Life
11. Changing Gender Roles and Relations: The Impact on Family Life
12. Becoming an Authentic Sexual Self
Part 5: Communication: The Heart of Family Life
13. Intimate Communication: Expressing Love and Anger
Part 6: The Social Dynamics of Family Life
14. Work and the Family: Conflict or Collaboration?
15. Through the Stress and Pain of Family Life
16. Divorce and Single-Parent Families
17. Complex Families in Contemporary Society
Part 7: Family Life in Postmodern Society
18. Biblical Family Values in a Modern and Postmodern World
19. Creating a Family-Friendly Society
Bibliography
Index
Back Cover
Detailed Contents
Endorsements
Half Title Page
Title Page
Copyright Page
Illustrations
Preface
Part 1: Theological and Social Perspectives on Family Life
1. A Theological Foundation for Family Relationships: Developing a Theology of the Family
Trinitarian Relationality
God in Relationship
Elements in a Theology of Family Relationships
Covenant: To Love and Be Loved
Grace: To Forgive and Be Forgiven
Empowerment: To Serve and Be Served
Intimacy: To Know and Be Known
Applying the Theological Model: From Hurting to Healing Behaviors
2. The Family as a Developing Biosocial System
Family-Systems Theory
Simple Feedback
Cybernetic Control
Morphogenesis
Reorientation
Biological Influences on the Family
Genetic Factors
Neurological Factors
Family-Development Theory
Cohesion
Adaptability
Communication
Role Structure
Part 2: Marriage: The Foundation of Family Life
3. Mate Selection and Cohabitation: Romance and Reality
Mate Selection in Traditional Cultures
Mate Selection and the Role of Romantic Love
Theories of Mate Selection
Like Marries Like Theory
Bowen Family Systems Theory
Personality Theory
Filter Theory
Marriage Markets Theory
Other Theories
A Christian Perspective on Mate Selection
Cohabitation: A Path toward or Alternative to Marriage?
Is Cohabitation a Step toward Marriage?
What Does Culture Have to Do with It?
Making the Decision to Cohabit
W HAT D OES L OVE H AVE TO D O WITH I T ?
W HAT D OES C O MMITMENT H AVE TO D O WITH I T ?
E VENTUAL O UTCOMES
Does Premarital Cohabitation Lead to Marital Adjustment?