Dedication: For Mozes, Storm, and Michel.
Introduction
Theres no denying that food is a huge part of the Friends universe. Sure, we can all remember Rachels meat trifle, but can you recall an episode with Joey in it where he isnt eating? Would it have been funny enough if Rosss intestinal issues were caused by something other than eating dodgy tacos? What if Monica were a dentist?
As we watch and re-watch the episodes, we begin to understand that the sharing of meals together perfectly encapsulates how food is one of the unifying things that builds a community. If not in New York City, where else could one get authentic rice and gandules or zongzi within a 300 mile radius? And who else would one share those treasures with if not ones neighbors, coffeehouse acquaintances, and fellow subway commuters?
Ross, Monica, Chandler, Joey, Phoebe, and Rachels stories sprung to life in a New York City ripe with fresh ideas, multiple cultures, and untapped potential to set the scene. It is the evergreen timelessness and relatability of the stories woven around eating that stay with fans around the globe. From wearing a Thanksgiving turkey on Joey and Monicas head to the importance of unagi, fans of Friends everywhere can relate to the trials and tribulations of trying to make it in the world in their 20s and 30s.
Much like the characters in Friends, I built worthy connections within my community by saying hi to my neighbors when we were both in the hallway. I offered help if I saw them struggling to carry their packages up the stairs. I smiled. Eventually, I did the only thing that made sense to me at the time: I invited my neighbors over for a shared meal. I cant remember what I cooked that day when 15 people were piled into my tiny apartment, but the one thing I do remember is that the people who attended that dinner are still some of my most valued and trusted friends to date.
As such, Ive made many of the recipes in this cookbook large enough to share with friends and family. The recipes also reflect each of the Friends (and many side characters) personal tastes. Some of Monicas recipes reflect her abilities as a chef, some of Rachels recipes feature fancier ingredients based on her upper-crust background, and Joeys recipes are delicious crowd-pleasers. Though each recipe is different, they are all meant to bring people together in order to enjoy each others company.
My hope for this cookbook is that it not only emboldens our love for Friends, but in the philosophies inherent in the series. These philosophies are what make the show worthy of nostalgia: May we extend grace and forgiveness to one another like Rachel and Ross; may we extend generosity to one another like Chandler and Joey (except when it comes to food: Joey doesnt share food!); may we extend loyalty like Monica, and sincerity and laughter like Phoebe. Most of all, may we extend the pleasure of eating together and the sharing of a meal with friends.
Amanda Yee
Monica's Blue Cupboard Basics
Every good home cook or chef has a repertoire of spreads, sauces, jams, and stocks from which they can build many delicious meals and feasts for loved ones, family, and friends. Monicas well-stocked blue cupboard was a lifesaver anytime an extra food-loving friend showed up unannounced or when she needed to throw Rachel a going-away party. Having these items on hand will turn simple meals into fun, memorable feasts. Just make sure to clean and dust the top of your canned jar lids every once in a while or, if youre anything like Monica, a lot!
Rapini Pesto, the Best-O
When Phoebe goes to the kitchen at Monicas restaurant, its not clear whether the cute new sous-chef Tims pesto is the best-o or just pretty good-o, but when Monica says she wants to fire him because hes not good at the job, the quality of his pesto cant save him. This pesto though, made with rapini, also known as broccoli rabe, is definitely the best-o.
Season 8, Episode 5
The One With Rachels Date
YIELD: 4 servings
PREP TIME: 10 minutes
- 1 bunch rapini
- cup dry-roasted almonds
- Zest and juice of 1 lemon
- cup grated Pecorino Romano cheese
- cup extra-virgin olive oil
- Salt and pepper
In a food processor, combine the rapini, almonds, lemon zest and juice, and cheese and pulse to combine. With the processor running, slowly drizzle in olive oil until a paste forms. Season with salt and pepper to taste. Cover and refrigerate for up to 2 weeks.
Ham Spread
YIELD: 4 servings
PREP TIME: 20 minutes
- cup Calabrian chile peppers in oil
- cup cubed guanciale or pancetta
- cup red wine
- pound sliced salami
- 2 tablespoons olive oil
- cup ( stick) butter
- Salt and pepper
Remove the stems from the peppers and separate from the oil. Set the oil aside and place peppers in a food processor.
Add the guanciale or pancetta, red wine, salami, olive oil, and butter to the food processor and pulse until a thick paste forms, about 5 to 7 minutes.
While the paste is pulsing, slowly drizzle in the reserved chile oil. Season with salt and pepper to taste. Cover and refrigerate for up to 2 weeks.
A NOTE FROM CHEF MONICA: This recipe calls for Calabrian chile peppers in oil. Its highly recommended that you use these flavorful chiles, but if you need a substitute you can use another chile such as Fresno or poblano and a separate chile oil but the flavor will be quite different.
Ranch BBQ Sauce
YIELD: 4 servings
PREP TIME: 5 minutes
INACTIVE TIME: 2 to 4 hours
- cup full-fat buttermilk
- cup crme frache or sour cream
- 3 tablespoons mayonnaise
- 2 tablespoons dried dill
- 1 tablespoon garlic powder
- 1 tablespoon onion powder
- cup minced fresh chives
- 2 tablespoons Worcestershire sauce
- 1 tablespoon white vinegar
- Salt and pepper
- 2 tablespoons prepared barbecue sauce
In a large bowl, combine the buttermilk, crme fraiche or sour cream, mayonnaise, dill, garlic powder, onion powder, chives, Worcestershire sauce, and vinegar. Stir until the ingredients are well incorporated. Season to taste with salt and pepper. Cover and refrigerate for 2 to 4 hours.
Before serving, stir in the barbecue sauce. Add more to your liking. Cover and refrigerate for up to 1 week.
Cumin Chili Ketchup
YIELD: 4 servings
PREP TIME: 5 minutes
- 1 tablespoon ground cumin
- 1 tablespoons chili powder
- Zest and juice of 1 lime
- 10 ounces prepared ketchup