Endorsements
Shannan Martin is a sidewalk poet and an everyday prophet. In Start with Hello she issues a stunning and accessible invitation for us to live as neighbors in the world, casting a hopeful vision of what it looks like to be human together. As it turns out, there is no them but only us, and this is the book we both want and need to help us find our way back to each other.
Emily P. Freeman , Wall Street Journal bestselling author of The Next Right Thing
This book is so inspiring, but in a chill, regular sort of way. It doesnt wreck you or kick you in the pants or make you rethink your entire existence. Instead, it will change you by helping you see the beauty of where you currently exist and the people who exist near you. It makes being a neighbor, not to mention a person, just so beautifully... doable . Yall, this is the book weve been waiting for.
Kendra Adachi, New York Times bestselling author of The Lazy Genius Way
Fellow wallflowers, Shannan Martin has written our guide to come to the dance floor in a way that feels possible, alluring, and bursting with potential. In terms that are both poetic and practical, Shannan makes a compelling case that we all can find our people and our places in community. Start with Hello invites us to see the people around us as whole and generous and just waiting to be known and loved. Youll want to mark up your copy and pass it to a neighbor.
Beth Silvers , cohost of the Pantsuit Politics podcast and coauthor of Now What?
Jen, pick one of your favorite people on planet Earth. Fine, I pick Shannan. I pick her friendship. I pick her example. I pick Start with Hello . This book. It is lovely, warm, honest. It brims with possibility. It isand Shannan would hate this wordinspiring. I want to run home and leave the mess where it is and send a text to my five closest neighbors to come over for chili and $10 wine. What a gift she is. What a gift this book is.
Jen Hatmaker, New York Times bestselling author, host of For the Love podcast, and founder of Legacy Collective
In her wise, loving, practical, and timely book, Shannan Martin dispels all that is mystical about being a good neighbor. Start with Hello . Its just that simple but we can overthink it, and this is where Im so grateful we have Shannan to lead us. We do this, Shannan reminds us, by first being curious and aware of those around us. Filled with her disarming sense of humor, Start with Hello is a love letter to community and a call to action toward radical, realistic hospitality.
Osheta Moore , pastor, speaker, and author of Dear White Peacemakers
Start with Hello is winsome, kind, and braveexactly what we need in times like these. Im grateful for the ways Shannan not only helps us lean into growth but also shows us how to compassionately embody it.
Aundi Kolber , therapist and author of Try Softer and The Try Softer Guided Journey
Start with Hello is an impactful read. Shannan does not hold back in addressing anti-racism. She highlights the importance of loving your neighbor and treating people with dignity and respect, while also providing practical tools to help assist you in understanding those you perceive to be different from you.
Faitth Brooks , writer, speaker, and educator
I forever want Shannan Martin to boss me on the art of neighboring and the true purpose of home. One of the best books of the year.
Myquillyn Smith, New York Times bestselling author of Welcome Home
See, this is why I love Shannan Martin! In Start with Hello , she gives the reader amazingly practical steps that help us move toward one another in an age where we seem to be moving further apart. She reminds us that although our daily activities may not change the whole world, if we are each intentional about these ten subtle shifts, we could most definitely change our individual worlds.
Jonathan Pastah J Brooks , author of Church Forsaken
This essential field guide to expanding your world (in spite of all that makes us human) is engaging, accessible, and beautifully layered with Shannans signature storytelling and unabashed honesty. Youll be better for reading it, and so will the world around you.
Deidra Riggs , author of 30 Days to Being Actively Anti-Racist on Social Media
Start with Hello has changed the way I see my neighborhood, challenged the way I define and live in community, and given me hope that we can actually build a better world for us to live in by taking small steps to connect with one another. Read it, practice the simple ways you can move toward each other, and begin to experience the richness of heaven here on earth.
Grace P. Cho , writer, poet, and editor
Start with Hello is a required read for anyone who cares about communitya roadmap back into authentic communities. Martin delivers an easy read with delightful wit as she leans into uncomfortable truths about building connections. Her experiences are relatable and give us needed wisdom to develop meaningful relationships with estranged neighbors in todays America.
Jos Chiquito Galvn , writer and Shannans actual neighbor
Shannan Martin takes us by the hand and leads us on a journey of true human connection in her new book, Start with Hello . This beautiful and practical reflection beckons us to come as we are so that we may experience the depths of our humanity. Borrowing Shannans own words, it is an invitation to belong more fully and engage more deeply with this life weve been given. With thoughtfulness and vulnerability, this book shows us what it really means to be a neighbor and a friend.
Kat Armas , author of Abuelita Faith and host of The Protagonistas podcast
Books by Shannan Martin
Falling Free
The Ministry of Ordinary Places
Start with Hello
Title Page
Copyright Page
2022 by Shannan Martin, LLC
Published by Revell
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Dedication
For Cal, Ruby, Silas, and Robert.
My favorite first hellos.
Epigraph
When it is all too much... and a single life feels too small a stone to offer on the altar of Peace, find a Human Sunrise. Find those people who are committed to changing our scary reality. Human sunrises are happening all over the earth, at every moment.
Alice Walker
Contents
Endorsements
Books by Shannan Martin
Title Page
Copyright Page
Dedication
Epigraph
1. Awake > Asleep
2. Windows > Mirrors
3. Listening > Talking
4. Open Door > Perfect Dcor
5. Familiar > Fussy
6. Complexity > Comfort
7. Tender > Tough
8. Practice > Preach
9. Roots > Wheels
10. Empathy > Everything
A Neighbors Blessing
Acknowledgments
Notes
About the Author
Back Ads
Back Cover
CHAPTER 1
Awake > Asleep