HOMESPUN
Homespun reads like a leisurely visit with an old friend. It starts off with light, chatty topics before settling into the-deep-part-of-the-heart experiences, such as a young mom recovering from the stillborn birth of her little boy. At times charming and humorous, at other times profound and heavy, this collection of true stories will linger in your mind long after you close the book.
SUZANNE WOODS FISHER, BESTSELLING AUTHOR OF AMISH PEACE
Real voices of Anabaptist womenfrom traditions as diverse as Old Order Amish to car-driving Mennonitesopen up about faith, family, hopes and dreams, and experiencing lifes trials and joys with God by their sides. As a man who is not Amish or Mennonite, I was not sure how this book would resonate with me. I have to say that it did. The womens testimonies here are frank, vulnerable, funny, powerful, and often profoundly moving.
ERIK WESNER, FOUNDER OF THE WEBSITE AMISH AMERICA
The short pieces in Homespun, as diverse as the women who wrote them, focus on issues central to the lives of Amish and conservative Mennonite women, including childbirth, cooking, in-laws, dating, mission work, home decoration, marriage, and above all, friendship. All the chapters evidence a profound Christian faith that makes Homespun a collection that will delight and challenge readers.
KAREN JOHNSON-WEINER, AUTHOR OF TRAIN UP A CHILD: OLD ORDER AMISH AND MENNONITE SCHOOLS
Filled with wisdom, humor, and hard-won faith, Homespun feels like a lovely visit with trusted friends. A must-read for those who wish to better understand the lives and hearts of Amish and Mennonite women.
SERENA B. MILLER, AUTHOR OF AN UNCOMMON GRACE
Talented Amish and Mennonite women bare their souls in words that evoke a whole range of human emotions. They were not all born with a wooden spoon in their hands, and they experience the same struggles as women everywhere. It was impossible to do anything else until I finished reading this book.
ROMAINE STAUFFER, AUTHOR OF LOYALTY TEST
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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Names: Craker, Lorilee, editor.
Title: Homespun: Amish and Mennonite women in their own words / Lorilee Craker, editor.
Description: Harrisonburg: Herald Press, 2018. | Includes bibliographical references.
Identifiers: LCCN 2018007805| ISBN 9781513803166 (pbk.: alk. paper) | ISBN 9781513803289 (hardcover: alk. paper)
Subjects: LCSH: Mennonite women--Religious life--United States. | Mennonite women--United States--Biography. | Amish women--Religious life--United States. | Amish women--United States--Biography.
Classification: LCC BX8128.W64 H66 2018 | DDC 289.7/73082--dc23 LC record available at https://lccn.loc.gov/2018007805
Most chapters in Homespun first appeared in one of the following publications and appear here with permission of the editors and the writers:
Ladies Journal is a bimonthly magazine published by Ladies Journal, PO Box 138, Loysville, PA 17047. Subscription information available at 717-789-3288. Daughters of Promise is a quarterly magazine produced by Anabaptist women and distributed both digitally and in print. Subscription information available at daughters-of-promise.org or PO Box 189, South Boston, VA 24592.
Bone Opp-a-Deet! by Linda Byler first appeared in the October 2017 issue of The Connection and is used here with permission.
Overcoming Inferiority adapted from Overcoming Inferiority by Sara Nolt. 2016 Christian Light Publications, Inc. Harrisonburg, VA. Used by permission.
Scripture quotations marked (ESV) are from the ESV Bible (The Holy Bible, EnglishStandard Version), 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.
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Scripture quotations marked (KJV) are from the King James Version.
HOMESPUN
2018 by Herald Press, Harrisonburg, Virginia 22803. 800-245-7894.
All rights reserved.
Library of Congress Control Number: 2018007805
International Standard Book Number: 978-1-5138-0316-6 (paperback); 978-1-5138-0328-9 (hardcover); 978-1-5138-0317-3 (ebook)
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Introduction
I m just a simple Mennonite girl from the prairies.
This is what I tell people, and its true. As a two-week-old adopted infant, I was brought to the home of my Mennonite parents, Abe and Linda Reimer, on a slushy April day in 1968. From that moment on, I was their daughter, grafted into the family tree and over four hundred years of Mennonite history.
On my moms side, we are country folk, descendants of Mennonite pioneers who traveled from Ukraine in the 1870s, carrying scoops of hearty winter wheat from the Old Country to plant in the new. The Loewens and the Brandts of Rosenort, Manitoba, still speak Low German (Plattdeutsch) and partake of Faspa (a late afternoon lunch) on any given Sunday. The ties of language, food, and culture that bind them to their pioneer great-great-grandparents are startlingly durable. The Isaacs and Abrams and Sarahs and Lydias of old, who lugged steamer trunks halfway across Canada on Red River carts and abided in sod huts, would be so proud.
My dad was born in 1937, in a Mennonite colony in Ukraine. He was born into a holocaust waged by Stalin against his own people. By the time my dad was ten months old, he had lost his twin sister, Anna, to starvation. At age six, he fled with thousands of other refugees across Ukraine by foot, fleeing Stalin. He arrived by boat in Canada in 1947, a ten-year-old immigrant Mennonite boy.
You see, I knew from early on that there were lots of different kinds of Mennonite stories.
But I didnt know until I went away to college in Chicago at the age of nineteen that there was anything peculiar about being Mennonite. Hey, in Winnipeg, Manitoba, where I was raised, you cant throw a Fleisch Perishky (meat bun) without beaming another Menno on the head. Upon arrival in Chicago, I quickly realized, much to my surprise, that most people outside of Mennonite communities assumed I had come from buggy-driving, bonnet-wearing, butter-churning folk. Everyone seemed to think that being Amish or Old Order Mennonite and being my kind of Mennonite were one and the same.
This assumption led to lots of explanations on my part about the difference between my modern Mennonite upbringing (like Baptist, with a German accent and special foods) and those other related subcultures. It also led to me writing a whole book about the Amish, who I came to realize were more closely tied to me and my upbringing than I had ever dreamed.