Chris Surratt - Leading Small Groups: How to Gather, Launch, Lead, and Multiply Your Small Group

Copyright 2019 by B&H Publishing Group

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Printed in the United States of America

978-1-5359-3469-5

Published by B&H Publishing Group

Nashville, Tennessee

Dewey Decimal Classification: 268.3

Subject Heading: BIBLESTUDY AND TEACHING / RELIGIOUS EDUCATION / SMALL GROUPSRELIGIOUS ASPECTS

Cover design and illustration by Matt Lehman.

Unless otherwise noted, all Scripture quotations are taken from the Christian Standard Bible, copyright 2017 by Holman Bible Publishers. Used by permission. Christian Standard Bible and CSB are federally registered trademarks of Holman Bible Publishers. Also used Holman Christian Standard Bible ( hcsb ), copyright 1999, 2000, 2002, 2003, 2009 by Holman Bible Publishers, Nashville Tennessee. All rights reserved.

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Foreword

I ts an honor to endorse and write this foreword for Chris Surratts latest book, Leading Small Groups . I owe my faith to a small group. I grew up in a nominally Catholic home but did not respond to the good news of the gospel until my sister brought it home with her from a small group. A friend of hers had bravely decided to start the group and invited my sister to be part of it. Through that group my sister became a follower of Christ. When she shared her experience with me, I, too, put my faith in Jesus. My parents also became Christians all because of the influence of that one small group. Later, my three older brothers and their wives and kids followed. The group that my sisters friend started changed the destiny of our entire familynineteen people!

What is especially remarkable and special to me about that group is that my sisters friend was not a religious professional. She had not received special training. She was just an ordinary follower of Christ who answered the call to start a small group. Her willingness to step out and lead a group had eternal consequences on my family, as well as on people to whom my family and I have ministered since. Is it any wonder that I have devoted most of the last thirty years of my life to small groups? A small group changed my life! Over the years, Ive had the privilege of seeing the profound effects small groups have had on the lives of literally tens of thousands of other people.

The reason that small groups are so effective is that they are part of Gods plan for His church. From the moment the church was born and three thousand people responded to Peters message on the day of Pentecost, small groups have been part of Gods primary strategy. The early church met in the temple courts for large group worship and in homes for small group fellowship. Both meetings had equal importance. Later, when persecution made meetings in the temple courts impossible, the church continued to meet and grow through small groups. Through the centuries, whenever public worship has been banned, the church has continued to meet in small groups and flourish despite the oppression. History has proven that the church can survive and even continue to grow without large group worship when it has a healthy system of small groups.

Small groups are so potent and resilient because of the commitment and courage of seemingly ordinary followers of Christ, like my sisters friend, who step up to lead them. If you are reading this, you probably have already decided to become one of those people. Let me be among the first to thank you and encourage you as you take this exciting step in your faith journey. Youve already done the hard part. Youve made the decision. Now that you have this book by Chris, you will gain much of the information and insights youll need to lead your group well.

Chris has synthesized his years of experience as a small group leader, pastor, and expert into this valuable resource. Youll find his insights both helpful and practical. Hell provide you with a scriptural framework for small groups as well as offer down-to-earth advice on how to make your group a success. Hell give you everything youll need from gathering your group to getting it started to leading it well, and even how to multiply your leadership by starting more groups. Id suggest soaking up all you can from this book with your first reading, then using it as a reference going forward. Youll undoubtedly run into challenges along the way as you lead your groupanything worthwhile comes with challengesand Chriss book will provide you with excellent direction on how to negotiate them effectively.

Congratulations again on your decision to lead and use this book by Chris to help change peoples destiny. Enjoy the adventure!

Steve Gladen

Pastor of Small Groups, Saddleback Church

Author, Leading Small Groups with Purpose

Introduction

I still remember when my wife and I were approached about the possibility of leading our first small group. My experience with church groups before this was in Sunday school, with different age groups meeting on the church campus before the Sunday morning service. Our current church had small groups that met in homes around the city. Although we had been attending a small group for a short time, the thought of leading one wasnt on the radar.

I am an introvert by nature, so the thought of inviting a group of people into our home every week so we could do life together was not appealing. Plus, we were newly married, and the group we were tasked with leading was a Young Marrieds group. How on earth were we going to help other couples be better spouses and parents when we didnt have a clue ourselves?

All the normal insecurities and doubts told me to say no.

• I dont have it all together enough to lead anyone.
• I dont know enough about the Bible to lead a Bible study.
• Our tiny house couldnt fit everyone.
• I dont have enough time for something else every week.
• Will I have to be friends with everyone in the group?

With some hesitation and encouragement from my more extroverted (and friendly) wife, Jenny, we said yes to leading our first small group. Twenty years and counting, in three cities and six different living rooms, were still at it.

I cannot imagine what life would have been like without those first couples coming alongside us through the joy and tears of life. I can say now: we did and are still doing life together with the people in our small groups.

If you are reading this and thinking the same thoughts I was about the potential of being a small group leader, you are in the perfect spot. Your small group doesnt need a leader who has it all figured out. They dont need a leader who has the perfect marriage, house, kids, pets, and cookware. They dont need a leader with a seminary degree (although its not a bad thing if you happen to have one). Your small group needs a leader willing to say, Im messed up too; lets figure this thing out together.

One of my favorite quotes is from C. S. Lewis, who defined friendship this way: The typical expression of

A small group experience is a series of You too? moments. Every one of us is messed up and in need of a risen Savior and a group of people to hold on to when the waters get rough. Even us introverts. We may not show it a lot, but we need people to walk alongside as much as anyone else. We just may not need as many people as extroverts do.

This book is written and designed to take you through the journey of building your own small group. That group could be in your home, a neighborhood clubhouse, a break room at work, or a classroom at the church. The location does not matter; what matters is what takes place inside it.

There will be practical tips you can use immediately as you start your new small group or look to make your current group experience better. Every chapter will end with a set of questions to answer as you work through that step of the journey. I would suggest returning to this book as you walk through the different stages of your small group. There are a few things you will need to know from the beginning, and the rest will become more necessary while on the job.