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Tender, unsparing, poignant. . . . [A] love story that braids together intimate self-revelation with a rich meditation on the literature of aging.-- Stephen Greenblatt. On Susan Gubars seventieth birthday, she receives a beautiful ring from her husband, a gift that startles her into an appreciation of their luck. As she contemplates their sustaining relationship, Susan considers how older lovers differ from their youthful counterparts--and from ageist stereotypes. When her husband encounters age-related disabilities, Susan procrastinates over moving from their burdensome house in the country to a more manageable town apartment by searching out literature on the longevity of desire by authors from Ovid and Shakespeare to Toni Morrison and Marilynne Robinson. During subsequent months of care-giving, her own ongoing cancer treatments, and apartment-hunting, Susan studies the obstacles many older couples overcome and marvels at the passion that buoys her own relationship. A memoir proving that love and desire have no expiration date, Late-Life Love is a resounding retort to negative valuations of old age and a celebration of second chances--;Thanksgiving -- A second chance -- Signs of decline -- Falling in love -- The trace -- Props -- Alterations -- Lovesickness -- Whats love got to do with it? -- Late-life lechery -- Sunsets -- Cupidity -- Wrinkled in time -- Give and take -- Tequila mockingbird -- Wintering -- Silver threads among the gold -- Recounting the ways -- Enormous changes at the last minute -- Chrisnukkah -- Later.

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ALSO BY SUSAN GUBAR Reading and Writing Cancer How Words Heal Memoir of a - photo 1

ALSO BY SUSAN GUBAR

Reading and Writing Cancer: How Words Heal

Memoir of a Debulked Woman: Enduring Ovarian Cancer

Judas: A Biography

Lo largo y lo corto del verso Holocausto

Rooms of Our Own

Poetry After Auschwitz: Remembering What One Never Knew

Critical Condition: Feminism at the Turn of the Century

Racechanges: White Skin, Black Face in American Culture

Masterpiece Theatre: An Academic Melodrama
(with Sandra M. Gilbert)

No Mans Land: The Place of the Woman Writer in the Twentieth Century (with Sandra M. Gilbert)

Volume 1: The War of the Words

Volume 2: Sexchanges

Volume 3: Letters from the Front

The Madwoman in the Attic: The Woman Writer and the Nineteenth-Century Literary Imagination (with Sandra M. Gilbert)

EDITOR:

True Confessions: Feminist Professors Tell Stories Out of School

Feminist Literary Theory and Criticism: A Norton Reader
(with Sandra M. Gilbert)

MotherSongs: Poems for, by, and about Mothers
(with Sandra M. Gilbert and Diana OHehir)

English Inside and Out: The Places of Literary Criticism
(with Jonathan Kamholtz)

For Adult Users Only: The Dilemma of Violent Pornography
(with Joan Hoff)

The Norton Anthology of Literature by Women:
The Traditions in English (with Sandra M. Gilbert)

Shakespeares Sisters: Feminist Essays on Women Poets
(with Sandra M. Gilbert)

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Late-Life Love is a work of nonfiction. Some names
and potentially identifying details have been changed.

Copyright 2019 by Susan Gubar

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Jacket art: The Evening Star, c. 1830 by Joseph Mallord

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ISBN: 978-0-393-60957-8

ISBN: 978-0-393-60958-5 (ebk.)

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For other aging lovers,
And with veneration for mine

Why would they want one another,

those two old crocks of habit

up heavy from the stale bed?

JOHN CIARDI,

THE AGING LOVERS

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I AM SICK and he is old but a fierce affection binds us to each other and to - photo 3

I AM SICK and he is old but a fierce affection binds us to each other and to - photo 4

I AM SICK and he is old, but a fierce affection binds us to each other and to this country house, which we will have to leave. When twenty-one years ago we first made our way down its sloping driveway alongside a meadow with massive trees, I called it Pemberley, but Don thought its brick faade and long windows looked more like the cottage in which Jane Austen herself resided. Eventually, because of its address, it became simply the Inverness.

At that time, Don lived in a subdivision, I in town. Both places were saturated with histories we had no wish to escape or negate, but we wanted a home of our own. Neither of us could have afforded the Inverness alone. With enough space to accommodate his two grown daughters and my younger two as well, it represented our new life together. We marveled at our luck when we found it in the spring of 1994. All the peonies were blooming in a side garden near a small red barn, really more of a shed. Built in the sixties, the house had been gutted and redesigned by a businesswoman who never moved in, because she was called away by a job in California. She had been much more competent than we could have been about restoring or constructing the gleaming hardwood floors, the white kitchen cabinets, and the nut-brown screened-in back porch with its skylight.

But now it seems too large for just the two of us. The steps from the second-floor bedroom to the basement hurt Dons knees. I worry that arthritis or his swollen left foot will cause him to stumble while he labors to bring a laundry basket down or up. My weekly job hauling the garbage bin up the driveway all the way to the road gets progressively more taxing, especially in bad weather. Recycling means loading the car with heavy boxes of glass bottles and plastic containers and a long trip to the dump. The rusty garage door creaks; the exterior trim needs painting; the noisy dishwasher should be replaced.

Except for some tall grasses I planted a decade ago, the side garden has gone to ruin. Clogged by weeds, the sliding door of the red shed jammed shut long ago. Given all the trees, a windy day can produce electrical outages, knocking out the furnace, phones, water heater, oven, lights, and (worst of all) the Internet. We feel daunted by leaf-cluttered drains, a rutted driveway, rattling storm windows, successive infestations of mice or ladybugs or wasps.

The house, positioned between a wooded ravine and a rolling field, remains a pastoral retreat from strip malls, grocery and drug stores, restaurants and the noisy hangouts of the students at the university. The only sounds we hear are birds tapping on feeders in the winter, their songs in summer. But Dons driving has recently become erraticin the pauses that punctuate switching lanes or pulling out onto the highway, the weirdly wide turns, the jerky reverses and forwards needed to repark between the lines. Since being driven by me distresses him, we know we should move into town. Yet we shudder at the thought of a unit in a retirement community, a condo apartment, or a 1950s ranch house in what is euphemistically called a heritage neighborhood of unsightly bungalows.

On Thanksgiving in 2014, the Inverness lived up to its promise by hosting family members also arriving to celebrate my seventieth birthday. Three of our daughters, two of their husbands, the brother of one of the husbands, and three of our grandsons stayed at the house. None of us had thought I would make it to the biblical span of three score and ten, since my ovarian cancer diagnosis back in 2008 came with a three- to five-year prognosis. Unexpectedly, an experimental drug in a clinical trial was keeping the disease at bay, and we hoped it would continue working at least for a while. Despite all the treatments, I did not feel seventymaybe because the current regimen has eased up considerably. When I can ignore physical disabilities and fatigue, my psychic age hovers, as it did before diagnosis, around fifteen.

The commotion turned out to overwhelm Don. Seventeen years older than I, he seemed dazed by the noise, the constant cooking and serving and clearing and cleaning, the antics of the infant, the toddler, and the second-grader. During the party the girls organized for my birthday, I found him sitting by a window in a corner of his study, probably counting the days until peace would descend. His withdrawal contrasted with his usual courtesy to guests. So as the house started to empty out, I went to sleep glad that I had boiled the turkey carcass for the soup I knew he would enjoy after the last stragglers left.

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