Lisa Ray - Close to the Bone: A Memoir
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Copyright 2020 Lisa Ray
All rights reserved. The use of any part of this publication, reproduced, transmitted in any form or by any means electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording or otherwise, or stored in a retrieval system without the prior written consent of the publisheror in the case of photocopying or other reprographic copying, license from the Canadian Copyright Licensing agencyis an infringement of the copyright law.
Doubleday Canada and colophon are registered trademarks of Penguin Random House Canada Limited
Library and Archives Canada Cataloguing in Publication
Title: Close to the bone / Lisa Ray.
Names: Ray, Lisa, 1972- author.
Description: Previously published: 2019.
Identifiers: Canadiana (print) 20200241907 | Canadiana (ebook) 20200241931 | ISBN 9780385695725 (softcover) | ISBN 9780385695732 (EPUB)
Subjects: LCSH: Ray, Lisa, 1972- | LCSH: Motion picture actors and actressesBiography. | LCSH: Cancer. | LCGFT: Autobiographies.
Classification: LCC PN2888.R39 A3 2020 | DDC 791.4302/8092dc23
Cover design: Kelly Hill
Cover photograph: Farrokh Chothia
Published in Canada by Doubleday Canada, a division of Penguin Random House Canada Limited
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It is no measure of health to be well-adjusted to a profoundly sick society.
J. K RISHNAMURTI
Illness is the night-side of life, a more onerous citizenship. Everyone who is born holds a dual citizenship, in the kingdom of the well and in the kingdom of the sick. Although we all prefer to use only the good passport, sooner or later each of us is obliged, at least for a spell, to identify ourselves as citizens of that other place.
Susan Sontag, Illness as a Metaphor
THE NIGHT I begin to step into myself, my shoes dont fit.
Everything keeps slipping from my fingers that morning. The shampoo bottle, a teaspoon, my phone: suspended for one surging moment before landing with a clatter on the floor. I stare. Patti Smith is on my playlist today. Her scarred voice cuts through the quiet as sunlight slopes in from a window. I sit on my bed and work through a line of high heels pulled from my closet, trying them on, one by one. They are all pretty and pointy and very bad for pelvic alignment, Ive been told. And none of them fit. None.
I always dreaded the red carpet. I had walked it at movie premieres in Toronto and LA, events in Bombay, and I always felt self-conscious: you have to think about how to tilt your head and how to suck in your non-existent gut while photographers click away. You are expected to look flawless. Ambition and judgment wrap around your skin, hug your form. But in the fall of 2009, I do have a gut, and it is swinging beneath a sari-inspired dress in royal purple, specially made for my new body.
My costume designer friend Rashmi Varma dropped off the dress a couple of hours before the debut of my film Cooking with Stella at the Toronto International Film Festival. Then, one by one, I tried on pairs of heels from my closet. My feet are bloated. Thats what steroids do, and I have been knocking them back by the handfulfour days on, four days off. Theyve also turned my face into a large, round moon. I call this feeling of an extra, elastic skin on top of my skin my wet suit. These days, I sit on the couch and watch as my belly inflates before my eyes. I study my fingers. They look like kabanosy, the sausages of my childhood. I marvel at my bloated thighs, saying to my dad, Look at this. Im expandinglike a cartoon character!
And now my feet are swollen, too. For some reason, as I look down at my extra thick ankles, the gravity of the situation hits me: two months ago, I had sat in a tiny supply closet of a room across from a jittery, rabbit-faced doctor. He spoke very slowly, pausing a long time between each word, as if to gauge my reaction: You. Have. Multiple. Myeloma.
The doctor reminded me of the rabbit in Alice in Wonderland. As he kicked me down the hole, he never said the word cancer. In fact, the signs in the clinic were vague: Hematology Centre. But the pregnant pauses told me I was being inducted into a new club: Fatal. Pause. Incurable.
Oh, I said. Do you want me to get you some water?
I know my response might seem strange, but he did look parched. Also, it never occurred to me that I wouldnt get better. Almost as soon as he said cancer (or didnt), I was framing it as just another adventure in a life that had circled the globe for three decades, plucking one experience after the other like cherries from trees. Now cells in my bones were rampaging, multiplying, squeezing out the red blood cells. I had become a junior member of the MM cancer club, diagnosed at thirty-seven, while the average age is sixty-five. Fatal. Incurable. But I wasnt scarednot yet, anyway.
Or perhaps deep in my philosophic core I believe nothing is wasted. Not even this.
Steroids, chemo and hospital hallways hadnt burdened that light touch too much. But on the eve of the film premiere, 40 pounds heavier and about to debut my moon face in front of my peers and the international media, I feel just a little bit of self-pitynot because I am ill, but because I cant get into my shoes. I have done everything to avoid being looked at in a certain way and yet here we are: dredging up vanity to encapsulate my life. The irony in this immediately slays the sadness and becomes a strange awakening. Slowly, I emerge from this reverie that I have been in for a long time, living in a disconnect between private pain and public persona. My cancerwhich I jokingly call The Cancer (you have to laugh, or, as they say, youll die)is a rare little orphan cancer of the plasma cells in bone marrow. The marrow is the deepest part of yourself, and I can feel those depths shifting, unmuffling and upending all that is hidden. After years of floating in the wind like a leaf, coming and going, I am ready to feel rooted. After years of trafficking in fantasy, I am ready to toy with truth. I am ready to listen to my bones, this silent support structure deep inside all of us.
Tonight, I will glide on to the red carpet in big shoes with a clunky heel. While one part of me will step forward, another will be at a distance from the lights and the din, wheeling across the sky, watching through a slowly floating lens. I have lived in a way that has transported me through a myriad of worlds, but still, I had never imagined this.
I am composed of all the things seen and known and experienced, the emotions of a life lived close to the bone. I can feel it all expanding in my chest, filling my veins. And now, when I debut a new body on the shimmering opacity of the red carpet, I will reveal how fortunate a thing it is, when life alters you without warning.
I WAS BORN to be a nomad. Even as a kid my eyes were focused on the horizon, and my mind floated into a dreamscape which captured my attention more than immediate events around me. Im sure this is because of my parents. They had rebelled and defied their cultural norms in two countries, and in a third, Canada, built an entirely new life on their own terms. Being a mixed-race couple in a new country forty-five years ago was enough to make them iconoclasts of their time. From them, I inherited the irrational optimism it takes to forge your own unique place in the world. It was passed on in my kaleidoscopic genes and settled in my marrow.
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