Martin Sheen - Along the Way: The Journey of a Father and Son

MARTIN SHEEN was born (and still is) Ramon Antonio Gerardo Estevez. Sheen is perhaps best known for his unforgettable performances in Badlands, Apocalypse Now, and Wall Street, and as President Josiah Bartlet on televisions The West Wing . A longtime activist for social justice and human rights, he resides in Malibu, California, with Janet, his wife of fifty years.

EMILIO ESTEVEZ is known for his roles in The Outsiders, The Breakfast Club, St. Elmos Fire, and The Mighty Ducks and as writer and director of The War at Home, Bobby, and The Way, films with substantive social subjects. He is coproprietor of Casa Dumetz vineyards in Malibu, with partner Sonja Magdevski, where they live.

HOPE EDELMAN is the author of five prior nonfiction books, including the international bestseller Motherless Daughters . She lives with her husband and two daughters in Topanga Canyon, California.

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Sheen, Martin.
Along the way : the journey of a father and son / Martin Sheen and Emilio Estevez; with Hope Edelman.1st Free Press hardcover ed.
p. cm.

Includes index.
1. Sheen, Martin. 2. Estevez, Emilio, 1962 3. Motion picture actorsUnited StatesBiography. 4. Fathers and sonsUnited StatesBiography.
I. Estevez, Emilio, 1962 II. Edelman, Hope. III. Title.
PN2287.S3715A3 2012

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ISBN 978-1-4516-4368-8

ISBN 978-1-4516-4377-0 (ebook)

To Janet,
wife and mother,
and Ramon, Charlie, and Rene

We never get over our fathers, and were not required to.

Old Irish saying

MARTIN

In the summer of 2010 I got a call from my oldest son, Emilio. He was calling from the editing room where he was working on The Way, our film about a father-and-son pilgrimage, written and directed by Emilio, in which I play his father. Wed spent forty days filming in southwest France and northern Spain along the Camino de Santiago, the thousand-year-old, 500-mile route leading to the cathedral in Santiago de Compostela, where the remains of Saint James the Apostle are believed to be interred.

The Camino de Santiago, also known as the Way of Saint James, is a sacred path for Christians and, in recent years, walking its length has become a spiritual endeavor for people of all religions and backgrounds. The Camino ends in Galicia, a region of northern Spain to which four generations of Estevez men are tied. My father, Francisco, was born and raised there and my grandson, Emilios son Taylor, lives in Spain with his wife, Julia.

Working with Emilio on The Way was one of the most extraordinary and satisfying projects of my life, and I longed for another father-son adventure with him. And that day Emilio was calling with just such a project.

Hey, listen, Emilio said. Would you be interested in writing a dual memoir?

A memoir? You mean a book?

Yeah. A father-son memoir. Whatta ya say?

I was intrigued. To my knowledge no such memoir had ever been published, at least not in our profession. Married couples have written books together, but not a father and son. The possibility began to excite me and I bombarded him with questions.

Hold on! he said. I just want to know if youre interested.

Of course Im interested, I assured him. Id work with you on anything. Do you have an offer from a publisher?

Not exactly, but I have a meeting with a literary agent at my house this weekend. Were going to have lunch, chat, and see if there are enough reasons to pursue this. Then he hung up.

I almost called him back to invite myself over for that lunch. After all, Emilio only lives a few hundred yards down the street from me and his mother, Janet. But I restrained myself and waited for him to report back.

EMILIO

That weekend, I sat on my outdoor patio with literary agent Scott Waxman and David Alexanian of Elixir Films, the producer for The Way. We were drinking wine that my partner Sonja and I had made and lunching on vegetables picked just two hours earlier from our backyard microfarm.

Emil, maybe you should tell Scott about the kind of book you have in mind, David said.

I chewed on one of my homegrown cucumbers and stalled for time to come up with something pithy and meaningful.

Its a father-son story, I said.

Yes, thats what attracted me to it initially, Waxman said. So its not only about the filming and the experience?

Right. Its about how we got here, as men and as artists. Everyone thinks they already know the story. Truth is most folks dont know the half of it.

Scott leaned forward. He was interested in those stories, too, he said.

So, here it is. These are the stories you thought you knew but didnt. Stories you cant find through a Google search, scenes that weve recreated from our memories, to the best of our abilities. In the course of our dual acting careers, weve been involved in more than 250 movies and television shows. It would be impossible to mention them all here, so weve highlighted only the ones that had the most impact on our relationship and on our emerging careers. As a result, we had to leave out some notable ones.

We joined forces with Hope Edelman, an accomplished memoirist in her own right, for the writing. Hope tolerated our madness, our impossible schedules, and our considerable distractions. She truly has the patience of Job and listened to our stories, the good ones and the bad, and pulled them together in our own voices. We showed our scars and our triumphs, and sometimes our asses. In many ways, the entire exercise was like a long, drawn-out therapy session with Hope as our trinitycounselor/confessor/writer.

Weve chosen to be honest, even when it was painful to do so, and even when a scene is less than flattering to one or both of us. Weve done this in the hope that our story will inspire other fathers and sons to reflect on their journeys together and to inspire them to honor and give thanks for each other, in whatever way they can.