Khushboo Jha - Talk to Your Soul: An Introduction with Your Self

Khushboo Jha

Notion Press

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First Published by Notion Press 2016

Copyright Khushboo Jha 2016

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ISBN 978-1-946280-11-4

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This book contains the daily topics and behavior of people. I will not say that this book is very good. You should read this. But whenever you feel lonely, go through this book. You will definitely learn something from it.

Because the title itself defines my book: Talk to your soul, my introduction with myself-Khud ki pechan khud se.

And if you feel lonely, no one can accompany you better than yourself. Talk to yourself, you will learn many things about yourself.

Stay happy. Stay Blessed!

Daughter of
Shanti Kumari and Sushil Kumar Jha

I dont know whether everyone knows about it or notbut trust me it is really interesting. Kasturi Mrig is the topic and Kasturi is a liquid substance found inside the naabhi of a deer. Deer like the smell and the fragrance of Kasturi. But there is something interesting about this that the deer doesnt know. This smell that it finds everywhere is found right inside him. Deer run around trying to find the source of this smell everywhere. But as the Hindi proverb goes, Bagel mei choora, shehar mei Dhindhora. Likewise our abilities and the strength and our future are like Kasturi and we are the naabhi where it resides. Everyone has their Kasturi inside them and they all are looking for it outside. Trust yourselfand you will be the creator of your destiny.

Feeling is just a seven letter word, but means a lot to everyone. Everything in this world is attached with this word. For e.g.: The feeling of love, the feeling of satisfaction and last but not the least the feeling of success for which everyone is fighting for. If these feelings are taken out daily in whatever form like happiness, sadness, fear or anger then it is ok. But if it is not taken out they can harm you. Like everyone needs a partner to share their feelings, feelings also need a medium to express itself. If these feelings cant come out then they can be called as frustrated feelings. For e.g.: if you are angry with someone and you cant scold them or shout at them, you will feel irritated and frustrated because the feeling of anger was just graved inside you. Dont allow anyone, anything or even any feelings to destroy you. You find out the ways by which you can avoid these frustrated feelings. Because this is really a topic to think about. Love yourself than anything or anyone else.

I means self, but how many people understand this? Have you ever thought about yourself? No, the only thing you are thinking about is how to beat others, how to get first by putting someone down. The moment you all think is the moment when you are forgetting yourself. Think how to be a successful person but not by putting someone down. The moment you think that you will be successful is the moment that makes you successful. Be pure and generous because only these two words can define a person. Dont think about what others are thinking about you, always think what you wanted to be, not what others want you to be. Respect yourself, love yourself, care about yourself because when you learn to love, and care for yourself, only then will you learn to respect, care and love others. Everyone tells to treat others like you want to be treated by others. But is that what we really do. No, we always treat others badly but we still want to be treated well by the same person to whom we have behaved badly. Talk to yourself everyday asked yourself, what you are. What you want to do, what are your wishes, and then see how easily you can make yourself a legend for tomorrow. The moment you enjoy the feeling of satisfaction is the moment you have won. Dont ever try to win the materialistic things. Always try to win the things w hich cant be calculated in money, like faith, love, satisfaction, purity. You will earn all this not just by proving yourself to others about what you are and all. All the answers lie within us. We are the only lock and we are the only key to our lock. We are responsible for ourselves, not others.

Guys, it is very easy to be manipulated by what others think or say. But it is really very tough to be free and unaffected by all these things. Free yourself from their rubbish thoughts and stick to your thoughts and believe that what you do is right. I am not saying that whatever you think or do is always right but to trust yourself. You have to understand the differences between them. You will only be wrong when you are over confident. But when you are confident about doing something you will be right. Then you will know who is right for you or wrong. There are many things and people in our lives but it is upto us, whom to trust and not. Means, everyday anytime whenever you think what are you doing and what your goals are, for whom you are doing all these things. That day you will understand that only you are responsible for what you do and not others. Lets take an example, that if I want to buy a car everyone will have their opinions. But ultimately I will do what I want to do. People generally listen to other people and make their own decisions. So, from today onwards try to free yourself from what others think and do. Always trust that you are right. What will you do if you are on one side and the whole world is on another side, just turn around and you will be the leader of the whole world.

Work Smart Not Hard!

And if someone tells you that you are wrong and then tells you that everything and everyone are wrong, ask them if they are so interested about what you do and your life, then enquire which bill they will pay this month. That will be enough to make them go away.