Mayerson Neal H. - The strengths-based workbook for stress relief: a character strengths approach to finding calm in the chaos of daily life

In The Strengths-Based Workbook for Stress Relief , Niemiec shows how your strengths can be a resource both for joy and resilience. This workbook will help readers craft a more meaningful and rewarding life, whether they are seeking to amplify whats good in their lives or find a way through difficult times.

Kelly McGonigal, PhD , author of The Upside of Stress and The Willpower Instinct

Ive worked for decades at the intersection of mind-body health, healing, and stress management. Ryan Niemiecs book championing the use of character strengths to manage stress is a milestone in mind-body wellness, the first of its kind. It offers a template for shifting how you think about and handle your daily stress. This book is a well-being booster, a resilience enhancer, and a stress manager all in one! At the least, youll be freshly empowered to handle your future stressors; and at best, youll transform your life while uplifting those around you.

Joan Borysenko, PhD , New York Times bestselling author of Minding the Body, Mending the Mind

In this groundbreaking workbook, Ryan Niemiec takes the reader on a journey of discovery, providing help in identifying their stress and character strengths. This process is linked to a range of excellent tools to tackle stress. At the end of each chapter the Learn, Practice, SHARE section assists in embedding what has been learned. This easy-to-read, positive psychologyinformed book takes a self-coaching approach and promotes personal growth and development. This book could possibly change your life.

Stephen Palmer PhD , professor of practice at the Wales Institute for Work-Based Learning at the University of Wales Trinity Saint David, founder and director of the Centre for Stress Management, and coauthor of How to Deal with Stress

This book is a breakthrough addition to the field of health and wellness. Taking the newest insights from psychology, Niemiec shows how to turn stress from our enemy into our friend. This book is a game changer.

Sean Slovenski , president of Health and Wellness, Walmart

The Strengths-Based Workbook for Stress Relief provides practical, research-based strategies we can all use to manage the stresses of daily life by using our particular character strengths to cope most effectively, no matter the situation. Readers will not only come away with a solid understand of the science underlying these strategies, but also have the opportunity to directly practice implementing these techniques in their own lives through a series of easy-to-follow guided exercises throughout the book. This engaging workbook is therefore a must-read for anyone who feels overwhelmed by the chaos of daily life and struggles to find happiness.

Catherine A. Sanderson, PhD , Manwell family professor of life sciences in the department of psychology at Amherst College, and author of The Positive Shift

As a coach working with clients who face a daily struggle with anxiety and stress, I cannot think of a better way to empower them to find their own path to better mental health than to offer them The Strengths-Based Workbook for Stress Relief . We all face stress and struggles. When stressed, it is hard to imagine that we already have what we need to make things better. Often, we look outside for the source of our stress and for the cure. And yet research shows that we all have innate capacities that help us navigate lifes ups and downs and to handle pressure. The Strengths-Based Workbook for Stress Relief is your guide to discovering and reinforcing those capacities to create a life in which you manage your stress instead of your stress managing you!

Ruth Pearce, ACC, JD, PMP , coach, project motivator, and author of
Be a Project Motivator

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Contents

Foreword

Stress is a fact of life for us all. It can be a killer, causing physical, psychological, and spiritual damage. And it can be a catalyst to personal growth and hardiness. A key question in our personal and collective quests for happiness and fulfillment is how to turn stress into our ally instead of our enemy. This book breaks new ground in helping us do this better.

Ryan Niemiec, PsyD, reframes the way we look at stress. Instead of viewing it primarily as something we need to avoid and eliminate, he uses the newest insights into human psychology to help us grow from our stress. If thats not enough, this book also helps us become mindful about creating the kinds of challenges that help us become strong, resilient, and fulfilled. In so doing, the author describes what can be termed constructive stressa new and promising approach to health and well-being.

This book presents new scientific insights into positive personality elements, called character strengths, that reside in all of us. There are 24 of them. Their presence transcends all of our differenceswhether those be in culture, gender, race, ethnicity, or religion. These strengths are configured uniquely within each of us, resulting in the singular character profiles that are so important to personal identity. We all share common facial elements, like eyes, ears, mouths, noses, and eyebrows, and yet these elements configure differently on everyone, giving us each a distinct physical appearance. Such are the character strengths, revealing our unique character profiles.

Recent science has begun to uncover just how broadly these strengths apply to our well-being, to achievement of our goals, and to elevating the common good. By directing our attention from whats wrong to whats strong, we discover overlooked potential in ourselves and others, and we escape the downward spiral of feeling hopeless and helpless in the face of lifes challenges. Instead, we discover the opportunity that lies within both our smallest and our greatest challenges.

With heightened awareness of these powers within, we can become more effective at deploying them to cope with stressful circumstances. Many great examples of this are provided throughout this book. Awareness of our own strengths and the character strengths of others can also help us avoid many stressors by helping us make better life choices, whether those choices have to do with the work we choose to do, the relationships we choose to be in, or how we find meaning and fulfillment. Building a flourishing life on the foundation blocks of our character strengths helps us become hardier and more resilient when we encounter the very toughest challenges of life.