YOU ARE NOT A FAILURE YOUR MINDS BEEN HACKED! How to Reprogram Your Life to Become Successful and Happy - by Bernhard Richter. Published by Bernhard Richter 38 Grey Avenue Flamingo Close D1 Table View Western Cape South Africa.
Copyright 2020 Bernhard Richter. All rights reserved.
Dedication and Acknowledgement
I dedicate this book to everyone who has become despondent; feeling inferior thinking they are not worthy enough that good things can still happen to them; who cant see their way forward out of the personal or the financial mess theyre in; who think they have tried everything, but all they experienced were failures upon failures and to those who lost hope of ever been able to live a better life in the future.
So many people motivated and encouraged me in so many ways during strenuous and frustrating periods of the writing process for whom I am eternally thankful. And it is not always someone who personally said something to me.
Reflecting on the road of becoming an author, I now know something very important many people just accept as part of what happens to them in life. I realized that my whole life was a journey where the knowledge I gathered and the experiences, especially those creating strong emotional feelings, were part of the sources equipping me to inspire and help others to persist and find joy as well.
The sources I drank from are so numerous that I cant remember everyone. I would however name but a few of those persons whose knowledge, experience and expertise in different niches filled me with insight. It might have been just a word or two, a sentence, an online course, regular marketing emailed wisdom, webinars, videos, or podcasts.
As I processed, understood and applied the information to my own life, I found what worked, how it worked and the results it yielded. I used bits of all the information like pieces of a puzzle to renew my thoughts and create my own mind picture. It stimulated my emotions, behavior, and words that helped me wove the knowledge and insight I accumulated into a cloth that I now present to you, the reader, as this book.
With this book I want to help and bless you as I have been helped and blessed so that you in turn can also help and bless others with your knowledge. It is therefore not an academic handbook for success, but rather self-help guideline that are easy to understand and enjoyable to read.
Here are only a few of the many people whose teachings blessed and influenced me in some way or other during different stages of my life. You probably know some of them:
Napoleon Hill, Robert Kiyosaki, Tony Robbins, John Asaraf, the mind master, Vic & Lisa Johnson who were the first to plant the seed of writing books into my mind, Chandler Bolt, Anik Singal, Christian Mickelson, Nick Stephenson, Mark Dawson, Derek Rydall, Eben Pagan, Geoff Affleck, Mark & Megali Peysha, Natalie Ledwell, Bob Proctor, and others.
Also a special thanks to my editor, Amelia, whos done a great job!
I think my family was initially a bit skeptic, even though they supported me in my quest to write a book. Then, not long after I started, they began asking How long still? or How far from done? Later they were wondering if Ill ever finish it. But, they were never negative nor did they criticize me. They gave me the opportunity and all the time I needed, telling me they think its great every time I read parts to them trying to find an honest sounding board.
Therefore, to my dear wife, Betsie, thanks for the reminders and encouragement and willingness to go many days for long periods without the attention you deserved. Thanks to my children, Andri, who helped with whatever she could, Johann, and Eleanore as well as Anthony, our grandchild, for your support and believing in me. I love you all dearly and appreciate you more than what I show you.
I also give special thanks and honor and praise to the Lord my God who saved me through Jesus Christ His Son and empowered me by His Holy Spirit to do exceedingly above what I can think or pray for. He is my Source and I give Him all the credit.
Lastly, there are some family members, friends and co-workers that played a crucial role leading up to the launching of this book and I want to thank them from the bottom of my heart for their advice, assistance and involvement.
Chapter 1
You Have What You Need
Do not let anybody, including you, make you think youll never succeed or be able to enjoy life to the fullest. Dont believe that you cant be loved, cared for, acknowledged or be valued by your family, friends, colleagues and acquaintances. Dont ever doubt that good things can happen to you and that you still can have the means to live your best life.
If you thought it was impossible and that there was no hope for you, you believed a lie. I know, for so did I at times in my life. You might not be aware of it, but you have everything you need to realize your dreams. You are good and important and smart and powerful enough to do it. In this book Ill show you why and how to make it happen.
Having some or all the above mentioned and more is what people dream about. Almost everyone wants to accomplish something worthwhile in their lives; something meaningful that will brand them as being successful. People crave it like a drug. They feel the deep need to be acknowledged, to receive attention, to be remembered and honored for what they have achieved. No matter how big or small it might be.
Many young people started out with stars in their eyes, excited to accomplish their dreams. But, after a while they encountered insurmountable obstacles, or seemingly never ending problems, or experienced failure upon failure along their path. They thought it would be smooth and straight. It wasnt, and as a result they lost the hope and their way of becoming successful.
Over time their steps became slow and their eyes dull with disappointment. Many gave up, thinking theyre not good enough, or that they will never be able to achieve anything. Then, before long, they allow their dreams and goals to decay into oblivion.
It might be a mom hurting and crying alone silently because her family does not appreciate what shes doing for them. Or a bone tired dad working two jobs trying to provide for his family giving them what they want. It might be a teacher doing more than what the curriculum prescribed, yet no one at school, not even a single parent shows any appreciation. It might be a business owner, entrepreneur or employee working long hours feeling guilty for neglecting their family in the pursuit of providing them with a good life. Perhaps its someone who is jobless or struggling to survive or someone whose face expresses the shock of being abandoned, forgotten, left out, humiliated or hurt.
It could be someone like you. In fact, Im betting you experienced at least one or more of these defeating circumstances in your life or going through one right now.
Have you also felt you got to the end of your rope or wanted to let go of everything? I can relate to that. Even from a young age I experienced thoughts like these. They even recurred many times during different stages in my life.
With this book my goals are to help you find answers and solutions to your predicaments and obstacles; to gain the knowledge and insight you need to realize whats kept you from living the best life and what to do in changing it. My aim is to rekindle the flame of your dreams, giving you a new lease on life and renewed hope for the future.
How great would it feel when you are successful, looked up to, loved and living the life with your family you dreamt about?
You will be given the opportunity to make a decision. Do you want to realize your dreams or not? If you do, you will find the tools you need to change your life and the lives of those around you. By following the guidelines and apply everything you learn you will enhance your chances of becoming successful. You will discover a life and world youve only ever dreamt of, or perhaps forgotten about.