Sterner - Fully engaged: using the practicing mind in daily life

PERSONAL GROWTH

BETTER RESULTS AND
LESS STRESS THROUGH
PROVEN TECHNIQUES

To be fully engaged in life means that we have clear goals as well as the focus and skills to accomplish those goals with ease and a sense of calm awareness. In his first book, The Practicing Mind, which remains a bestseller in its category, Thomas Sterner set out clear guidelines for developing focus and discipline to achieve any life goal. As Tom traveled and spoke about the book, he kept track of the questions readers and participants at his seminars asked. The answers to those questions or more accurately, the exploration of those questions became the basis of Fully Engaged. This new book explores specific techniques, such as thought awareness training and setting goals with accurate data, and demonstrates how using these techniques will not only help you reach your objectives, but will keep you engaged in each moment of your life, throughout the process of accomplishing those goals. Being thus engaged will result in less stress and more satisfaction in every aspect of life.

Praise for Thomas M. Sterner and Fully Engaged

Thomas Sterners work on practice has changed my life. As a Master Life Coach Instructor I have read many materials on self-help, mind management, habit development, and growth. I rate Toms work to be among the very best of the hundreds of books I have studied. He teaches his brilliant concepts in a style that is easy to understand and implement. It doesnt matter what you want to get better at doing or being; Tom has the teachings that, when applied, will get you there. Study his work, learn and practice what he demonstrates, and youll know more peace, productivity, and profit, guaranteed.

Brooke Castillo, Master Certified Coach
and president of The Life Coach School

Last year as a Techpreneur, living in the most disruptive and innovative period in history, I set for myself and completed a five-hundred-book personal growth challenge. I believe this challenge qualifies me to pay tribute to this extraordinary author, Thomas Sterner. Throughout this challenge, encountering a book able to significantly influence my life in as profound a manner as Toms first book, The Practicing Mind, was exceptionally rare. It was clear that the wisdom shared in this work stemmed from solid reflection and a set of deeply entrenched values embedded in this master. Toms work and ideas are beyond reproach, but what truly impressed me were his humility, authenticity, and generous spirit.

Alysia Silberg, UN Women Empower Women Global
Champion for Womens Economic Empowerment.

Praise for Thomas Sterners The Practicing Mind

Thomas Sterners brilliance shines through in the brevity of this complex books pages.... This tiny but intense book delivers enough information to contemplate and apply for a lifetime.

Roundtable Reviews

Thomas Sterner, prompted by his experiences learning to play golf as an adult and as an accomplished musician, shares insights, stories, and advice for mastering the skills of our choosing with less frustration and more pleasure.... [The Practicing Mind] helps us understand exactly what present moment awareness is, how the culture we live in constantly instructs us to the contrary, and how we can change our mindset to make this a part of our daily life.

New Thought

Sterners encouragement...is to find things that help us do well and practice them staying in the moment, creating and practicing good habits, and being patient, disciplined, and even-tempered in our work.

The Horn Call

Thomas Sterner gives us a useful, thoughtful, much-needed book on the often-overlooked science and art of practice....Anyone hoping to excel at anything should read this.

Roy F. Baumeister, coauthor of
Willpower: Rediscovering the Greatest Human Strength

The Practicing Mind engagingly transforms difficulty into devotion, offering a practical, easy-to-understand approach that will transform your view of even the most challenging or mundane steps on your journey of life.

Marney K. Makridakis, author of Creating Time
and founder of ArtellaLand.com

Thomas Sterners book has provided helpful information in all areas of my life. As a business leader, I became more effective; as a public speaker, more dynamic; as a parent, more attentive; and with my weekend hobbies, I learned to have more fun and increase skills.

Ralph Citino, banking professional

In The Practicing Mind, Tom Sterner achieves a rare combination: he provides not just a clear set of practical steps for creating focused effort but also a theoretical background that can help us to reframe our expectations and values so that we can keep in perspective the difference between process and product, progress and goals. Highly recommended.

Dr. Scott A. Davison, professor of philosophy at Morehead State
University and author of On the Intrinsic Value of Everything

Also by Thomas M. Sterner

The Practicing Mind

Copyright 2016 by Thomas M. Sterner

All rights reserved. This book may not be reproduced in whole or in part, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form or by any means electronic, mechanical, or other without written permission from the publisher, except by a reviewer, who may quote brief passages in a review.

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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data is available.

First printing, October 2016

ISBN 978-1-60868-432-8

Ebook ISBN 978-1-60868-433-5

Printed in Canada on 100% postconsumer-waste recycled paper

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This book is dedicated to my father, Thomas D. Sterner. All those who have enjoyed my work owe him a debt of gratitude, for he taught me that it is never Can it be done? but always Just do it, and you will figure it out along the way. His friendship and support have been instrumental in all that I have accomplished.

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I must thank my daughters, Margie and Melissa, for choosing me as their father in this life. They are two of my best friends and are amazing human beings.