Charles Sledge - Man Up: How To Be A Strong Man In A Weak World

What does it mean to be dominant? While there are many facets to dominance. The different types of dominance have an underlying similarity. Specifically that they have to do with your reality being stronger than the others. This can be cultivated even to the point where you shape the very world around you. No Im not talking about psychic powers or any such nonsense. Im talking using your mind to create the life of your dreams.

Being dominant is about having a stronger frame or version of reality than others. So for a simplified example lets say that you think youre great. You meet a girl who looks at you and says your trash. A guy with no dominance and a weak frame would apologize for being trash or react emotionally while agreeing with her subconsciously. A guy with a strong frame and sense of dominance would either ignore her completely or laugh at her faulty attempts to faze him.

This is the mindset that you should have. In any situation that you are dominant. This doesnt mean domineering where you wade your way into everyones space and make demands of them. Rather than your frame and the way you see things remain the dominant focal point of your mind.

In Social Settings

Well use a party as an example. Lets say youre at a party in high school. You just moved in from out of town and were invited by some girl who went into some room with a guy and you havent seen her in a while nor expect to. Its just you, you dont know anything else. Now lets say you see a cute girl surrounded in a corner surrounded by a bunch of guys.

A guy with a dominant mindset would go over and talk to her. As his desire to do so would be more important to him than being judged by others. A guy with a submissive mindset would try to make friends with everyone first then be allowed to talk to the girl. He wouldnt go straight after what he wants, he would go about in a roundabout way. Which is feminine and submissive behavior.

The point is you should always consider your frame of reference the most important one. Youre at a party, you think youre great, awesome. Talk to whoever you want, flirty with whoever you want, operate uninhibitedly as a freeman. Dont let others shame you into a corner or accept their version of reality if it differs from yours. Do so and people will eventually come around to your version of reality. They may resist it at first but the weak have docile minds and will always give in to someone who knows in which direction they are headed. A man with a I am dominant mindset.

Youre The King

You are the king of your own world. You are the most important person in your own world. You should love yourself and invest in yourself. Care more about what you think of yourself than what others think of you, no matter who those others may be. Let your frame and version of reality be the strongest. Dont give in to what others think. Instead choose your own path and follow it to fruition.

What you think matters most. Others will try to shame you and control you. Dont let them. Nothing and I mean nothing is worth your freedom. You are the captain of your own ship. You control in which direction your life is heading. It is your choice to be a confident dominant man who gets the most out of life or to be another castrated slave, a sheep, shackled to the limited beliefs of society and others.

Break free and reclaim your freedom. Live for yourself that is how it is supposed to be. Treat the world as your own personal domain, for it is. Well thats not entirely accurate as its not just the world that is your domain but the universe itself. We were created to be creators. To extend our will on the world and reality around us and shape it to how we see fit.

Summary

Assert yourself into the reality of others with your own version always being the strongest. Pierce and dominate the reality of others with your own. Always maintain the frame and have the stronger version of reality. Youre the king, never forget this. When others see strength they instinctually test it, especially women. But once they see you wont change for them then they submit to it. Women will generally get turned on and males will either get all pissy you dont give a shit what they think, while men will respect you. Always embrace the I am dominant mindset in every situation regardless if its with work, women, or wherever else. You are dominant.