Enlow - Servant of All: Reframing Greatness & Leadership through the Teachings of Jesus

RALPH E. ENLOW, JR.

SERVANT of ALL

REFRAMING GREATNESS & LEADERSHIP through the TEACHINGS of JESUS

Servant of All: Reframing Greatness and Leadership through the Teachings of Jesus

Copyright 2019 Ralph E. Enlow, Jr.

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Print ISBN 978-1-68-359297-6

Digital ISBN 978-1-68-359298-3

Kirkdale Editorial Team: Elliot Ritzema, Jennifer Edwards, and Erin Mangum

Cover Design: Lydia Dahl

To Peter

Consistent example

Constant encourager

CONTENTS

by David Kinnaman

W e humans often make the mistake of creating Jesus in our own image. We embrace the aspects of Jesus that we like, and we rejector politely overlookthe elements of his character and teachings that we find less relevant to our over-busy, self-important lives. Sometimes, it takes a fresh perspective to shake us from our focus on my-size Jesus.

Thats one of the many reasons I am thrilled to recommend this book, Servant of All, by my dear friend Ralph Enlow. I believe its wise, intimate reflections on Jesus command to be a servant of all can help us take his remarkable, countercultural words to heart. Its a breath of fresh air to imagine that our Lord really meant what he said about servanthoodthat he wants us to measure our lives and leadership by this upside-down metric. Throughout this book, Ralph brings to life the backstory of Jesus oft-quoted maxim. He helps us see the relational and contextual dynamics behind Jesus giving this go-low-to-go-high calling to his disciples, and offers us fresh perspective on what it means for our lives today.

Saturating our lives with meditations on Jesus character is important and urgent. Its important because our research at Barna shows that, as Ive mentioned above, far too many people make Jesus into their own image. We need helpful guides, like Ralph, to help tune our hearts to the true rhythms of godly leadership. And its urgent because of our current crisis of leadership. We have a surplus of Christian leaders who mistake the size of their platform for the impact they are having for Jesus.

Ive spent my whole life in and around the world of church, and more than two decades working with and around all kinds of Christian leaders. I know firsthand the bitter pangs of jealousy and disappointment when I am criticized, left out, or misunderstood. I know from our research among Christian leaders and pastors, as well as from personal experience, how difficult it can be to accurately measure our worth as leaders. It can be confusing to know what scorecard we should keep, especially in an era of big organizations, megachurches, and best-selling authorsnot to mention modern tools like targeted ads, podcasting, Twitter, and alternative media. Look how many people we can influence! You can almost imagine a conversation in a conference green room among todays Christian leaders playing out like the chatter that occurred among Jesus disciples: Who will be greatest in the kingdom?

In an age of radical transparency and always-on leadership, Christians who want to leave a gospel-shaped mark must live by a different ethic of submitted, sacrificial leadership. Toward that end, this wonderful book is filled with helpful insights about reorienting our leadership around the Jesus way. Ralphs work was a reminder for me, as I hope it will be for you, that to be a leader after the heart of Jesus is to seek a different kind of influence and a different scale of significance. I hope you will read this book with eyes and ears open to Jesus fundamental challenge: Anyone who wants to be first must be the very last, and the servant of all.

Ralph writes, The difference between leaders and other people is that leaders are endowed with perspective. The greater the perspective, the greater the leader. This book is designed to help you be a great leaderbut not in the way the world imagines, and certainly not by doing the things that often get Christians patted on the back: giving a terrific sermon, or being a voice of reason in an anxious age, or selling lots of books, or being a social media influencer, or any number of things in which we secretly take delight. This book would have you widen your perspective by going deeper with Jesus, by delighting in the things that matter to him.

Oh, and one more thing.

I recall meeting Ralph in a hotel lobby almost ten years ago. We have become good friends since then, with frequent chances to interact. As such, Ive seen him in all manner of circumstances: with his employees and with peers, with wait staff at restaurants, with big-name Christian leaders, with intellectuals and authors, and with vendors and suppliers. Ive seen Ralph demonstrate time and again the hard-won lessons of leadership he writes about. Ive seen him put these principles into practice. Ralphlike me, like youhas a long way to go to become completely like Christ. Yet his life radiates the servant-of-all orientation he is asking us to consider. Hes among the handful of people Ive known who is least likely to create Jesus in his own image. And thats something we all need to learn.

David Kinnaman

President, Barna Group

Ventura, California

February 2019

W ith joyful gratitude, I acknowledge the indispensable contributions of the following persons to the publication of this volume.

Early urgings to commit my studies and talks about these Scripture passages into book form came from many Columbia International University and Association for Biblical Higher Education colleagues and friends.

Faithlifes Mark Chestnut introduced me to Kirkdale Presss publisher, Brannon Ellis, who responded encouragingly to my submission of the initial manuscript and entrusted me to the caring and exceedingly capable hands of editor Elliot Ritzema. Over an eighteen-month period, Elliot shepherded me through the editorial journey, insisting upon and eliciting more rigorous thinking and refined expression at every turn. Whatever the present quality of this text, it would be far more mediocre apart from Elliots gracious coaxing and patient coaching. I owe to Elliot and the Kirkdale editorial and design team, including Jennifer Edwards, Erin Mangum, and Lydia Dahl, the books final title, textual accuracy, and cover design.

I am indebted to the following friends who graciously consented to read and critique the manuscript: Allison Byxbe, Tony Celelli, Bob Ferris, Michael Hart, Niki McIntosh, Alex Seidel, James Spencer, Tyler Tong, and Mark Wenger. Other leaders I hold in high esteem have been kind enough to review and offer endorsements that appear in the book. Barna Group president David Kinnaman, whose prophetic insight and thoughtful friendship I greatly treasure, graciously offered to provide a foreword.

Throughout the process, my wife Valeriewho knows better than anyone how far I fall short of the leadership reframing to which Jesus calls ushas been a rock of persevering encouragement.

Soli deo Gloria

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