When my mother was pregnant with me, a psychic told her, Youre gonna have a boy, and hell be very famous. I lived my life believing that, and believing that there are other levels of consciousness available to us all. I came to realize we are all extensions of the power that created the whole universe. I first met Char Margolis in the mid-nineties, when Michelle Visage and I cohosted a morning-drive radio show at WKTU in NYC. Char would do live readings for callers and we kept bringing her back because she was helping so many people. It was during one of her visits to the show that she told me I would be well known on television, unbeknownst to her, validating what the psychic had told my mother many years before. I was just beginning my VH1 show.
I was always interested in the psychic energetic world and intuition. I had been aware of it my whole life. There is so much psychic debris in our world, and my goal has always been to resonate with the positive energy. Ive been through many ups and downs, and Ive learned that the dark clouds will pass. Darkness cannot exist in the presence of light. On my journey Ive found those whom I resonate with who are beacons of light and seekers of wisdom. I believe we resonate with like kind. There are those of us who are part of our tribe and our goal is to clear the path for healing. Char is one of our tribe. All of us support one another because the waters can get very murky.
When you become the image of your own imagination and live with your truth, its the most powerful thing you can ever do. I have practiced manifesting my destiny. This book brilliantly talks about manifestation and how you can apply it to your life. I grew up reading books like The Universe Is Calling You and I have always been a seeker. Its not only important to hear the call, but to recognize the voice. I listened to that guidance at pivotal moments and it was life changing for me. I listened because I had faith. If you hang in there long enough you will make a breakthrough. The Universe is calling you so we all need to be brave enough to answer. We dont need to make apologies for seeking higher knowledge. Sometimes we may make mistakes but that is how we learn. Chars book is filled with answers that will guide you to finding peace and happiness. It will help you decipher between positive and negative energies and keep you on the path of positive healing. All of us have a purpose in life. This guide can help you find your souls purpose. First, understand if you cant love yourself how in the hell are you gonna love somebody else. As Char writes in this book, the first true love is self-love. It doesnt mean youre selfish, it means your needs matter. Give yourself the gift of wisdom and allow this book to help you find your essence and the core of who you really are. Be open enough to hear the call! Everybody say love! This book is filled with it! The Universe is calling you, LOVE, so listen!
No matter what changes in each of our reincarnated lifetimes, our energy pattern stays with us. We all have our own energy thumbprint that identifies us through eternity. Our goal is to become one with goodness, love and God. Which is our Essence.
Who am I?
Why was I born?
Whats my reason for living?
Why do the people I love have to die, and will I see them again?
Why do I have to die, and what will happen when I do?
Is this world all there is, or is there something more?
Why is there so much sorrow and evil in the world?
Is God really there?
As a psychic intuitive medium for more than forty-five years, I have heard questions like these from thousands of peopleclients, friends, family members, audiences of my TV shows, the people who attend book signings or whom I meet on the street. And I have asked these questions myself, especially in times of grief and emotional distress. I, too, have felt the enormous pain of losing loved ones, and the guilt and remorse and regret for things done and not done. And, like most people, there have been times that I have questioned the wisdom of a God that would allow famine, genocide, and suffering in the world.
However, the one thing I do not questionindeed, the thing I know with absolute certaintyis that we continue to live beyond the short time we spend on Earth in any given lifetime. Our souls exist before we are born, and our spirits do not die when our bodies stop working. I know this because my lifes work is to connect people on Earth with the spirits of their departed loved ones. It is enormously rewarding. I have watched joy and amazement appear on the faces of fathers, mothers, sons, daughters, brothers, sisters, grandchildren, spouses, or best friends as they hear messages, through me, that could only come from the people who have passed over to the other side. I have witnessed the healing and consolation they feel when they know their loved ones are still there, still caring, still communicating and still connected to them despite the great loss from their death.
I saw this happen on one of my Dutch television shows. Thoms wife, Mariska, had died two years earlier, and he was still heartbroken. I went to his apartment in Amsterdam to give him a reading. Now, when I read for people, I usually pick up on the letters of the names of their loved ones, both living and deceased; its my way of tuning in to the unique energy each spirit possesses. Within a minute or two, I picked up on the name of Thoms father, who was living, and then Maria, his wifes mother. Maria is with Mariska and helping her to come through, I said. Now Mariska is showing me something around your neck. What is it?
Thom pulled out a pendant from under his shirt. It contains her ashes, he told me.
She knows that you wear it. Shes also telling me about a colleague of yours that plays music. Are you a musician too?
Thom sighed. I wasbut I stopped after she died. It was clear he was still in a great deal of pain.
I know that a part of you stopped living when she died, but it makes her sad to think that youre not playing music, I told him. She says that youre brilliant and gifted and talented and if you were to start being creative again, it would bring her closer to you. She says that theres music you need to write.
I wrote something and performed it, but not recently, Thom admitted.
Now shes showing me something about the heart. I tapped the upper part of my chest. Did you two have a sign about the heart?
Thom thought a moment, then he nodded. I had a special tattoo done for her; its her family initials. How could you know that? And he pulled at his shirt to show me the tattoo in the same location where I had tapped my own chest.
But Mariska wasnt done. When you cremated her, you put something on her heart or in her pocket? And nobody knows about it but you? I asked.
Thom looked amazed. I put a photo in with her, right above her heart. I did that at the cremation place; nobody saw me.