Endorsements
There is a dizzying litany of books about God in the contemporary marketplace. Many of them are good and helpful. Some not so much. But far too few have been penned to help us know how we relate to God. In the rugged history of Christianity, some of our heroes and saints have offered beautiful descriptions of how they found the God of Scripture. Their tales are so needed today. This book mines our history and theology for these tested and true gifts. I commend Sherrills miraculous book. And I believe God will show you a whole new way to know him.
A. J. Swoboda , assistant professor, Bushnell University; author of After Doubt
I first met AJ Sherrill somewhere on the streets of a noisy, busy city. Now, some years later, I find myself rejoicing in AJ as an emerging voice on how to quiet the noise and find rest in the busy places. If you are looking for a field guide to help you enter into the rest of Christ, look no further. This is that field guide.
Scott Sauls , senior pastor, Christ Presbyterian Church; author of Jesus Outside the Lines and A Gentle Answer
In a world filled with distractions, Christians are often people of action but not too often people of contemplation and prayer. This approach ultimately results in stress, depression, and burnout. More than ever, we need to rediscover contemplative prayer that will help sustain us for living in todays complex and changing world. Being with God is a timely book filled with timeless wisdom for todays church. Read it, contemplate it, but most of all, practice it!
Winfield Bevins , director of church planting, Asbury Seminary; author of Ever Ancient, Ever New
This is a fantastic book for those pursuing the way of Jesus. Instead of adding another religious task to do, AJ seeks to instill the necessity of being with God. Truly abiding is a forgotten discipline in our time from which all spiritual fruit is born. I highly recommend this book.
Jon Tyson , lead pastor, Trinity Grace Church
Sherrill pastorally calls for Christians to disentangle themselves from the loud clamoring of the world by embracing the formational rhythms of Jesus and entering into the depths of a gracious, loving, and kind God. AJ not only casts the vision, he also pastorally tells us how to experience the fullness of God.
Tara Beth Leach , author of Emboldened and Radiant Church
Im addicted. Addicted to activity. Addicted to noise. Addicted to accomplishment. All this addiction means Im never still. My mind never quiets. I often lack the space to be with God. And, crazy as it sounds, thats what God wants most. AJ gifts the church with needed, helpful insights into the crazed culture we live in and the way our minds work, and he presses it against Gods dream for human flourishing. If you, like me, struggle to get quiet, read this book.
Sean Palmer , teaching pastor, Ecclesia Houston; author of Forty Days on Being a Three (Enneagram Daily Reflections)
Feeling like a robot programmed by demanding outside forces? Tired of constant reactivity, of having little capacity to respond functionally to life? Read Being with God . Sherrills insights will reshape your soul, which will in turn reshape your life in the world.
Bishop Todd Hunter , author of Deep Peace: Finding Calm in a World of Conflict and Anxiety
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The Enneagram for Spiritual Formation: How Knowing Ourselves Can Make Us More Like Jesus
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2021 by AJ Sherrill
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Dedication
To the Holy Spirit.
You counsel, comfort, and keep us
every moment in this sacred life.
You are the conversation within our being.
May this humble book serve as a living testimony
to your faithful presence in the world.
Contents
Endorsements
Half Title Page
Also by the Author
Title Page
Copyright Page
Dedication
Foreword by Rich Villodas
Introduction: Read Me
PART
ABSURDITY
1. Weird
2. Tech
3. Hear
PART 2
NECESSITY
4. Noise
5. Room
6. Still
7. Groans
8. Dive
9. Gaze
PART 3
NEUROLOGY
10. Breath
11. Stress
12. Sleep
Conclusion: Benefits of Contemplative Prayer
Appendix A: Designing a Contemplative Retreat
Appendix B: Additional Resources
Notes
Bibliography
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Foreword
T HOMAS A QUINAS , one of the most important theologians in the history of the church, had a phrase in his classic thirteenth-century work, Summa Theologiae , that summed up much of his witness to God: Contemplare et contemplata aliis tradere , which means, Contemplate and share the fruit of your contemplation. Eight centuries later, we are in desperate need to revisit this profoundly simple invitation. Why? Because what the worldand many parts of the churchhas offered is diametrically opposed to this vision.
Instead of offering fruit from a place of sustained, prayerful abiding in Christ, we are being offered, and thereby offering, the fruit of reactivity, anxiety, and simplistic solutions for a vastly complicated world. What the worldand, more importantly, the churchdesperately needs are people who have been with God. People who can offer a quality of presence that disrupts the violent pace that has swallowed many people wholea presence shaped by contemplation.
The world is in distress in large part because of the quality of our prayers, and consequently the quality of our lives. This is why Im convinced that if we change how we pray, we can open ourselves to somethingor rather someonewho can do something in us that we cant produce in ourselves.
Its for this reason that Im thrilled about the book youre holding. Every generation needs new words to help us understand what it means to abide deeply in God. We need fresh words from people who have been with God. One of my favorite verses in the New Testament is found in Acts 4. Peter and John are taken captive by the religious guard because of their gospel message. They are put in jail and questioned. In response, Peter goes on to boldly proclaim the redemptive story of Jesus.
After hearing Peter speak, theres an important observation from the religious establishment: When they saw the courage of Peter and John... , they took note that these men had been with Jesus (Acts 4:13). Hear those words: These men had been with Jesus. What would it look like if the world looked at women and men in this generation and concluded, These people have been with Jesus? In our day, its easier to say, These people have been with cable news personalities or These people have been with some judgmental religious types. But imagine if people could look at our livesour courageous, loving, nonanxious livesand only say, These people have been with Jesus.