2013 by Renee Swope
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Contents
Cover
Title Page
Copyright Page
From My Heart to Yours
1. Turning Points
2. How Did I Get Here?
3. When Life Is Hard
4. Getting Past Our Past
5. My Image of God
6. From Wimp to Warrior
7. Sometimes I Have to Boss My Heart Around
8. Becoming the Woman God Created You to Be
9. Because Gods Love Is Perfect
10. How Are You, Really?
11. When Your Feelings Dont Tell the Truth
12. Sin Doesnt Get the Final Say
13. When You Dont Want to Be a Burden
14. I Havent Got Time for the Pain
15. Its Over
16. Praying with Confidence
17. Away from the Crowds
19. How Forgiveness Sets Us Free
20. More Than Breadcrumbs
21. Set Apart
22. When Helping Others Helps Us
23. Letting God Rebuild Your Confidence
24. When Fear Paralyzes Our Faith
25. The Things We Do for Love
26. When You Feel Like Damaged Goods
27. Who Told You That You Were... ?
28. If God Is for Me .
29. Living in the Hear and Now
30. When Hurt Steals Your Hope
31. I Just Dont Have It in Me
32. When You Feel Empty
33. Dealing with Disappointments
34. Measuring Up
35. You Are Good Enough
36. Before the Battle Begins
37. A New Pattern of Thought
38. No More Guilt-Induced Doubt
39. He Cares about You
40. Dare to Hope
41. Youve Got Something Special to Offer
42. When You Feel Far from God
43. Freedom from the Grave
44. Pursued
45. Changing Your Mind
46. Shipwrecked
47. His Compassions Never Fail
48. Peace-full
50. Words for the Weary
51. Because You Are His
52. Failing Forward
53. Compelled by Love Alone
54. Mistaken Identity
55. Surrender
56. Talking Trash or Talking Truth?
57. Im beyond Hurt
58. He Bends Down
59. Turning Worry into Worship
60. A Lifetime Heart Warranty
Appendix A: Personality Summary
Appendix B: When You Say, God Says
Notes
About Renee
Also by Renee Swope
About Proverbs 31 Ministries
Back Ads
Back Cover
From My Heart to Yours
As I imagine you reading this page, I wish we were sitting in a coffee shop chatting. I would love to talk with you about things that may be weighing you down. They always seem to lighten when shared with a friend. I would tell you about the times I let my doubts pile up, and how the weight of my worries almost took me down.
And you just might hear the story about the time I accidentally took my dogs medication. Yes. I sure did. Hopefully, knowing that little fact about me would make you feel a little better about yourself.
There is nothing more reassuring for a woman than realizing she is not the only one who struggles with doubt, fear, or any array of emotions and imperfections shes convinced herself that other women dont have.
And in that moment we sometimes wonder if maybejust maybethat friend who let us know she struggles too could walk beside us as we try to find our way out of the shadow of our doubts.
I have had that kind of friend, and I would love to be that kind of friend for you.
But since we cant chat in a coffee shop, Im hoping we can meet right here on the pages of this book for the next sixty days. Id love to tell you just how normal and wonderful you are, and help you take hold of truths that will unfold the plans and promises God has for your life.
Over the past several years, God has been changing me and rearranging me, using His Word and His unconditional love to lead me to what I call God-fidence. Its a deep-down soul-security that has little to do with what we do or dont have but everything to do with all God is and all that He offers us each day.
Through stories of men and women in the Bible who battled insecurity and fear, Ive discovered its possible to stop doubting myself and to start living, by faith, in the security of Gods promises, no matter what my circumstances or emotions tell me.
Using powerful promises from His Word, Ive created a new thought-map. And I use it every day to redirect my thinking, to make sure my heart is being led by truth. At the end of each devotion Ill share one of these promises that ties in to the topic of the day, so you can use His thoughts to redirect yours all day.
Ive also asked a few friends to share their stories throughout the book, so you can be inspired by their journey and learn from their process of finding confidence in Christ.
Each morning, I hope youll grab your Bible and meet with me here. I cant wait to encourage you and walk beside you as you step out from the shadows of your doubt and learn to live with a confident heart!
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Turning Points
You are a chosen [woman], a royal [priest], a holy [daughter], Gods special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of the darkness into his wonderful light.
1 Peter 2:9
I stood in front of my bathroom mirror, getting ready to travel to a large event while begging God to zap me with confidenceor send Jesus back before it was time for me to speak. I had been struggling with paralyzing self-doubt that week and it was making me question everything.
When I turned to put something in my suitcase, which was behind me, I noticed a huge nine-foot shadow on the wall. I was surprised how big the shadow was and how much it distorted the image of my five-foot-two-inch frame.
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