InterVarsity Press
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2017 by Jared Patrick Boyd
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While any stories in this book are true, some names and identifying information may have been changed to protect the privacy of individuals.
All Things Rise lyrics by Sam Yoder, 2015 Mercy/Vineyard Publishing (ASCAP), admin. by vineyardworship.com, CCLI#7051263, used by permission.
Cover design: Cindy Kiple
Images: child silhouette:VectorSilhouettes/iStockphoto
colorful swirls:OliaFedorovsky/iStockphoto Image of girl and bucket: TanyaRu/iStockphoto
ISBN 978-0-8308-9229-7 (digital)
ISBN 978-0-8308-4625-2 (print)
Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Names: Boyd, Jared Patrick, 1978- author.
Title: Imaginative prayer : a yearlong guide for your childs spiritual
formation / Jared Patrick Boyd.
Description: Downers Grove : InterVarsity Press, 2017. | Includes
bibliographical references and index.
Identifiers: LCCN 2017010364 (print) | LCCN 2017016956 (ebook) | ISBN
9780830892297 (eBook) | ISBN 9780830846252 (pbk. : alk. paper)
Subjects: LCSH: PrayerChristianity. | Imagination in children |
ImaginationReligious aspectsChristianity. | Christian education of
children. | ChildrenReligious life. | Spiritual formation.
Classification: LCC BV214 (ebook) | LCC BV214 .B69 2017 (print) | DDC
248.8/45dc23
LC record available at https://lccn.loc.gov/2017010364
For my girls
contents
Imaginative Prayer Creedal Poem
The most important part of the story is that God loves so many things.
That he loves me.
That when I am lost, he will come looking for me.
That when I am sick, he wants to heal me.
And when I make mistakes, he will always have grace on me.
There is nothing that can separate me from the love of God.
God invites us to live a life of love.
Love looks like being patient and kind and not making a list of peoples mistakes.
Love looks like inviting people who may be left out.
Love looks like taking care of people when they need help.
We love others with the love that God pours into us.
People will know that we are followers of Jesus because of our love for each other.
Forgiveness means we can have peace with God.
Forgiveness means God welcomes anyone.
Forgiveness means God takes away our sin.
Forgiveness means we can forgive the sins of others.
When we forgive, we will be forgiven. When we give, it will be given to us.
Love and forgiveness make room for reconciliation.
Jesus is the King who came to undo the power of death.
Jesus is the King who came to defeat the power of sin.
Jesus is the King who came to defeat the power of the Accuser.
Jesus is a faithful King, even when we dont have faith.
We have life with God through the faithfulness of Jesus the King.
Love and forgiveness: this is how God became King.
God made a new promise, and it comes to us through Jesus.
The good news of God comes to us through the words of Jesus.
The good news of God comes to us through the life of Jesus.
The good news of God comes to us through the death of Jesus.
The good news of God comes to us through the resurrection of Jesus.
We receive the promises of God when we choose to follow Jesus.
When we follow Jesus, we join the mission of God to bring his love into the world.
The mission of God is to make everything in the world good again,
to bring all things under the reign of King Jesus,
to bring peace and reconciliation to everything.
The mission of God is to take away the veil that covers up the presence of God.
God is at work all around us: open your eyes and join God in his mission to the world.
Introduction
Christianity is not an intellectual system, a collection of dogmas, or a moralism. Christianity is instead an encounter, a love story; it is an event.
Pope Benedict XVI
What if education... is not primarily about ideas and information, but about the formation of hearts and desires? The education of desire... requires the pedagogical formation of our imagination.
James K. A. Smith, Desiring the Kingdom
This book is about connection. As a father of four girls one of my greatest desires is to pass on to them a deep understanding and awareness of the experience of God. My hope is that they would feel connected to God and the story God is unfolding in their lives and in the world around them. Will they see themselves as part of Gods story? Will they feel close and connected to God as they navigate decisions that come their way and pursue risks on the horizon? Will they say yes to all that God is inviting them into? This book is about connection because of the way Jesus asks us to imagine our life with himhe is the vine, his Father is the gardener, and we are connected to him. This is how we bear fruit. This is the image he gives us. This is what he asks us to imagine.
This book is also about formation. Spiritual formation... is the intentional and God-ward reorientation and re-habituation of human experience. Whenever were intentionally doing something to shift our experience or understanding of God, were involved in spiritual formation. When were working, in response to Gods grace, to shift our thoughts, the patterns of our relationships, and our actions toward a greater alignment with the life and teachings of Jesus, we are doing the work of spiritual formation.
And when we help others in their journey of formation, we become connected to them and their story.
We share in their experience, and we too are formed by it.
This book is an invitation to connection with your child and to your childs spiritual formation.
Parenting, Connection, and Formation
In my late twenties, as I tried to settle into adulthood (and feeling quite unsettled), I began meeting with a spiritual directorsomeone with formal training in helping me pay closer attention to my conversation with God and the movements in my soul. I began to notice the story of my own formational journey, which took me all the way back to childhood. This wasnt therapy. It was a form of prayerful attentiveness to how God has been present to me throughout the seasons of my life. It is an attentiveness that seeks to name Gods activity and my responses. One glaring observation was that while I had a powerful encounter with the love and grace of God when I said yes to Jesus at age ten, my next