2014 by Kathi Lipp
Published by Revell
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Ebook edition created 2014
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Kathi has the unusual gift of being able to offer deep and important counsel in a lighthearted, fun package. This book is a fantastic resource for every parent who wants to know how to navigate the real-life stuff that interrupts their nice, neat ideas of how life and kids should go. Kathi has been there, and this wisdom is priceless.
Shaunti Feldhahn , bestselling author of For Women Only and For Parents Only
Our role as parents is to guide our children into adulthood. Our greatest opportunities will often come when they experience various kinds of failures. With grace and truth, Kathi authentically deals with these realities as a mom and stepmom during those not-so-good moments, sharing some great and practical insights and tips.
Roy Baldwin , speaker, popular contributor to Dad Matters blog, and director of parenting at Focus on the Family
Praise for Praying God s Word for Your Husband
I have concluded that the power and strength of our marriage of thirty-two years come from prayer. I have also discerned that most women feel a little overwhelmed, lost, or confused when it comes to just how to pray for their man. Kathi Lipp tackles this vital issue with practical tips and encouragement, as well as some easy-to-follow prayers, so that every wife can be a praying wife. Husbands around the world, including your own, will be grateful for the fruit of this book as you weave your way through it and apply it with love.
Pam Farrel , author of the bestselling Men Are Like Waffles , Women Are Like Spaghetti and Ways to Wow Your Husband
Praise for Praying God s Word for Your Life
I recommend this book for anyone needing direction and practical guidance for personal prayer time.
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Kathi Lipp takes us on a life-changing journey to pray Gods Word over our lives. I love her practical steps and insights on how to make this a part of our daily routine. Highly recommended.
Linda Evans Shepherd , bestselling author of When You Dont Know What to Pray
To Kimberly
Anyone else might have a problem having a book with this title dedicated to them, but only you would actually love it.
I love you and am so proud of you. God has big things in store for you, and I love that I get to have a front row seat.
contents
Cover
Title Page
Copyright Page
Endorsements
Dedication
Acknowledgments
Introduction
1. Unlikely Gifts
2. Dont Hang Out in the Motherhood Alone
3. You Are Not the Only One
4. When My Child Is Different
5. When My Child Is Overwhelmed
6. When My Child Is Troubled
7. When My Child Is Sick or Injured
8. When My Child Makes Poor Choices
9. When My Child Is Running Away from God
10. When My Child Is Lacking Character
11. When My Child Is Struggling
12. When My Child Is Left Out
Final Thoughts
Notes
About the Author
Books by Kathi Lipp
Back Ads
Back Cover
acknowledgments
My biggest thanks go to Erin MacPherson. I cant get over how blessed I am to have you in my life.
To the other bad momsSusy Flory and Cheri Gregory. Not only do you give me support, but you give me tons of material.
And to the team who holds me upLynette Furstenburg, Angela Bouma, Kim Nowlin, and Bronwyn Swartz. I am so grateful.
To the kiddos in our livesAmanda, Jeremy, Justen, and Kimber. Every book there are new stories to share. Thanks for trusting me with yours.
Andrea Doering and the rest of the Revell team. Still shocked and amazed that I get to be with you.
To Rachelle Gardner and the rest of the Books and Such team. Im honored to be a part of you.
And to Roger, who is the coauthor of all my best adventures.
To each person who has prayed, encouraged, or held us up this year. We are so grateful. God has used you as his hands and feet.
introduction
I feel like I m failing as a mom .
Please tell me Im not scarring my kids.
Others joke that they need to save up not for college but for therapy for their kids. Im afraid that Im not joking.
As parents, many of us are silently pleading, I wish someone would just tell me what to do.
Oh, how often have I heard that same sentenceusually when Im huddled in a corner, praying with a mom whose child is in trouble. Maybe her daughter is sick or her son has made some bad choices in life. Her toddler is defiant, her teen is running wild, or her adult child is no longer speaking to her. She is heartsick and would do anything anything to make her child okay.
When Im sitting there, my hands clasped around hers, praying that God would change the situation, I dont just feel bad for this poor mom, I feel empathy too. Real, true, deep, heartfelt empathy. Because every prayer were praying Ive prayed a thousand times for my own children:
when my son was asked to leave his preschool class for disruptive behavior
when my stepdaughter said yes to an engagement ring from the man my husband and I knew was not in Gods will for her life
when my daughter was in the emergency room of our local hospital for hours on end and the doctors couldnt figure out why she was having pains that made her scream
when my stepson refused to talk to me at my wedding because he hated that I was marrying his dad
when I found the medical marijuana card in the laundry
Every single time I thought, I wish someone would tell me what to do . Like you, I want the best for my kids. I would lay down my life for them. I want to take every pain away, to stop every potential issue before it happens, to keep them safe and healthy. And I want them to grow into men and women who love God and live by his Word.
But, frustratingly, sometimes the next step isnt do. Sometimes the next step is to just be still and know that he is God. Yes, the next step is pray.
For years Ive loved the story of the Amalekite battle in Exodus 17:814:
The Amalekites came and attacked the Israelites at Rephidim. Moses said to Joshua, Choose some of our men and go out to fight the Amalekites. Tomorrow I will stand on top of the hill with the staff of God in my hands.
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