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Gellert, Michael.
The way of the small : why less is truly more / Michael Gellert; with a foreword by Thomas Moore.
p. cm.
Includes bibliographical references and index.
ISBN-13: 978-0-89254-129-4 (alk. paper)
ISBN-10: 0-89254-129-6 (alk. paper)
1. Simplicity (Philosophy) 2. SimplicityReligious aspects. 3. Spirituality. 4. Self-esteem. 5. Conduct of life. I. Title.
B105.S55G45 2008
204'.4dc22 2007035671
VG
Cover and text design by Kathryn Sky-Peck
Printed in the United States of America
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Grateful acknowledgment is made for permission to reproduce the following material: How happy is the little stone, by Emily Dickinson. Reprinted by permission of the publishers and the Trustees of Amherst College from The Poems of Emily Dickinson, Thomas H. Johnson, ed., Cambridge, Mass.: The Belknap Press of Harvard University Press, Copyright 1951, 1955, 1979, 1983 by the President and Fellows of Harvard College. Submitted excerpt from The Man Watching [23 II] from Selected Poems of Rainer Maria Rilke, A Translation from the German and Commentary by Robert Bly. Copyright 1981 by Robert Bly. Reprinted by permission of HarperCollins Publishers. The Guest House, by Jelaluddin Balkhi Rumi. From The Illuminated Rumi by Coleman Barks and Michael Green, copyright 1997 by Coleman Barks and Michael Green. Used by permission of Broadway Books, a division of Random House, Inc. Reprinted also by permission of Reid Boates Literary Agency. The chapter entitled God's Small Secret, copyright by Michael Gellert. was published in an earlier form in Psychological Perspectives, Vol. 48, Issue 1, 2005, Routledge: Taylor &Francis Group, Philadelphia, PA.
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For Gilda, Betty, and Gary, wayfarers of the small
Many years of work on these matters have completely convinced me not only that small is beautiful but also that small is possible and has the future on its side.
[E.F. SCHUMACHER]
If you fail to seek Cod in the small things, you will seek him in vain for the large things.
[ANDREW MURRAY]
CONTENTS
PART ONE:
WHAT IS THE WAY OF THE SMALL?
PART TWO:
ESSENTIAL PRINCIPLES FOR LIVING SMALL
FOREWORD
by Thomas Moore
I love Mondays. No traveling across the world. No parties and gatherings and events. Nothing but an ordinary day's work, at home, in my precious tiny room.
The life of the writer is odd in that he sits at his desk many hours a day and once in a while discovers that his words have gone out into the far distant world. I enjoy this way of life. I can spend my days at home and yet make a little contribution to the greater community.
In all my books I praise the small and the ordinary. I have a natural antipathy toward spiritual writings that are inflated too big in scope, too focused on universals and ultimates. For years I've been criticized for not speaking of moral absolutes. I have enough trouble sorting out everyday ethical decisions.
I like to write forewords and small essays, even blurbs. I see them as miniatures. A tiny painting or jewel is worth at least as much as a grand wall-sized canvas or a major cathedral or temple.
For years now I have taught at Schumacher College in Devon, England, named for the author of Small is Beautiful. There, I learn spiritual simplicity from my wise spiritual advisor and friend, Satish Kumar. He founded The Small School and the college, which has a limit of twenty-five students per course. He has revealed to me the power of small acts and limited ambitions.
Now I have further wisdom and support from Michael Gellert in this inspired little book about the small and the simple. What I like most about it is the paradox that lies between the words and the covers: learn to live small and you will discover great pleasures. You will accomplish more in your life than you could ever predict if you were overly ambitious.
It does no good to romanticize the small. Once, I was asked to speak at a conference on the small, and, with my usual contrariness, I gave a lecture on the big and huge. I wanted to keep the small from becoming too big. You can overdo something that is almost negligible in size. Sometimes, as soon as you start to rhapsodize on the small, it gets too big.