Charles E. Hughes - How to Get a Man That Doesnt Cheat

How to Get a Man that Doesnt Cheat

by

Charles E. Hughes

This book is a work of non-fiction. Unless otherwise noted, the author and the publisher make no explicit guarantees as to the accuracy of the information contained in this book and in some cases, names of people and places have been altered to protect their privacy.

2010 Charles E. Hughes. All rights reserved.

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First published by AuthorHouse 4/2/2010

ISBN: 978-1-4259-2547-5 (e)

ISBN: 1-4208-7591-4 (sc)

Printed in the United States of America

Bloomington, Indiana

This book is printed on acid-free paper.

Contents

Chapter 1

Chapter 2

Chapters 3

Chapter 4

Chapter 5

Chapter 6

Chapter 7

Chapter 8

This book is written to help women enter a world that no one thought is possible. This book can and will give hope to the hopeless. If you are truly looking for a real man, you could be enlighten in these truths; not just facts, opinions or false knowledge.

Chapter 1
Built to be a Non-cheating Man

A man that does not cheat is the gold-find that most women seem to want. This type of man can be built, and he does exist. I was born in Queens, New York, named Charles Edward Hughes, Jr. As I grew up I began to realize how special my name was. I did not know what my name meant, but I knew that who I was named after was relevant to who I must act like and become. This was my foundation for who I am today. I am a non-cheating man. This is not because I say so, I could be a liar.

Please do not think that I am righteous, because I am not. I hate religion. You say, but I thought you were a Christian? I am. A true Christian is not religious. Religion is evil (back to this later). Christianity is relationship, not religion with God.

Do you notice that when someone teaches you something, and you succeed at it, and it benefits you, that usually that person you learned from knows his or her stuff. Well, I will show you that I know my stuff. I am a non-cheating expert, since that word might give me some respect. Just to let you know, I really do not believe experts, and you shouldnt, but if it is positive, try their advice.

When something is positive, it heals for the long run, it helps you now and in the long-run. Would you not agree that positivity means going higher, better, truer and brighter.

The reason that I said this chapter is named Built to be a Non-Cheating Man, is because I was built that way. The way a diamond is formed from coal. This expression though is ironic: because a diamond is built under pressure. I had no pressure, believe it or not. But, as a diamond comes from coal, I came from my parents relationship.

My parents relationship was great, but as you know, great relationships can go bad. Theirs did not; I said they could go bad because other great relationships have.

They were and are married over thirty-two years. Other relationships have had this great longevity, and still break-ups occur.

Why do I state positive trues and yet there are some negative occurrences that still occurs? This is because of the missing ingredients of the spiritual world. What am I talking about?

I am talking about building. Any relationship can look or seem good on the outside, like wood or fruit that looks good and not good within. You may say but you can see wood start to rot, or a fruit turn bad. You know what I am going to say, so Ill say it.

Bad things start inside before they manifest outside. (Real is unseen, unreal is seen). Back to this later. Just remember this truth, -spirit then mind then body, unseen then seen.

This missing ingredient I said before from the spirit world is the very ingredient, the very thing that is missing in relationships. It is called what it is missing ingredient (for now).

Its the plus in an A+, its the 10 in 110%, and its the unexpecting hope that is easily not seen, and yet easy to be seen. (Weirdness, I know), but these things will unfold, keep reading.

Back to the situation from before, my parents, they were just different. They were odd. They were special, I basically seen how they acted and read between the lines. They acted in ways that you may say are not possible, how could they, how could I be like that? It doesnt matter about every detail of their lives; I am the way I am from them.

By my mother, I never was told not to cheat, or should I say I was never told. She was a person who did not have the friends people had. What do I mean? My mother, I cannot remember seeing with any friends. She took me to and from school, etc. etc. What does this have to do with the subject? (Hold on please, Im getting there).

By my father, I was never told not to cheat. Him, I also never seen with friends. But, he would come straight home after work. What does this mean?

This means that their ways are in me (I know thats obvious, what else you say), also, something about this relates to not being a cheater.

Somehow these missing-friends seemed to help built a relationship with them not cheating on each other and it is in me.

I know I either lost you or you probably think I am implying that one cannot have friends; I am not implying this.

By my parents not having friends, I (simply-thinking) think it helped them focus on each other. I definitely do not think this is all that helped them-not cheat, but no one can persuade me that it hurt them being together.

I was not told I couldnt have friends, decades ago I had the amount of friends you can count on one hand. But today, I do not really have friends, (visiting friend-friends). I believe I like people, but I just do not make the effort to invite over, and I do not go and visit.

Why are we this way? Why are we odd like this? I really cannot explain, I am tempted to just say I know not or I dont know (but this would be a lie). I believe I know and the answer is, God made me this way. You see, this phrase is overused, but its the only one I can think of (right now), without creating another book. But I will tell you, God does not make anything negative, or that does not make sense. What you do not understand now, you will understand later, if its godly, (keep reading). Whatever is ungodly will be misunderstood forever, even when trying to understand, (there I go again). Let me open up to you (a little) right now, (more later)...but.

When I wrote these things you have just read in this chapter, I do not write thinking I am better than you. I write these trues to make you better.

I am overly humble and too self critical at times. So critical, that I used to keep my mouth shut about relationships. I know I always had what it takes to get the truth out, but I had no boldness.

Now I stand in boldness, and go that extra mile by going that mile. The mile that I was not used to. The mile-never ran. I now run this mile for the women of the world.

On a more (developed-thinking) level, on a deeper-thinking level as opposed to my first stated (simply-thinking), I do not cheat because my parents (especially father) doesnt cheat. This does not prove anything, I know, but just keep reading, (I will not say this phrase again.)

As you find out and see more of me in my writing, you will see that truth and ways of truth will come out, and you can judge for yourself.

This chapter was to be about foundations. As best I tried to express, it will all come together. Foundations never seem like much. You never see the final result yet. But, everything lies upon the foundation. Good foundations last, no matter how they seem, understanding them or not.