Christine Craggs-Hinton, mother of three, followed a career in the Civil Service until, in 1991, she developed fibromyalgia, a chronic pain condition. Christine took up writing for therapeutic reasons and has, in the past few years, produced more than a dozen health-related self-help books for Sheldon Press. She also writes for the Fibromyalgia Association UK and the UK Fibromyalgia magazine called FaMily . A few years ago, Christine and her husband moved to the Canary Islands where she works as the agony aunt and health writer for a local newspaper.
Overcoming Common Problems Series
Selected titles
101 Questions to Ask Your Doctor
Dr Tom Smith
Birth Over 35
Sheila Kitzinger
Coeliac Disease: What you need to know
Alex Gazzola
Coping Successfully with Chronic Illness: Your healing pain
Neville Shone
Coping Successfully with Shyness
Margaret Oakes, Professor Robert Bor and Dr Carina Eriksen
Coping with Anaemia
Dr Tom Smith
Coping with Asthma in Adults
Mark Greener
Coping wth Bronchitis and Emphysema
Dr Tom Smith
Coping with Drug Problems in the Family
Lucy Jolin
Coping with Early-onset Dementia
Jill Eckersley
Coping with Eating Disorders and Body Image
Christine Craggs-Hinton
Coping with Gout
Christine Craggs-Hinton
Coping with Manipulation: When others blame you for their feelings
Dr Windy Dryden
Coping with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder
Professor Kevin Gournay, Rachel Piper and Professor Paul Rogers
Coping with Stomach Ulcers
Dr Tom Smith
Depressive Illness: The curse of the strong
Dr Tim Cantopher
The Diabetes Healing Diet
Mark Greener and Christine Craggs-Hinton
Dying for a Drink
Dr Tim Cantopher
Epilepsy: Complementary and alternative treatments
Dr Sallie Baxendale
Fibromyalgia: Your Treatment Guide
Christine Craggs-Hinton
The Heart Attack Survival Guide
Mark Greener
How to Beat Worry and Stress
Dr David Devlin
How to Come Out of Your Comfort Zone
Dr Windy Dryden
How to Develop Inner Strength
Dr Windy Dryden
How to Eat Well When You Have Cancer
Jane Freeman
Lets Stay Together: A guide to lasting relationships
Jane Butterworth
Living with IBS
Nuno Ferreira and David T. Gillanders
Losing a Parent
Fiona Marshall
Making Sense of Trauma: How to tell your story
Dr Nigel C. Hunt and Dr Sue McHale
Motor Neurone Disease: A family affair
Dr David Oliver
Natural Treatment for Arthritis
Christine Craggs-Hinton
Overcoming Loneliness
Alice Muir
The Pain Management Handbook: Your personal guide
Neville Shone
The Panic Workbook
Dr Carina Eriksen, Professor Robert Borand Margaret Oakes
Reducing Your Risk of Dementia
Dr Tom Smith
Therapy for Beginners: How to get the best out of counselling
Professor Robert Bor, Sheila Gill and Anne Stokes
Transforming Eight Deadly Emotions into Healthy Ones
Dr Windy Dryden
Treating Arthritis: The drug-free way
Margaret Hills and Christine Horner
Treating Arthritis: The supplements guide
Julia Davies
When Someone You Love Has Depression: A handbook for family and friends
Barbara Baker
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Contents
I thank you all for the wonderful feedback I received from my previous fibromyalgia books it has inspired me to write this one. I know from personal experience how challenging life is when you have fibromyalgia, and I have worked hard to give my very best help and advice. Dont ever think you have tried every option. There is always another door to open, somewhere along the way.
Every effort has been made to ensure that the information in this book is accurate and current at the time of publication. The author and the publisher cannot accept responsibility for any misuse or misunderstanding of any information contained herein. The opinions and suggestions in this book are not intended to replace medical opinion. Indeed, the overview of prescription drugs is intended only to familiarize you with the medications most commonly prescribed for fibromyalgia and with those that are newly developed. This information is certainly not meant to replace medical advice and treatment. If you have concerns about your health, please seek a professional opinion.
We now suspect that the biblical Job had fibromyalgia. He wrote:
I have been allotted months of futility, and nights of misery have been assigned to me. When I lie down I think, How long before I get up? The night drags on, and I toss and turn until dawn And now my life ebbs away; days of suffering grip me. Night pierces my bones; my gnawing pains never rest.
(Job 7.34; 30.1617)
Good health is something we take for granted, until we no longer have it. A small percentage of us develop long-term conditions such as fibromyalgia in which we hurt all over, feel lacklustre and tired, find it difficult to achieve anything and can feel out of control. The best treatment strategy is not to fight the illness, but to go along with its demands until you have armed yourself with the tools with which to make positive changes. The best tool you can have available is self-education, where you learn for yourself as much as possible about whats wrong and find out what can be done for the very best outcome. Then inch by inch, step by step, you can move towards taking control once more.
Taking control involves learning how to use pacing so you dont overtax yourself, thinking twice before committing yourself, and turning should do, ought to do and must do into will maybe do or, better still, Ill see how things go before I make a decision. For the people who ignore the challenge of making positive changes to their lives lives that must, for now, incorporate a certain amount of pain every action is a chore, every thought may be dark. Those people are also liable to move further away from getting back their lives.
Living with fibromyalgia isnt easy, as I myself know. Its a trial to change patterns of thinking and behaving, its a trial to motivate ourselves to eat more healthily and start a gentle exercise routine. It doesnt help that when we make the effort to exercise we are rewarded by increased pain the next day and have no choice but to stay in bed, perhaps for weeks. Neither does it help that when we take the recommended medications and herbal remedies, we react badly and have to give them up. Is it worth all the effort, we might ask ourselves. We know deep down, though, that it is, for we are more than a bunch of symptoms, more than the faade we present to the world. We should therefore not only acknowledge the things that are important to us, but also think of things we can do, that are within our scope, that help us feel good about ourselves. Achievements, whether they are large or tiny, add positivity to life, raise our self-esteem and make us feel less of a drain on others.