2015 by Jason Helopoulos
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I wish I could have read this book when I was just starting out in ministry. Jasons writing is marked by grace, biblical insight, and the sure-footed wisdom that only comes from experience. This personal, practical volume will serve as a valuable guide for many young pastors, and quite a few older ones too.
Kevin DeYoung, senior pastor of University Reformed Church; author of Crazy Busy : A ( Mercifully ) Short Book about a ( Really ) Big Problem
The joys of pastoral ministry are enormous, but so are the challenges. Helopouloss work is a welcome guide for new pastors as they confront the many difficult issues new pastors regularly face. New pastors and their churches will be greatly served by this book.
R. Albert Mohler Jr., president of Southern Baptist Theological Seminary
I wish The New Pastor s Handbook had been available when I was starting out. Thirty-nine years on, it is a helpful reminder to do the basics. I commend it enthusiastically.
Alistair Begg, senior pastor of Parkside Church
If you are sensing a call to ministry or in the early years of ministry, this book is a must read. As a pastor for over thirty years, I find Jasons book has reenergized my own calling. May God use it as a template for gospel training.
Bob Bouwer, senior pastor of Faith Church (RCA)
Finally , a practical and thorough guide for real pastors in the trenches of real ministry . This book tells you what they don t tell you in seminary . I have been in some form of ministry for twenty years now , and this is precisely the sort of book I could have used at the outset of my service to the church . Pastor Helopoulos shows us how we are to be not only shepherds of God s flock but also , more fundamentally , shepherds of our own hearts and homes . I want to get this into the hands of every seminary student and every new pastor to the end that Jesus Christ might be glorified in our love and care of his bride .
Burk Parsons, copastor of Saint Andrews Chapel; editor of Tabletalk magazine
Jason Helopoulos has written a modern classic that will prove to be as helpful as The Christian Ministry by Charles Bridges has been since 1830. Every new or young pastor should consider this required reading as they follow Gods call in their life to serve the church.
Joe Thorn, lead pastor of Redeemer Fellowship
So who is helping younger pastors these days, especially in their first church? It is hard to come up with a name or two. Well, you can add Jason Helopoulos to the list. Jason has a burden to reach out and help younger pastors, and he can help you too in The New Pastor s Handbook .
Aubrey Malphurs, professor of leadership and pastoral ministries at Dallas Theological Seminary; founder of the Malphurs Group
Where was this book when I was first ordained? The New Pastor s Handbook is the perfect book to give to a new pastor (or an old one, for that!). Ultrapractical and stuffed full of timeless wisdom, this is a book I will recommend often and reread regularly.
Tim Challies, author of The Next Story ; pastor of Grace Fellowship Church
To Paul Settle, Ligon Duncan, Thomas Watson, John Calvin, Richard Baxter, and Jonathan Edwardsfaithful pastors who have shaped and informed my own pastoring in significant ways.
Contents
Cover
Title Page
Copyright Page
Endorsements
Dedication
Foreword by Ligon Duncan
Acknowledgments
Opening Words: A Holy Calling
Part 1 The Beginning
1. What Is a Call?
2. How Do You Know Whether You Are Called?
3. Candidating
Part 2 Starting Out Strong
4. As a Senior or Solo Pastor
5. As an Assistant Pastor
6. As a Youth Pastor
7. As a Church Planter
8. The Secret and Simplicity of Ministry
9. Your Early Ministry Focus
10. Strain Your Eyes: Read Often and Widely
11. Shepherd Your First Flock: Caring for Your Family
12. Know Your History: Learn about the Church You Are Serving
13. Personal Holiness Matters
14. No One Is Looking over Your Shoulder: Use Your Time Well
15. They Want to Follow: Leadership
16. Lose Control: Equip the Saints
17. Find a Friend
18. Trust His Means: Rely on the Word, Sacraments, and Prayer
19. Reading Scripture and Prayer
20. Slow to Speak, Quick to Listen: Listening to Your People
21. Ministry before Our Eyes
22. You Cant Do Everything: Busyness and the Pastorate
23. If You Pastor, They Will Come: Listening to Complaints
24. Silent Suffering
25. Thankfulness for the Congregation
26. Dual Purposes
27. Administration to the Glory of God
29. Weddings and Funerals
30. Hospital Visitations
31. Leading Meetings
Part 4 Pitfalls of Young Pastors
32. Beginning Too Fast
33. Idealistic Zeal
34. Discouragement
35. Taking Yourself Too Seriously: Substituting Self for Christ
36. Not Taking Yourself Seriously Enough
37. Here We Go Again: Theological Hobbyhorses
38. Giraffe Syndrome: Lack of Contentment
39. One Size Fits All
40. Devastated by People
41. Lecture Sermons
42. Illustrations and Applications Gone Awry
43. Iron Grip: Holding People Too Tightly
44. Pastor Envy
Part 5 Joys of Ministry
45. An Eternal Work
46. Confidant: A Trusted Position
47. We Get Paid for This? The Privilege of Ministering
Closing Words: Perseverance in the Ministry
Suggested Reading
Notes
Back Cover
Foreword
T he apostle Paul once wrote to a young pastor and said, Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a worker who has no need to be ashamed, rightly handling the word of truth (2 Tim. 2:15). In fact, Pauls letters are filled with those kinds of exhortations, specifically intended for those starting out in ministry.
Train yourself for godliness. (1 Tim. 4:7)
Let no one despise you for your youth, but set the believers an example in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith, in purity. (1 Tim. 4:12)
So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart. Have nothing to do with foolish, ignorant controversies; you know that they breed quarrels. And the Lords servant must not be quarrelsome but kind to everyone, able to teach, patiently enduring evil, correcting his opponents with gentleness. God may perhaps grant them repentance leading to a knowledge of the truth, and they may come to their senses and escape from the snare of the devil, after being captured by him to do his will. (2 Tim. 2:2226)
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