Endorsements
We are living in an abundance of undercooked advice, which is why we so desperately need voices who have done the work, plumbed the depths, and harvested true wisdom to guide us. I can think of no better way to describe the writings of Jen Pollock Michel. If you feel overwhelmed by your pace of life or your schedule feels like a bucking bronco, you will find more than simple, helpful steps in these pages, though they are many! You will also discover tender, theological riches.
Sharon Hodde Miller, author of The Cost of Control
Here is a worthwhile meditation on how to steward the greatest resource that doesnt actually belong to us: time.
Justin Whitmel Earley, business lawyer and author of The Common Rule and Habits of the Household
Once again, Jen Michel delivers. I was drawn by her honesty, storytelling, and practical wisdom. If you find yourself exhausted by the constant pressure to produce and long for a new way forward, her words will light the path.
Anjuli Paschall, author of Stay and Awake
This book resonated deeply. Too many of us see time as a problem to be solved and a puzzle to be managed. But Jen Pollock Michel invites us to see time as a gift to be received and a mystery to be embraced. This books wisdom is rich, immersive, beautifully written, and casually profound. Get yourself a copy and read it in an unrushed way.
Brett McCracken, senior editor at The Gospel Coalition and author of The Wisdom Pyramid
Jen Michel uses words as her medium and paints gorgeous, soul-lifting art through her writing. A perfect blend of scholarly depth and lived experience, In Good Time offers hope, peace, and perspective for our hurried, anxious lives. Read slowly and savor this beautiful offering. I wholeheartedly recommend this book.
Vivian Mabuni, speaker, author of Open Hands, Willing Heart , and founder and podcast host of Someday Is Here
Capacious in its heart and learning, In Good Time is just the sort of book we need to practice inhabiting time as clear-eyed, hopeful, and resilient disciples of Jesus.
Ashley Hales , PhD, author of A Spacious Life and Finding Holy in the Suburbs
In Good Time is for all of us who imagine that the solution to our anxiety lies between the covers of the next great time management book. Jen Pollock Michels wise and gentle reflections on learning new habits of being and receiving the lives we have been given are a balm for every soul weary from the relentless pursuit of productivity.
Amy Julia Becker, award-winning author of To Be Made Well and White Picket Fences
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Title Page
Copyright Page
2022 by Jen Pollock Michel
Published by Baker Books
a division of Baker Publishing Group
PO Box 6287, Grand Rapids, MI 49516-6287
www.bakerbooks.com
Ebook edition created 2022
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ISBN 978-1-5409-0263-4 (casebound)
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Dedication
To my children:
Audrey, Nathan, Camille, Andrew, and Colin.
Thank you for your patience with me.
I love who you are and are becoming
all in good time.
Contents
Endorsements
Half Title Page
Title Page
Copyright Page
Dedication
Epigraph
PART 1 ON TIME ANXIETY
In the Year of Our Lord 2020
YOLO
Life Hack
On Living the Lords Time
PART 2 ON TIME FAITH
Habit 1: Begin
Habit 2: Receive
Habit 3: Belong
Habit 4: Offer
Habit 5: Wait
Habit 6: Practice
Habit 7: Enjoy
Habit 8: Remember
Afterword: In Which I Dont Give Up Reading Time Management Books
Acknowledgments
Notes
About the Author
Back Ads
Back Cover
Epigraph
However many be the days remaining to me,
I will do all things for the love of God.
Brother Lawrence
Part 1: On Time Anxiety
In the Year of Our Lord 2020
W hen the cloud of the pandemic grew dark, we wereof all placesat the beach. Torontos airport had been crowded on the day of our departure. The COVID-19 virus still felt like a distant, foreign crisis.
The sky was cloudless after our arrival. Every morning, I woke early to watch the sun rise like a yolk in the sky. My husband, Ryan, on the other hand, was waylaid by a stomach bug. Most of the week he saw little more than the tiled bathroom floor.
We were taking our first beach vacation with four of our five kids, as our oldest was off to college: Nathan, a high school senior; Camille, a high school sophomore; Andrew and Colin, twin seventh graders. They scheduled their days around meals and multiple trips to the snack bar, filling up on fries before dinner. Every morning, water aerobics began promptly at 11:00 a.m., as the speakers blared YMCA and the pool filled with people.
Then without warning the utensils disappeared from the buffet lines, replaced by small bottles of hand sanitizer. Soon, staff were standing at every restaurant entrance and exit, pumping the antibacterial protection into guests hands. On Thursday, one day after the WHO declared COVIDs historic news, I spent an entire morning pleading by phone with Audrey, our oldest daughter, who was living in a dormitory on McGills Montreal campus, to come home.
Initially, this was a crisis to last six weeks. Six weeks we would absent ourselves from the bustle of normal life. Six weeks we planned to stay home. But six weeks did not solve the crisis or leave it behind. By May, as graduations and summer camps canceled, as many colleges and universities planned for a virtual return in the fall, normal was a receding shore, growing ever more distant.
Were living the Lords time! my friend in California said to me over the phone six months later. Like many women, she felt tugged between professional and domestic lifebetween managing her three childrens virtual learning and her pressing work deadlines. The home renovation that had stalled in March was again underway, and she was managing that too. Pandemic time was a thousand years passing like a day, a day passing like a thousand years.