I cant think of a better person than Pablo Martinez to write a book on prayer and personality. Pablo understands and loves people he also knows God and wants people to connect with Him. This book will help you understand yourself more and help you develop an intimate and powerful prayer life.
Wendy Beech-Ward, Director of Spring Harvest
Christians whose praying is difficult will find this book encouraging and enlightening. Pablo Martinez emphasises the way that how we pray is very much influenced by our personality and we are all different. There are different prayers for different people.
As a struggling, failing but believing Christian and as a psychiatrist practising for many years I would highly commend this short but influential work.
Professor Andrew Sims, former President of the Royal College of Psychiatrists
Knowing who we are greatly influences how we relate to God and to one another, and this book provides us with a fresh understanding of these dynamics, especially as they relate to prayer. This is not guilt-inducing but deeply liberating. Pablo Martinez demonstrates how prayer should be God-centred and God-honouring, but also health-giving and restorative. It is a wonderfully motivating book and I warmly commend it.
Jonathan Lamb, Director, Langham Preaching, and Chairman, Keswick Ministries
Thoughtful, helpful and encouraging. It helps us understand both who we are talking with and why some patterns and models of prayer will come more naturally than others.
Michael Ramsden, European Director, RZIM Zacharias Trust
Profoundly simple, this book helped me understand myself and others, but, more importantly, helped me to pray.
Hugh Palmer, Rector of All Souls, Langham Place, London
An earlier version of this material appeared under the title Prayer Life .
PRAYING WITH THE GRAIN
How your personality affects the way you pray
PABLO MARTNEZ
Copyright 2001, 2012 by Pablo Martnez.
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First published in the UK in 2001 by Spring Harvest Publishing Division and Paternoster Lifestyle, under the title Prayer Life .
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Contents
Prayer in relation to temperament
Emotional problems and prayer
Prayer a love relationship
The most frequently asked questions on prayer
A psychiatrists viewpoint
Christian prayer and Eastern meditation
Pablo Martnez
Dr Pablo Martnez is a medical doctor and psychiatrist working currently at a private practice in Barcelona. He has also developed a wide ministry as a lecturer, counsellor, and itinerant speaker. He has been a plenary Bible teacher in more than thirty countries in Europe and both North and South America. He has served as President of the Spanish Evangelical Alliance (19992009) and for seven years was Professor of Pastoral Psychology at the Spanish Theological Seminary. He was a member of the Executive Committee of the International Christian Medical and Dental Association (ICMDA), also serving as one of the organizations vice-presidents.
He was one of the members of the founding council of the London Institute for Contemporary Christianity (1982) and has been a regular speaker at Word Alive and Spring Harvest.
He developed his pastoral gifts serving as an elder in his local church for almost twenty-five years. He is currently chairman of the European Christian Counsellors Network, a body connected to the European Leadership Forum, where Dr Martnez serves as a member of the steering committee. He is also a member of the Sociopolitical Commission of the European Evangelical Alliance.
He has authored two other books: Tracing the Rainbow: Walking Through Loss and Bereavement (Authentic Media, 2004), and A Thorn in the Flesh: Finding strength and hope amid suffering (Inter-Varsity Press, England, 2007).
Pablo is married to Marta, who is also a medical doctor. He enjoys bird-watching and reading.
Foreword
I have enjoyed the friendship of Pablo Martnez for more than twenty years and am grateful for the opportunity to commend this book to a wide readership.
It is not difficult to pinpoint its special value. Here is a psychiatrist who is committed to Christ, knows his Bible, rejoices in Christs cross, has a lively sympathy for struggling Christians and has much wisdom born of rich pastoral experience. These ingredients together make a strong mixture!
Dr Martnez accepts the Jungian distinction between extroverts and introverts, and his classification of four main psychological types. He is surely right to insist that our temperament is a genetic endowment, and that the new birth does not change it, although grace helps us to live with it and the Holy Spirit changes us into the likeness of Christ. He urges us to discover who we are, and to accept and respect each other in the rich diversity of the human family. As we study his thorough portraiture of different psychological types, we soon recognize ourselves and our friends.
Next he comes to the practice of prayer and how our prayers are affected by our temperament and personality. There are different styles of prayer which suit different kinds of people; he is an enemy of all stereotypes. He also faces honestly some of the problems which Christians experience, and makes practical suggestions for solving them. He urges us to persevere, because of the therapeutic value of prayer.
But our author is also familiar with the contours of contemporary thought and knows about the current influences which are hostile to prayer. In his last two chapters he tackles these. He develops a robust defence both of the authenticity of Christian prayer, against the slander that it is mere autosuggestion, and of the uniqueness of Christian prayer, against the claim that it is no different from Eastern meditation.
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