This book invites the soul to a celebrationa party. It sings of grace and it offers a vision of hope we have lost in our day. No age is more in need of the radical call to live as sons and daughters of God. We strive endlessly; we are exhausted, depleted, and lonely. Is this the abundant life? What is the problem? Few have the courage of Rose Marie Miller to say it simply and forthrightlythe problem is self-righteousness. Rose Marie offers us a profoundly personal and painful glimpse into her story, exposes the dark corners of our self-righteousness, and invites us to dance with God. Get ready to party.
Dan Allender, psychologist, speaker, and author of Bold Love and The Wounded Heart
God has used Jack and Rose Marie Millers work and Sonship seminars to do a deep work in many peoples lives. No ministry today more effectively communicates the love of Christ to the hearts of people.
Larry Crabb, psychologist, author, and speaker
This book gave me a new perspective and a clearer vision of how Gods grace frees and steadies his children. I would recommend it to anyone who has been burdened by guilt, anger, or anxiety and yet has believed in Christ.
Valerie Shephard, pastors wife and mother of eight
Rose Marie Millers story is simple, fresh, and engaging. There is something in her self-disclosure that opens small permanent fissures in my own heart. The Word is able to seep into these cracks, renewing me in Gods grace and enacting desperately needed changes.
John Smed, Coordinator of Church Planting, Mission to North America, Presbyterian Church of America
Mrs. Millers story has touched me deeply, offering hope that God could touch others lives through me with the power of Jesus love, not by my own efforts. Once you begin this journey through ten key years of Rose Maries life, you wont want to stopits a real page-turner. And watch outGods grace might transform you too.
Connie McDowell, businesswoman and pastors wife
This is a beautiful book, worth writing and very much worth reading. You have given a lot just to your children and grandchildren by leaving this record of grace working in your life. I hope many others will also read it.
Barbara Juliani, Rose Maries daughter and coauthor of Come Back, Barbara
This book is written with the intent to disturb you so much that you get spiritually renewed by Jesus. It is one of the few books today that deserves to be read and reread and reread.
David McCarty, U.S. Director, World Harvest Mission
As I taught this book to women who lived in the inner city, Rose Maries struggle to see herself as loved because of Christs righteousness, and not because of her own achievements, mirrored their own struggle to find grace, and to know Christs presence in the face of disappointing results.
Mrs. Ruth Correnti, inner city pastors wife
In a world where it is tempting to try to explain and manage everything, Rose Marie confronts us with the truth that there are no guarantees in life. When our dreams are frustrated, we can either try to manage on our own by withdrawing, getting busy, or becoming bitter or overwhelmed, or we can return to Jesus, putting our hope in his Word, believing his promises, and finding comfort.
Joanne Stahl, Sonship Discipler and Consultant, World Harvest Mission
From Fear to Freedom
P UBLISHED B Y W ATER B ROOK P RESS
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Copyright 1994 by Rose Marie Miller
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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Miller, Rose Marie, 1924
From fear to freedom : living as sons and daughters of God / Rose Marie Miller.
p. cm.
eISBN: 978-0-307-76892-6
1. Miller, Rose Marie, 1924-. 2. PresbyteriansUnited StatesBiography.
3. Justification. 4. Christian lifePresbyterian authors. I. Title.
BX9225. M457A3 1994
285.1092dc20 94-13660
v3.1
To Jack, my husband, friend, and partner,
who always saw more potential in me
than I saw in myself;
To my children and grandchildren
who are heirs to the legacy
of transforming grace;
And to the men and women who,
weary of acting like orphans,
have discovered again the delight
of being sons and daughters
of their Father in heaven;
I dedicate this book.
CONTENTS
2 Facing the Pain:
I Dont Even Know If God Exists
3 Uncovering Deadly Patterns:
The Sins of the Generations
5 Seeing the Counterfeit:
The Moralist Meets the Hooker
9 Stepping into Partnership:
Confident As Gods Child
12 Submitting to Sovereign Love:
An Orphan No Longer
Appendix A
Martin Luthers Introduction to His Commentary on Galatians
Appendix B
Summary of Orphan and Son/Daughter Traits
Foreword
R ose Maries testimony is that the reality of being sons and daughters of God is at the heart of the Christian life, and to miss it is to live like an orphan robbed of joy She has the kind of excitement about Christ and the forgiving grace of the gospel that Francis Schaeffer had in his life when during a crisis he had newly discovered the present value of the blood of Christ.
There is a hunger among people today to get to the heart of the New Testament message. Becky Morgan, a lawyer in Asheville, North Carolina, recently wrote to Rose Marie about how her sonship teaching is helping her and a good friend. She says, About a year ago, a close friend of mine, wife of a local pastor, got your Sonship series, and radical changes began to occur. Though a seminary graduate, she said it was as if shed never heard of justification by faith! Becky explains:
She and I had been praying together for revival. Wed been brought to repentance over some deep sins in our families and over pride in ministry. Wed been devouring everything we could get by Dr. Lloyd-Jones and biographies of Whitefield, Edwards, and Spurgeon, trying to get ruthlessly honest before Christ. And then came your training seriesand the message of sonship and grace has come into sharp focus. We are so excited. Another friend, a leader in ministry to women, struggling with a perfectionistic fix-it kind of personal history, has been profoundly impactedespecially by your testimony, Rose Marie.
Becky and her friends are saying that they, like Rose Marie, have been surprised by grace and that they keep being surprised by grace. They marvel at the liberation that comes when you no longer think of the gospel as a message relevant only to non-Christians.